I mean if he asks.
2007-09-18 20:52:46 · 15 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can if you want, I did to my husband and all he did was keep bringing it up and rubbing my past in my face and it caused us to argue allot.
2007-09-19 06:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say only answer any questions he askes. If he doesn't specifically ask about sex info or if anyone was better than him then I say just highlight the good points and the bad points and what made it a great relationship and what you wanted more of. And even reassure him that you have found so much more in qualities with him than the any of the past guys. So that should reassure him.
P.S. Think about if the roles were reversed and you asked about his past gfs. So don't try to hurt him with any past info or anything just reassure him that you are over the past guys and much, much happier with him now.
2007-09-19 04:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay but it depends completely upon alot of factors: A friend of mine used to be married to a very affluent man. She'd once had a job as a cocktail waitress. In his day cocktail waitresses were to be considered loose women. Over this, he divorced her. When I personally was married, an old flame called me on the phone. My husband asked me if I'd ever slept with him. I was honest. He brought that old flame up in every single argument we subsequently had. We're now divorced. Use discretion!
2007-09-19 04:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well personally my husband and i knew everything about each other before we got married. I mean how long have you been together and now married. If your husband doesn't know about your past maybe you shouldn't have got married so soon!
2007-09-19 04:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by buttaflykiz05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi everyone has a history and a passed but that is the thing it is a past and it is history ,its fine to talk about the past and learn about eachother but to go into great detail is like opening up a tin of worms ,and can cause problems for youre present relationship ......take care xx
2007-09-19 04:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to last your marriage...then pls.don't play with fire
If you want to break your own home / family then tell him.
Even if he ask....try to manage, be smart and tell him. (with much care and love).as the past is past.., just think about the present....and the future...and take this advice not only for him but you also should not ask him anything about the past.
2007-09-19 06:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by 2bros 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to tell that's okay, but it's really not something that he needs to know about. It's not being dishonest not to share every personal detail of your past.
2007-09-19 04:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay to be honest about your previous partners but specific details are really unnessary such as sexual things. If one of your previous partners was amazing in bed and his equipment was really big it might intimidate your current partner if he feels he doesn't measure up. So be selective of what you tell him.
2007-09-19 04:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it can be a bad thing.depends if he is the type of person that can be okay with that type of thing.YOU SHOULD NEVER MAKE OT SEEM THOUGH THAT THE PERSON IS REALLY THAT GREAT.make it seem for the most part that there is no connection at all left.ALSO NEVER TALK ABOUT THE INTIMACY THAT CAN CAUSE PROBLEMS.
2007-09-19 03:59:28 · answer #9 · answered by kingml213 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. And it's not okay for him to ask, either.
2007-09-19 03:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋