Marriage & Divorce - 18 September 2007

I don't know what to do to stop it happening again. I wasn't on for it but after a while I gave in and kissed so as not to make a scene and embarrass her. I need the other student's support and it could [almost certainly] make things harder and turn the girl aganst me if I turned her down flat. I don't need the other students ostracising me...... I did say no [gently but consistently] when she slipped the hand but how does one avoid this happening again?...... It's only once but she said that she's felt this way for a long time and if you could have felt the pent up need in her then you'd know that she's serious. Drunk, but serious.

2007-09-18 03:31:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with my husband for 6 years, through good and bad and some down right terrible times. he can be a moody person sometimes and i am a quiet person so he can bully me abit or critisise the way i do things. sometimes we get on good and then suddenly it takes a nose dive and war breaks out. i have made mistakes such as texting another man, but at the time my home life was awful. we got through it and then he did the same to me. again we got through that (we have never slept with anyone else)

we moved 250 miles away to have a new life together but then on thursday we went out and at the end of the night a man i didnt know spoke to me for 2 minutes. my husband went mental and that night he pushed me around and gripped my arms so tight i have bruises on my neck and arms.

what should i do? did i casue this by talking to this man for 2 minutes whilst waiting to go home? should i leave? i have put my heart and soul into my marriage and now i have bruises. should i leave

2007-09-18 03:29:39 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had to walk away frm her because she was such a drain on me even as a friend but I know she needs me, though she is so out of control I fear her mothers death will push her over the edge but I dont want to push myself over in the process. What are safe boundaries or should I just not be there at all? Thanks

2007-09-18 03:25:47 · 6 answers · asked by rubygarnetglow 1

It been 2 weeks sense my wife and I have had sex. last weekend was my birthday. Sex has been 3 time a weeks and she seemed interested but i have the higher sex drive. She said she not interested in sex at all. Nothing. I asked her if it was me or if she doesn't desire me anymore or doesn't love me. she says she doesn't bust does not have the interest for sex. SHe said she she has been trying but she cant. She promised me for my birthday she would and she always pushed me me away when i was in the mood. It wasn't rushed either we went out had a romantic time everyday all weekend and nothing. I don't know what to do. But sex has been less but not it has stopped. I feel hurt and lost that my wife doest want me. She said she does nothing in terms of sex. She has to go to the doctor for new birth pill. I dont killed her sex drive but she been on then for 2 years. we been married for 6 months. She been reluctant set an appointment.Additional Details
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she is 21 and im 22. have n kids and she doesnt work.
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I haven't really been pushing her. she said birthday weekend we would make love have romantic time. I took her dinner then went dancing gosh we had really good time. when we got home and i close she would push me away then she told she wasnt interested in sex anymore
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she was the the one who broke my virginity. When we were engaged and first married we had sex 3 times a day. She want try all the positions. we talk abou how old we be still make love. All that is gone. I just feel lost how she opened me up now she is closed.
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Well I tired talking to her and she got very angry on the phone. When i got home she would not talk to me. SO i took her a message place for hour and half and really cheered her up and took her to dinner. I was really tired when i got home. So i went to bed and she woke me up was sitting on me naked and started making out with me and rubbing her self on me. When i started she said no and laid next with her back to me. I tired talking to her again she told me she bored with her life and need something to do. But she says she wont go out with out me, has not tried to work or making friends. Then she started to cry and said everything ok and she say go away to me she smashed her pillow on her face trying to suffocate her self and I stopped her and she said she didnt love me and we both cried and finally she said she wasnt good enough for me which i told her she is and that i love her. Now she does says she does love me. Last night we talked simple talk

2007-09-18 03:21:00 · 20 answers · asked by Nordic god 1

2007-09-18 03:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by Jovita N 1

2007-09-18 03:02:10 · 28 answers · asked by DAY-DAY 1

I'm a reggaeton spanish singer and my manager just told me that it won't be a good idea for my wife to go to the shows because she doesn't want my wife to get mad if she see another woman grabbing or my dancer making dancing move on me. Plus I have to tae out my married ring off just to make my fans beleive that I'm single. I don't know wath to do. For my part I think she should go the the shows and she should stay backstage while I perform then after we could go home.

2007-09-18 02:54:57 · 27 answers · asked by Bucanero 1

Would you justify their actions at all?

2007-09-18 02:53:04 · 41 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3

I haven't gotten to do it in weeks. I am getting really frustrated because I really enjoy it. There is nothing wrong down there, it is the right time and she is healthy. I asked. Everytime I make the move she stops me. I know she is not cheating or anything like that. What is wrong?

2007-09-18 02:53:03 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean when you fight or you are mad at him... do you use this threat as the most powerful weapon? How he reacts?

2007-09-18 02:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3

She was abusing his son, and he left her with everything except his son and personal belongings. She would have been the one to file. How can we find out if she did?

2007-09-18 02:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by llnlln56 5

Well, the dog started barking at 4:00 am even though she'd been out and hour earlier. Is this the way to start a morning? I have to get ready and get my kids ready for school (no, she's too little to take care of the dog). I called my husband and said, "That's it - you decide - it's me or the dog". No, I wasn't yelling, I was crying. I explained to him that this was when our lives were supposed to have less stress - not added stress from a dog. I work full time and bring home almost as much as he does. I pay 1/2 the mortgage. He just bought himself a mercedes even though he has another car. I come home from work and cook. I do most of the laundry. I make the beds every morning. He works and sometimes has lunch with friends, or goes to his mother's to eat/nap. He lets the dog out when he comes home. This is not a breed that should be left alone all day. So, I guess I will find out when I get home. I love my husband very much - but I cannot deal with the stress.

2007-09-18 02:40:07 · 17 answers · asked by Josie L 1

I am dating this guy who seems like a good guy. He is 33 and has spent the last 15 years in a relationship. He said his 1st relationship of 10 years was with his middle school sweet heart which you know puppy love never last. His 2nd relationship was 5 years which he now has a 4-year-old daughter. He admits he was not always a saint, but he do like long term relationships, and is currently looking for one, and feels he now know what to do right. The thing is he really does not have anything. Both relationships were between his teenage and post high school years which meant he was dating these women, but still living at home. He asked me what I was looking for in a man, and I told him. I then added the man has to be financially stable. I made it clear that he did not need to be stable to take care of me, but stable to take care of himself.

2007-09-18 02:38:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Name at least one bad thing your husband has done to you.

Name one thing he has done to someone else.

Men you can do the same for your wife, or girlfriend.

Also, what happened after this was done?

2007-09-18 02:37:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has recently lost his job but is working once again but he does not like his new job and drinks a lot. If he just drinks beer, he is ok but if starts drinking liquor, he gets real angry and mean. He told me yesterday that we wants a divorce and he don't love me anymore(he was drinking). I don't want to just give up on our relationship. We have been married for 5 years and together for 11 years. A lot of my fears is to be alone and that I never would see him again because he would move back by his family 2000 miles away. I have a problem being alone almost like separation anxiety. I asked him yesterday for us to go to some counseling or him to go to a doctor to get some help and he says he does not need any help nor does he want us to go to counseling. I am just scared on one side when he is drinking because he starts breaking things and throws threats and on the other side I don't want to be alone. Please help me.

2007-09-18 02:26:18 · 22 answers · asked by puzzlefan2000 2

Well either that or they just don't care and want what they want........ I regret that night of drunkenness and it was only *one night*. [we've all made drunken mistakes]. But how do I stop them kissing me [and slipping their hands]? I like them all and I need their support to a large degree and so I guess that I have to just shut up and put up But this can't go on. So, what to do?..... People have said: 'tell the University' but the students would ostracise me.

They're all girls and I'm a boy. So as you understand the dynamics. They're all nice, just a little too friendly. And the one last night told me she has felt this way for a long time.

2007-09-18 02:17:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son is 7 months old...i moved from georgia to florida when he was 3 months, I had to leave due to domestic violence...I never called the cops, just left and went to a shelter...now we have to go to court 9/27...the father is wanting temporary and full custody of him....Im a great mother, have my own place now, have a great job, and in no way I am not an unfit mother...i am everything but that...but im worried he will get custody....

2007-09-18 01:34:20 · 18 answers · asked by Amanda 2

and wives?

2007-09-18 01:03:00 · 29 answers · asked by VG! 1

a site know your past life?

2007-09-18 01:00:12 · 6 answers · asked by Row d 1

Would you think your husband is cheating if the neigbor is checking him out every time they see each other outside and they both leave at the same time for work in the morning? I think this ugly neigbor has a think for my man and i don't like it when he be trying to look too. What do you think is gone on? What will be the signs if you are cheating with the neigbor? We purpose to get married in 10 days from now, but I don't want to married him if he and the neigbor have something together. What's your best answer?

2007-09-18 00:46:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i watch jerry springer alot and just wondered what peoples thoughts were about people admitting to cheating on live tv and embarrassing their partners.should all the secrets be said at home

2007-09-18 00:35:07 · 5 answers · asked by kentucky_fried_chickie 1

What would YOU do if you saw a strange man coming out of your house? Especially after she took him to the cleaners like she did.

2007-09-18 00:07:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous