I still talk to my x from time to time actually she calls me like once a week to see how i am doing. she found out that i was going on vacation, and requested for me to get her a wine that this place only offers. so i did. when i got back which was 2 weeks ago she knew when i was returning she calls me 5 days later to say hello and when she did i told her i got her the bottle of wine she requested. she ask me to bring it to her i said no that she will need to come and get it. she said maybe friday and i told ok maybe so let me know then she told me she will let me know this was last friday and havent heard from her i feel like just giving the bottle to someone
what do u think or suggest i should do?
any ideas or suggest?
help me understand why would she ask me to get her something and now pretend or act like she doesnt want or in other words giving me the impression
thanks
2007-09-18 06:06:49 · 25 answers · asked by simple J 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ask her about it, you really have nothing to lose and if shes a flake then drink it and be merry.
2007-09-18 06:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she enjoys pulling your strings. Just leave it alone. You have already let her know you have the wine and if she hasn't picked it up then you are free to assume she doesn't want it. She is probably miffed that she can't get you to bring it to her because having control over you is what keeps her in contact. If it is over, it is over. The little stray strings that are attached should be severed by you since it is clear they aren't doing you any good. Unless you like being played for a sucker you shouldn't encourage these weekly calls from her. How you are doing is really none of her business and you really need to move on with your life 100% free of her.
2007-09-18 06:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ray,
she is being a little "B". Now I'm not for that kinda thing!
U invite your friends over and party hard off that wine. She knows what she asked u to do. Don't let that get to u. Maybe by friday u can have your Party! and give her the empty bottle!(smile) Let me know!
2007-09-22 04:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by shemoetoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she possibly was just 'testing the waters' to see if you would actually get it or not. I am ashamed to say this, but some of us women thrive off playing games, and this sounds like she was doing just that. Or she could possibly still have feelings for you, since you did say that SHE calls you every week. But for the sudden cold shoulder? Not so sure. I would either enjoy the wine yourself, or give it to someone at a house party!
2007-09-18 06:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by MayMay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that it might of been an excuse to get you round to hers, perhaps get slightly merry and see what happens. You saying no could of made her feel rejected and slightly foolish. Why not call her and see how she is and mention that she didnt call you about her wine which you can say you thought was alittle strange. Ask her if she still wants it and if not.. drink it yourself or give it as a gift to someone else. Failing or that.. maybe it time to cut all ties with her so you dont get messed about anymore. Friends like that.. who needs them. Best of luck hun..
2007-09-18 06:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the typical ex gf, she 's manipulative. She asked you to buy her a bottle of wine, now she's turning it around like you bought her the wine and she doesn't want it when she's the ONE who asked to buy it.
don't let in to her game. if she knew you were back and and called you a few days later, she should've came to pick up the wine, so since she's being a biotch, give it to a girl you like who will appreciate the surprise.
2007-09-18 06:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Adrienne L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another one... Why so many young people never close the door on their old relationships, I'll never know. You get yourselves into a mess, and then you don't know how to get out of it. Forget the ex. Let her contact you if she wants her bottle of wine, and then make her come and get it. Then say goodbye, and mean it this time.
2007-09-18 06:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you expecting her to be grateful? Sounds like you aren't quite over her and are expecting something other than a thank you. Get out a glass and enjoy the wine or give it away if it is taking up too much space.
2007-09-18 06:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give the bottle to someone else. Your ex is being really rude and inconsiderate of your feelings. I mean you took time out of your vacation to do something for her and she doesn't seem to be grateful.
I don't know why she would do that to you. Some women can be so screwy sometimes.
2007-09-18 06:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Lola C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried calling her? Maybe she is sick or just busy and forgot about it. I wouldn't jump to the conclusion that she doesn't want it now before talking to her. Maybe she has a lot of things going on and it just slipped her mind. I know I have done that before. Give her a friendly call and find out what is going on.
2007-09-18 06:18:26 · answer #10 · answered by Jay's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just being silly and playing games. That's your X dude and obviously she's your X for a reason. Drink the bottle of wine and don't answer her callsin the future.
You sound like a sensible guy, you don't have time for that silly chit.
2007-09-18 06:14:50 · answer #11 · answered by bettercockster7 c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋