I like this man so much. I can't believe I could ever feel so happy at that moment. Until now I still cannot believe I would ever feel that way. I'm in my 30's! You usually feel those kind of things when your in your teens! Even then I don't remember ever feeling that way. I always keep myself busy just to forget. When it's time to wind down and when I listen to music I just remember him. Its just hard to forget about someone who is so sweet, fun and whom you've been physically attracted to. I would remember the dinner, clubs, movies. It was so fun but I had to end it due to my situation. Sometimes when I'm out and I see other couples holding hands I would remember "us". I just feel like crying at the moment but can't let no one know about how I feel. Something I have to keep to myself. I just miss him so much it hurts. I probably fell in love with that man. It's been a year now.
2007-09-20 21:57:27 · 7 answers · asked by henessy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There is only two reasons you would give up someone you had so much fun with I won't call it love maybe a very strong infatuation.You will feel this way for the rest of your life (the what if feeling) it's unfinished and that is something you will never get over unfortunately for you. Are you married or is he a married man. I just can't imagine you walking away from that unless you or he are married.
2007-09-20 22:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, and I do NOT mean to sound hard, but babe, only you can make the changes in you that must be done. You can choose to spend the rest of your life mourning over a lost love, or you can decide to move on and find another love ... and this time, pick someone who is free to love you back. IF it is you that is tied down, then find a way to turn this love towards the other you are tied to..you give very little information, but either way, this love you have is serving no purpose in life but to give you pain..so stop it now! You can do it, no one can tell you how, you just refuse to go there when you feel it coming on. Been there and done that...lived to tell about it. Love and peace, Goldwing.
2007-09-21 06:34:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your own emotional health, you need to move on. Talking to a psychologist or counselor should get you on the road to a new life. You could be depressed. Time to get out and join some clubs, go places and do things. Even volunteer work will take your mind off it and who knows -- you may meet someone when you least expect it.
2007-09-21 05:48:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your situation and your loss. Try to get out with friends and enjoy yourself. If you're married and this is the complication in your life, try to repair the marriage. If unrepairable, look to take care of yourself and seek a divorce. In time you'll be ready to discover that missing flame... good luck.
2007-09-21 05:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by confusedsoul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand your pain. I am seperated from my husband whom i still love very much. when i see other couples it makes me miss him so much. i have finally come to a place emotionally where i can let him go. it is so hard to do. i use to romantisize in my mind being with him. it made me miss him so much more. it was hard cause he was still comming around and having sex with me any time i called him. I fell for the bullshit line, I love you lisa and when im with you i want to touch you. i didnt realize he was using me.he would tell me he still loves me over and over again. but he wont be with me anymore. it is so hard to believe a man is leaving you when he constantly say she still loves you. he played such a mind game with me that i was in serious denial for a long time. i did not believe it was over if he still loved me. how could i? what i was not seing was the reality of the situation. he is not commming back. period. he is using me. he says he is not.but he is. he finds fault in everything i do so he can justify not being with me. it was torturous for me and i told him about the pain i was in. he continued to do it. so obviously he couldnt love me that much if he knew i was in pain and his actions were the cause of it. because he didnt stop. so i stopped. after he dissapeared twice overnight idecided that he will never love me again and he will continue hurting me if i dont put a stop to it. he did not care about my feelings. so i stopped everything. You need to focus your energy on other things. worki, family friends. it takes time but if you are diligent it will happen. you will move on. i wish you luck. lisa
2007-09-21 06:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by ax11779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dealing with it.
2007-09-21 05:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet.....
I feel your pain....
2007-09-21 05:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋