We've got a great relationship, awesome sex, great understanding with each other....I just want to do something special for her to show how much I appreciate her. Any suggestions aside from the typical crap?
2007-09-20 12:38:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello,,sounds like she is a great woman, perhaps you just enjoy the time together taking walks and holding hands. The simple things are the best .Of all the crap you could be doing just be there for her, you never know what the future has in store for you.
2007-09-20 12:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the special little vacation idea. In the meantime I would take her out for a nice dinner, bring flowers, and give her a coupon good for any favor she should want from you. Hopefully she will ask for something you both enjoy and not just a trip with arms full out to the trash can. Be creative - try making her a nice card (the cornier and less professional the better). Get a book from the library and practice how to give the perfect massage on her. Good luck!
2007-09-20 19:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by GENE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know more about your wife than any of us here so what you should do is what comes to your heart you know what will make her cry or laugh so use that knowledge and wow her out her mind. Remarry her in your own way take her some place that she has been wanting to go and remarry her just the 2 of you no children no friends express your love to her by letting her know how much you do love her and how much you appreciate her. I think your a really sweet guy for this and what ever you come up with she will love.
2007-09-20 19:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a spa day, thats always nice - or not even a whole day - but how about a couples massage? That would be lovely I think.
Or hire a maid to do the cleaning for a month (every other week) - My guy did that for me for my birthday month and I liked it so much that 5 years later, we still have her (so you may want to think about that)
A weekend getaway, or even a nice drive for the afternoon to a nearby town. Do you have nearby country type towns?
Or a singing telegram! When have you ever seen anyone actually get one of those outside of TV? If my guy sent a singing telegram to my office, I really would think it was great. But I'm the type of girl that loves the absurd.
Anyway, you know her - what would SHE like?
2007-09-20 19:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I did for my husband was free, but he said it was the most memorable thing I ever did for him.
I printed out on a piece of paper the word "S H M I L Y" about 20 times, then cut them out into individual slips. Then I wrote on the back of the slip things like, you work hard, your a good dad, you treat me like a lady, etc. Then I placed them all around the house that morning before I left with a note that said "Try to find me twenty times.........S H M I L Y!"
I placed them in general places he would find them through out the day.
The toothpaste tube
in his cereal box
on the milk
the thermostat control
his sock drawer
inside the medicine cabinet on his aftershave
on his deoderant
in his shoe
in his wallet
on the remote control
on his recliner
etc. etc. etc.
He spent the day finding them and of course when I got home he had found majority of them and was puzzled as to what it meant.
It stands for:
Showing
How
Much
I
Love
You
I hope you don't think it is too corny, but it really did open my husbands eyes as to how much I truely love him, and all the wonderful reasons why I appreciate him, and it allowed him to know that I did realize these wonderful qualities he possessed.
2007-09-20 19:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by TiaRanita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something for her that she has wanted for a long time but maybe you guys haven't been able to do.
For instance an example I love the reinfaires and my husband and I have not been able to go the last couple of years. This year he gave me an invitation for me to join him at the reinfaire Good luck
2007-09-20 19:47:56 · answer #6 · answered by colieport 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would take her out for a romantic dinner and then a movie and while you are at it stop some were and get her somthing specail let her pick it out just show her a good time and show her that you still love her. That is what I would do.
I hope it works for you.
2007-09-20 19:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by Kerrie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook for her, bring her flowers because it's Tuesday, wash her car, run her a bath with candles & insense & the works, do one of "her" chores without her asking, allow her some "me" time and encourage it, and finally, always, ALWAYS, Look her in the eye and tell her you love her, without expecting sex to follow. That oughta just about do it.
2007-09-20 19:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by freeriderss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something for her that you never done for her. Like a little vacation or a cruise for a week or even clean up the house for her. What matters is spending time with her and really showing it with your actions and feelings.
2007-09-20 19:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rented a sign that I put in our neighborhood that read I love her and placed it at the entrance to our neighborhood.. she loved it and cooked her favorite breakfast the way she likes it and served it to her in bed.then I left her alone all day with peace and quiet....she divorced me a year later tho.I bet she still remembers that tho
2007-09-20 20:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋