and im on the east coast and she's on the west coast I have a good paying job where im at should I follow her and go back?and start over or should I stay and move on with my life? I love them dearly but where going throygh some ruff stuff specially cause she'd using drugs please help
2007-09-18 05:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by flip c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say move on, especially if she has a drug problem. No point in upheaving your life for something that may not work out anyway.
2007-09-18 06:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move her and the kids to you. Help her. She can only be helped if she wants it. And if the kids are with her it's in your best interest to make sure there taken care of. A mother on drugs is no good. Get her help and start working things out for the better good luck.
2007-09-18 06:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by gia00601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't follow anyone that's using drugs, you have to be there mentally and financially for your children but don't go back to a bad situation...Your better off trying to get your children away from a drug-head and moving forward with your life.
2007-09-18 06:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go get your jkids away from that lifestyle. Be a man. Either your girl comes to the east coast or you go get those kids out of that situation.
2007-09-18 07:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Blade_III 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your children's mother is a drug addict then you owe it to them to get custody. Don't leave your secure job and home to follow a drug addict. Get a lawyer and tell her when she cleans up her act, you will discuss the relationship. Do what's right for your children.
2007-09-18 06:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds serious.If there are support sytems in place,like other family for her that she trusts please get them involved.
The children are where? she needs help and the kids need to be away form the drug use.Very tough situation.There are Nar-anon groups for families/loved ones of those who use drugs that may be able to be of alot of help.Best of luck.
2007-09-18 06:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by lisa m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you have a good paying job, she needs to follow you. You do, however, need to send support money for your children. They haven't done anything to you.
2007-09-18 06:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her move to where u are
2007-09-18 05:59:46 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋