How could one know whether the person you've committed to is never going to change or betray you?
And what about the kids that have no fault for their parents' mistakes?
2007-09-20 23:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by Mishaj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is never good when its considered the alternative!
You never know if a person will change or if they will betray you...but I'd say if you fear this from a particular person then it may be a good idea not to marry them.
What about the kids? All the kids need is a happy and healthy home, regardless of marital status of the parents.
2007-09-20 23:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person on this earth is going to change over time, and will at some time betray you in some way, whether you are married to him or not.
2007-09-20 23:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage a Good alternative for wat? Single life?
Anyway.... everybody changes with time. I mean you are not the same person u used to be when u were born or even when u were a teen. We grow and change with time. This happens over time. When u live for long together u learn to live with ur partner like him/ her.
Yes i understand that........... infact to an extent i agree with that...... Parent's mistake. But again when u know what u want and what u can... it no longer will/ can be a mistake.
2007-09-20 23:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by DU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change.
Put the notion that you do not want change out of your head. The only people who do not change are on the wrong side of the grass.
This leads to positive versus poor change. If your relationship has its share of positive change and not the power and control fight which so often occurs then you really need not worry so much about betrayal.
The stark reality is that fear of failure is not a reason to avoid anything in life.
2007-09-21 00:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must accept the person for the way they are and know that people do change. In a healthy relationship, these changes compliment each other as a couple grows together.
It doesn't mean that you won't be blind sighted by an a*hole, but if the love is real, it's usually worth it.
2007-09-20 23:29:44 · answer #5 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you get to know the person before you marry them,you can't guarantee one will never change,an event in thier lives could suddenly change someone.
2007-09-20 23:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋