l dont want mean answers please,l just want peoples opinions,cos l am a little bit confused at the moment.AS FOR THE MAN.he is finacially ok,very gentle infact he is one in a million,my problem is just his age.
2007-09-18 05:40:49 · 20 answers · asked by eve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love him then why worry about his age
age is only a number and shouldnt matter
maybe you should have thought about that before you agreed to marry him..
if it hadnt bothered you before why think about it now.. all that matters is if you love him
2007-09-18 06:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it could be a problem. You didn't say if he had kids, of if you had kids. But lets start with him and kids. If he has them, they could be older than you, and if he doesn't then the question is do you want kids?. Lets face the facts, if you both want kids, when your child is 10, dad will be 60.
If he doesn't want kids do you?.
Age can make a big difference when it comes to going out with friends, and things like that. Before you make that big step, think about what life can be like in 5 to 7 years.
One thing for sure, you both will not grow old together, so can you live with that.
2007-09-18 13:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In ten years you will only be 36 and he will be 60! I think you should think long and hard about what you are about to do. If you want children. He's a little old to be having children. You will basicaly be raising them alone. This is a lifetime commitment so you better get it right the first time. When you are 46(Still young) and he is 70 will you be taking care of a sick older gentlemen? Think Think and Re-Think. Good luck!
2007-09-18 13:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by TABBY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself...Do you really love him? Does he love you and treat you with respect. IF the answer to both question is yes then you love each other and that makes everything right. However, other people may look at you and he differently (or down their nose) because you as a couple are not the norm. You aren't marrying all those people; just him. I say go for it!
2007-09-18 12:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Older Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is way too old for u, and u need someone younger. he will have different idea's about life and doing things, and there may be problems here. money isn't everything, your too young to settle for someone just because they are financially OK, or gentle. if u marry him u will regret it, he may treat u well, and make a good dad, but after awhile his age will catch up to him and u will still be young.
2007-09-18 12:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His age is something that can not be changed or controlled. If it is a problem for you, then you should have gotten out of this relationship before thoughts of marriage ever entered anyone's mind.
2007-09-18 12:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in 25 years you will be 51 but he will be 75
2007-09-18 13:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by oldtomato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go with your heart! Age is just a number I always say!
If you love him then don't worry about anything else!
Good luck and Congrats!
2007-09-18 12:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the problem is your age. You married a man for his money and forgot the man who came along with it. You made your bed, now lie in it.
2007-09-18 12:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you are having a problem with his age now, you will definately have future problems if you marry him.
2007-09-18 12:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by charm_link 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋