Let's talk about sex and happiness in regards to single people versus married people. Who is happier? Who gets it the most? Who gets quality sex the most? Who unintentionally goes without it longest? Who ends up pleasuring themselves most? Please give specific reasons why you feel the way you do.
2007-09-19 17:55:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sure its the married people who are happier sexually in general. There will be exceptions on both sides. There will be married couple who are just miserable and don't enjoy sex at all, and there will be single people in a relationship who are extremely happy.
2007-09-19 18:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion (Married, almost 4 yrs)
Who's happier? I am much happier married than single. I hate random hookups. I hate awkward first dates and all that goes with them. I love having the comfort and security in sex I have with my husband.... it's a great feeling.
Who gets it the most? When I was single, I never got it. I didn't sleep around. I dated my husband for months before we did anything. So I get it WAY more married. Like, 5 times a week.
Who gets quality sex the most? Single people might because hook-up sex is steamy and married sex, lets face it, it fades. But we have quality along with quantity. I'd say about half the time it's great and the other half it's decent. Plus, (well, when I'm not pregnant) we got out to clubs together and come home buzzed so that's nice too...
Without it the longest? Not me!
Pleasuring themselves? I think most people do, single people probably more.. but I think married people do too. It probably breaks even.
Good question.
2007-09-19 18:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by shellj_foxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married....hands down. You have entitlement sex that generally gets better over time. You also have those extramarital options. A lot of single partners and especially fellow married partners really value being with a married person. Less disease risk, at least in their minds, and they don't have to worry about a crazy stalker should it not work out. Married women are in the best of all worlds.
2007-09-19 18:07:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have too much to say about this on my own..I'm married, have sex regularly...But I watched a tv show the other week... There was a study done that shows married couples have more sex than singles do.
2007-09-19 18:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki in PA 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I like the fact that when you are in a relationship you have sex on tap, can get boring sometimes but its fun trying to spice it up the same.
If i was single i couldnt be bothered to go looking for some fun, I would go and buy a vibe and do it myself. lol
2007-09-19 18:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's talk about sex baby, let's talk about you and (not) me, let's talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be, let's talk about sex, let's talk about sex...aha...
Married people would probably get it more than single, whether or not they are happy about it is not for us to judge.
Just be happy with your sexuality and where you are at.
2007-09-19 18:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im married and i get it just about every other day longest time ive gone without was 4 days cause i was out of town...and it was always and has been like that for 2 years now. so...yea to answer ur question...I been married 2 years yea somewhat newly weds but i get quality (OUTSTANDING) sex alot, havent had to please myself for 3 years and neva had to go without it unintentionally....yea its great *grin*
2007-09-19 18:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you're married to!! Personally, after 22 years of marriage, I'm better off single.
2007-09-19 18:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by onceisenoughilearnedmylesson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that would depend upon the people involved in it it. take a different people to make a marrage work my opion? ref< divorced male here who.s wife was cheating and now happy divorced now from her...
2007-09-19 18:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that self pleasure for me is better then too be with anyone cuz i dont want any risks with bad things in the future
2007-09-19 18:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋