a guy is married and a woman is married (separate relationships), but this guy and this woman have an intense attraction to each other? They barely speak but the body language and eye contact tells on them. Neither would ever go any further with it. EVER! They both would love to in their own minds and the sexual part of it would be fabulous because its been burning for a long time, or even just a kiss the passion would be tremendous but it won't ever happen!!! How do you forget if its always there? Just wondering nothing personal
2007-09-18 04:56:12 · 6 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Everyone has desires, it's controlling them that people sometimes have a problem with. I don't know anyone that hasn't "thought" about doing something that they shouldn't. It's completely normal in my opinion.
2007-09-18 05:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by xxcallme_smileyxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all the two people should really keep the distance. i understand
that there is an attraction between the two but at the same time each one
is already married. and if some reason those people are not happy in
that realationship then they should end it..... it can be complicated and
confusing at the same time... and as for the body language sometimes
it is hard to avoid, but if that person does not want to go any further than
a kiss and so on then like i said keep the distance....... that is the best
way to avoid any confrontations........ so in other words if that person
is not ready for more than a kiss or more than that then that person
should not show any interest at all..... whom ever this person is
i wish them the best of luck......... think about the options..........
2007-09-18 12:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If ican not control my urges and let go with this married guy to take me in to hotel for a quickie with me so we can breath for good. Later I will say goodbye, hug him for a while and leave him alone after he pay the hotel bills and the food then back to my husband waiting for me at home.
2007-09-19 04:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a mature adult. Stay as far away from this person as possible. You are a human being and you have the choice to control your behavior.
2007-09-18 12:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, as you have already stated - NOTHING happens. Just relax and enjoy the attraction. If you don't plan to act on it - nothing will happen.
2007-09-18 12:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep the feelings to yourself
do not act on it...go home to your spouse and have unbelievable sex with them and remember why you married them to begin with
2007-09-18 12:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mindy S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋