I haven't gotten to do it in weeks. I am getting really frustrated because I really enjoy it. There is nothing wrong down there, it is the right time and she is healthy. I asked. Everytime I make the move she stops me. I know she is not cheating or anything like that. What is wrong?
2007-09-18 02:53:03 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well maybe she's insecure bout down there..she doesnt have to be cheating to reject that from u...if u used 2 do that often maybe she's tired of it..maybe u are a lil rough...maybe now she jus doesnt feel for u doing it...like losing the spark and the pleasure...maybe its isnt as pleasurable for her now bcuz u ask2do it often and it seems like more pleasure for u than for her..maybe u need2step up ur game and try some different techniques bcuz its possible for her 2 be bored with it..try something new...make it fun and pleasurable but still sexy and intimate..like my man and I...we have different levels of skill...amature,novice,intermediate,master and his own technique...majestic...and once u think shes bored with one level...upgrade her/ur skills to the next level...but dont take all this advice bout ur wife...ask the one who knows best...ur wife
2007-09-18 03:08:18 · answer #1 · answered by britbrit370 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Please dont take this the wrong way, but............maybe your not that good at it. Or maybe she feels uncomfortable. Ask her if there is something wrong or if there is a way that you can improve so that she can enjoy it more. When you go down on a woman it is supposed to please them in a way like no other maybe you need some improvement. Talk to her about it. You should know communication is the best thing.
2007-09-18 02:59:33 · answer #2 · answered by inlove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let Me Go Down
2016-12-15 04:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first had the him going down there experience I didn't like it either. However, I was really uncomfortable in my skin at that point in my life. Now that I understand that I am an attractive woman, that my husband loves me, and that it feels really great to have him down there I love it.
Ask her to be open with you and to tell you what the deal is. She may be uncomfortable with herself right now, and until she gets comfortable it isn't going to get any better.
2007-09-18 02:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could be very self-conscious about it. Or maybe she doesn't like how you do it. Be open with her I'm mean...shes your wife right? You have to talk to her and listen to what she says. Tell her how much you like going down there and ask her what is wrong. Good luck.
2007-09-18 03:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by sun day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't feel comfortable with it. Don't you get it? And why would whether or not she's cheating have anything to do with this? Either you've burned her out, or she never wanted to do it in the first place. Stop trying to force her into doing something she's not comfortable with! You can't just decide that she's healthy and in heat, and do whatever you want to her. She's your wife, not a dog on the street.
2007-09-18 03:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She is probably self conscious about it. I am the same way. I just feel weird having him to that. I'll admit I enjoy it occasionally, but I'm usually paranoid. I can't really tell you why. It just feels unnatural to me. If my husband can get me really turned on, then I'm more likely to let him do it, but on just a normal love making session, I'm too self conscious to get into it.
2007-09-18 03:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like most answers, she may be uncomfortable and something may be wrong and she just can't seem to tell you...and that is her way of telling you without trying to hurt your feelings..
That is one thing that my boyfriend and I enjoy most with each other. As someone stated above...ask her what it is she likes? do it in a sensual, soft voice...this will help her to relax and open up...it works for me.....
Good Luck to you!!!
2007-09-18 03:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by shortstuff68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your technique isn't good? Or she's just self conscience.
I personally could do without oral myself. Though I do enjoy giving. As for receiving, sometimes its nice while other times I'm self conscience and can't enjoy it. Especially since my daughter was born.
2007-09-18 03:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask her what's going on. It is strange that she has stopped all of a sudden. Know one knows whats on her mind but her. Tell her you love her and how much you enjoy her and ask her why.
2007-09-18 03:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋