for fulfillment? where do we try to find it?
1. wife/husband. what if we find it's not there, then what?
2. employment. what if we lose our job, then what?
3.family. if we see its not there, where do we turn?
4.money. money can buy alot of things, but rich people seem to be more miserable.
where do we search? Seems to me, if I seek total fulfillment from any of these or others, and I lose them, then there goes my fulfillment...... thoughts? where do seek it from?
2007-09-18 23:46:57 · 13 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1.your soul mate will just come to your way. and If there is none in your luck then people do spend a bachelor life.
2-If we loose the job we got and we loved it, it means that life has chosen more challenges for us and we have to go on. So search for another job.
3-After giving your best to your family, one day you don't find a family there for you then cry,cry,cry and then Smile and live your Life for your ownself, Don't waste it for others~!
4-Money is the most essential thing that has ever come up.from money we can def. buy anything except life and sometimes happiness. Rich people lives their lives for their ownselves thats why they are more miserable because they are afraid of loosing money which is their life. But for a normal person like you and me, money means alot but still we believe in other factors ans essentials of live as well.
Keep yourself on the right path. Never forget to pray to God. He is always there to listen and sometimes we do not get what we long for, means there is something much more better for us, if not in this world, then in the other world. This world is an examination hall and we all are here to give this exam of Life.
So be happy and try to cope with the challenges of life. and if you goes down someday, then people like me are there to cherish you.
2007-09-19 01:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone actively searched for commitment.
I think we're supposed to find it along the way.
1. Marriage is a complicated thing, alot of people settle for less than unconditional love in that department. I think part of fulfillment is being with someone who makes you feel complete. That's why people should wait years upon years to be sure.
2. If you find fulfillment in employment then you'll be severly envied, a job can be beneficial and fun but I don't think it could fulfill anyone properly, after a while you'd just think something else was missing from another area of your life.
3. Families are a backbone of support and love. A place where you can just be you. Again, I doubt it could bring total fulfillment.
4. Money entices using and greed. It's the last thing to look for for fulfillment.
I think everyone needs different things to feel fulfilled, however the most common seems to be love and someone to share your life with, and I would agree.
Though of course, the other points you mentioned are important too in leading a happier life, I guess.
Maybe fulfillment is getting what your heart truly wants.
2007-09-19 06:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by SuperKylie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fulfillment is the individual choice!!
I don't think you find fulfillment until you have experienced life a little. I feel i have fulfillment i have 3 great children i am going through a divorce (a difficult one yes) i have a new partner and a baby on the way i am not rich but we all live in a 3 bedroom house, i have had a career which i can get back into eventually. This is my individual choice this may not be the same for others. You don't seek for fulfillment you receive it as you travel along the road of life!!!! basically in my experience fulfillment is experiences dont look for it in others
2007-09-19 07:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by sexiebum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life dear
any way let me tell point by point
1. search for next better wife/husband
2. search another better job
3. u can not search new father or mother...i m sorry.. It is pain full u have to bear them.
4. never forget u can share happiness or kindness only if u have money and big heart. so always put your good time to be wealthy
the curiosity to know unknown
the curiosity to find missing things--endless. OK?
or else u turn 2 be religious
2007-09-19 07:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by rahul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not try to find it, it will find you if you meet it halfway. Instead of finding fulfillment in the things you listed, find fulfillment in the experiences you had when you did have it.
2007-09-19 06:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Angelic Valentine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because your expectations are too high. when we can't find what we need we do turn to god for the answers, eventually i think that everyone turns there at some point in their life. our self worth doesn't come from things, or other people, it comes from god, and the more we get to know him and do his will the better we feel about life, the more secure we become in life, and the less fears we have about problems or loosing things.
2007-09-19 07:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace of mind is the only fulfillment that you need.
2007-09-19 06:54:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people turn to religion at this point.
It is more fulfilling to help others than to help yourself.
Even I knew that.
2007-09-19 06:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its somthing that does not happen until you are about to die. If it ever happens.
2007-09-19 06:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God will answer this if you ask him
2007-09-19 06:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by nickson faction 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋