I am saying it's unfortunate we have to pay the other parent and if their unable to do so ,.they go to JAIL...alot of these people work hard to get there responsibility as a parent done....but to remove a parent from there home to sit in a cell for 90days,ect...is that right?????It's" UNDO HARDSHIP"...as Americans we are supposedf to get a fair chance at a shot of a good life....not jail hanging over your head cuz you c=didn't get enough pay for wife ,kids, and the child with the ex!!if thats the case come on home and eat Ramen Noodles ..I want nothing more than FAMILY to be TOGETHER
2007-09-20 19:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by renaeb70 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Fair chance at a good life"... LOL... Yeah, right. I'm sure I'm going to get a few thumbs down for this, but the legal system doesn't give a flying flip about men when there's a woman out there with his kid(s). I know a few guys that have gotten so hosed it's not even funny, one I guy I work with gives (not willingly, court order) literally 80% of his paycheck to his ex-wife. His girlfriend has to support him. God, I love our legal system. Equal rights my butt.
2007-09-20 19:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Crypt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must have money-management issues and be seriously delinquent to have been put in jail. Jail is the last resort of the court... worst-case scenario "dead-beat dads". Your struggles are no ones fault but your own.
Child support is based on income, so even if you have 25 kids, your child support will never exceed 51% of your weekly earnings. If your income has lowered significantly and your barely surviving on Ramen, it is YOUR responsibility to report that to the COURT, not to YAHOO!
Chances are your just a guy that likes to gripe about the babies you couldn't afford to make in the first place.
2007-09-21 02:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about all of that before you started making those children. People jump into relationships and having children without first thinking things through. Lust is not love, and love is not enough to make a relationship work. Why should the children suffer for your mistakes. They deserve everything that they would have enjoyed had you stayed together as a family. Get two jobs if you need to. I worked 3 to raise mine.
2007-09-21 02:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds fair to me, you made the kid now take care of it.
2007-09-21 02:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋