OK, instead of asking why women will cheat, how bout this?
List reasons why you as a woman in a happy relationship would never think of cheating.
2007-09-18 04:56:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not in a relationship,
But when I was , I loved him and that love kept me from wanting anyone else.
Unfortunatly he had a different idea of what love is.
To me it's wanting to be with that person because you love them and are happy being with them.
2007-09-18 05:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by atlanta_girl38 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women, in general, are ruled by emotion more than logic or reason.
Therefore asking for reasons why a woman would or would not do something does not really provide an absolute answer.
It provides an answer based on how they feel at the time the question was asked.
Women do not cheat may believe they are not cheating because of their morals or values or whatever, but this simply isn't true. Everyone has a price and can be bought/sold if presented properly.
So to answer your question, women who do not cheat, do not cheat because they have not yet been presented with the proper motivation/persuasion to cheat.
2007-09-18 05:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've been in a relationship for ten years which isn't very long compared to others in my family and I will tell you that not every year has been a happy one for us but I have never cheated. There have been other men I have been attracted to for sure but the bottom line is other people can not fix your unhappiness. I do not cheat simply because it is not a solution to any problem I have encountered in the course of my relationship whether it is loneliness, frustration, boredom, misunderstandings, stress whatever I know that cheating is only a symptom of a need not the answer to it . Sometimes all we have in this world is our integrity no temporary ego boost is worth my sacrificing mine-- period.
2007-09-18 05:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok I am a woman in an unhappy relationship and I still won't cheat on him. It's wrong, will not help anything. I would prefer to get out of the relationship and not be a sneaky selfish person who is deceptive and sneaky. I would rather work on a relationship by reconnecting by dating, spending time with one another, doing things as a family etc.
I would not like the outcome my children would feel that I could not come up with a more positive solution.
Like counseling, divorce etc.
2007-09-18 05:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't cheat on my husband because my faith in Christ means that I have committed myself to my husband and my marriage. I was unhappy in my first marriage (which ended as my husband dumped me for another woman) but even though I was miserable with my first husband and did find myself liking a few other men I never did anything about it. I just prayed things would improve. I hope that doesn't sound pathetic. I really believe in marriage and that it's foundational to society. I'm thankful I had faithful parents who stayed together and gave me security as a child. I'm now married a second time and very happy. It's easy being faithful to my husband as he's a sweetie, kind, sensitive and handsome (built like an ex boxer hee hee, some muscle turned to fat but those blue eyes of his really get to my soul).
2007-09-18 05:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bernice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are millions of reasons that i will never cheat but here are a few....
Morals, values, integrity, I refuse to be a selfish person in that aspect, i married my best friend and nothing/no one in the world would be worth the hurt that cheating would cause him......IF it ever got to that point (which i would never let happen) i would have enough respect for my husband to tell him ahead of time that i wished to end the relationship and be with someone else......better to be dumped than cheated on.
2007-09-18 05:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If I'm happy, I'm not going to cheat. If I'm unhappy, then I'll work on fixing the relationship or end it. There is NO reason why cheating has to be involved! You're supposed to end the relationship and then find someone else.
2007-09-18 05:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by RSJ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because a few moments of enjoyment are not worth the pain it could cause. Plus I just can't imagine putting the time and effort into living a lie, I would rather put my time and effort into something worthwhile... creating a physical relationship with someone is too easy and too temporary for all the effort it would take to hide it...
2007-09-18 05:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
1. I love him
2. I don't believe in cheating.
3. You have to lie to cheat and I don't like to lie.
4. I'm happy and feel we have something good.
5. I don't want anyone else.
2007-09-18 05:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I made a committment to him and it would hurt him if I cheated on him. There isn't a single man out there that could make me do that to my husband. He drives me nuts, but he doesn't deserve that type of pain. I promised him loyalty, and I keep my promises.
2007-09-18 06:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋