I recently found out my wife is cheating on me; how do I hide my assets?

Question

I came home early and saw them having sex in my bedroom. Rather then confront them, I left and they did not see me or know I was there. This happened 2 days ago, and since then I have been trying to hide large sums of money in a hidden account in another country, under a false name. I plan to make a lrgwe withdrawal tomorrow and put all of our liquid assets into that secret account, but laundering it through a casino in vegas first.

My question regards concrete assets like the house and cars etc. Is there a way to liquidate them discretely and all at once? I plan to run off with all our money and live in another country.

Answer 1

First you need to treat her and make her believe she is the love of your life. However, you are a guy so I don't believe you can do that. Only women are conniving enough to pull that off.

However, if you can pull it off, the more time that passes from the transactions until you leave the better. Rent a post office box and have the bank statements and other things you don't need your wife to see sent there

In some states, the cars can be titled "Or" rather than "And" and so either party can sell the cars. Arkansas, for example, does not require the title be notarized so you could just sign her name and your name, re-title the cars as "Or, wait a couple of months and then sell the cars. An auto car auction [usually they are limited to car dealers] would be best because you get a fair price. However, you can get bids from several car dealers and the price will not be bad.

Refinance the house [maybe the cars too]. After your wife is assured that you are deeply in love with her and will put her first, tell her you and she can save money by refinacing the house with lower interest rates or avoid risk by getting a fixed rate. Get duplicate sets of papers, one she sees before hand, unless she is not the type to look at the papers. After you take her to the bank to get the documents noterized, get a new 95% loan and have the excess money deposited in your joint bank account which you quickly withdraw.

You might rent a bigger and better new house with the option to buy. Then sell your old house and lead your wife to believe you will use the money to buy the new house.

When you leave, sign over all your interest into the cars and house, if any, and tell them you will not be able to make anymore payments. Your wife can sell, make payments, or the property will be foreclosed.

When you leave, don't tell anyone, not even your parents, where you are going and don't correspond with them and don't mail any letters from your new country.

Likely your wife will have gotten a divorce and a big judgement so you may not be able to safetly return unless you can assume another identity or different SSN.

Answer 2

First of all, I'm so sorry this has happened to you! It must be emotionally devastating.

Second, please note that money laundering is ILLEGAL!! A false name? Good grief, you're lookign for great big trouble.

Anything joint that can be closed or changed over without her signature is fair game, but be aware that her lawyer can also use statements, etc., to show it was there, and if you make a "large withdrawal" there can be questions about where it went and then you're up the creek.

Be very, very careful here, you are bordering on making a very bad situation even more disastrous, with YOU on the receiving end of legal problems even bigger than imagined!

Answer 3

ah as cold hearted as you SOUND, there might be a legitimate REASON why your wife cheats on you!!!!! You sound more like your marriage was a BUSINESS rather then a relationship.... I feel sorry for you that you had to FIND your wife in the arms of another man---but think about what might have PUSHED HER TO IT.... could it be that just MAYBE you are at fault here???? Oh trust me---cheating is NOT something to be proud of either.... but, people CHEAT for reasons... Sorry charlie, a divorce if you are in a community property state means all marital assets split 50/50 and you can bet your LIFE she knows what most of those assets are...and if you go liquidating them, she WILL find out... then you will have a cheating wife with LEVERAGE!!!! just go to her and tell her you KNOW about the cheating---that you SAW IT... and take it from there---but any money or assets you earned WHILE MARRIED are legally half HERS!!!!!

Answer 4

First of all, if you run away under those circumstances, you could appear suspicious to the police. You could get in more trouble that you think. Why don't do it the legal and right way? First, consult a lawyer and see what is his advice. Second, get proof of her cheating. Get a private eye, so that way you could prove her cheating. That could give you a huge advantage over her, including assets, child support, spousal support, etc. Third, get counseling. Don't run away, that make you appear coward, and she could claim that you did it for the wrong reasons. I hope this can help.

Answer 5

as far as the cars go, put them in the name of a trusted friend or co-worker,until after the divorce.. who's name is the house under ? or hide the ones not used in storage and put the titles in a new bank account,in a safety deposit box. As far as the house, if it is in ONLY your name, don't worry. if it is in both names , quickly make a handwritten will or will with a lawyer and say the house belongs to your children, in event of your deathor,or is to be sold and put into a trust fund for your children.Thrid choice is to sell the house for the sum of one dollar to me, I'll gladly hold it till your divorce is over and sell it back to you for one dollar, no questions asked. She deserves nothing. good luck.

Answer 6

I would talk to a lawyer first before making any harsh moves. It may come back to you. I do admire you being so strong on walking out. I would of flipped if I saw my husband having sex in our bed.

Good luck to you and stay calm

Answer 7

Yeah I saw that movie too. Can't remember the title - but I saw the movie.

Well, now that you have let the cat out of the bag - divorce laws are different for each state (in the US).

that said, you really need to speak with a lawyer familiar with asset management and divorce in your particular state.

Answer 8

I don't know is her name on things? If yes then you may have a hard time. The house and car may be hard to do.
This is interesting! Keep us posted on what happens I'm curious!

Answer 9

i would've video taped OR at least taken a pic. why so when See took u to court, u would've walked out with all ur money and she would've ended up being known as the neighborhood s l u t

Answer 10

WOW!!!! that sux!!! I don't know how you're doing that, I would of gone NUTZ! You don't deserve that in your life... I can't believe that, in your house! Well I don't know anything about liquidation or anything like that but I want to let you know that I think what you're doing is best for you... you deserve that! Let that other guy care for her...