Marriage & Divorce - 6 June 2007

yes im being serious

2007-06-06 15:21:08 · 14 answers · asked by kas 2

ok I have been with my husband for 4 years, but we have been married for 2 1/2 months. but he always tells me that everyone wants him. and that I am a fat ***. ,and that I'm a no body. , he calls me a ***** all the time. just this last weekend we got into a fight, and I broke my knee, he let me lay there on the floor crying and sceaming and all he was doing was telling me that I was a *****, and that I was faking in. and I had to get up all myself. but when we did go to the hospital they told us that I tore my ACL,PCL, and my menisus, he even went as far as taking the house keys, the truck keys and the storage keys away from me. the storage has all my thing in it. he goes though my mail, my e-mail, my cell phone, and my purse. is this abuse or is it normal?

2007-06-06 15:10:19 · 12 answers · asked by bkgracia70 1

READ BEFORE YOU ANSWER:My G/friend & I came home.I saw the kids with the babysitter.We went to my bedroom LOCKED the door.While we were making love my 5yrs old son walked to my bed & said “Daddy I can’t get out, the door won’t open”.My G/friend was on top of me.She jumped off & scrambled to get under the sheets.I asked my son to turn around.I literally felt sick that my son saw this.Apparently 3hrs earlier(before our arrival) the kids were playing“hide & Seek”.My son fell asleep under my bed as he was hiding.Our love-making woke him.He said he crawled to the door to get out but it was locked so he had no choice but to come & tell me.I don’t know how long he stood there & watched before he decided to approach us.Now my WIFE(soon to be EX-WIFE in about 5 months) is poisoning my kids.We are no longer together.my g/friend was sickened by the whole thing & blames herself.She can't even look at my son.My wife & I ve been separated & ve not lived together 4 over 3 yrs.Read more at the bottom

2007-06-06 14:56:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know why this is but my whole life and even now, i have not been able to be be with just one guy. like right now i am married and love my husband but i cannot stop thinking of being with other guys than him. and it was that way even before marriage even with my ex boyfriend i really loved him as well and was happy with him but i had thoughts of cheating on him to, and had a hard time commiting to just one man. why is this i hate this lifestyle. i dont cheat on them but often think about it. i always wish i was with some other men than the ones im with, but the ones im with and was with were good to me so whats the problem. i feel insecure please tell me why i feel the need to go from man to man and have a hard time settling down. i also have a 2 year old daughter with my husband. but i still feel im longing for something else . whats wrong with me please help me

2007-06-06 14:45:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have pretty much decided to throw in the towel. Everyone my age has so much baggage and ex's and kids and all the stuff from old relationships. I am really sick of it, so I am planning on just not dating or having intimacy anymore. Do you think I will manage with that decision ok?

2007-06-06 14:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by happydawg 6

He has been married twice and his brothers kids call both ex wives "aunt" and the step kids kids call her "grandma". This is going to get kind of confusing. I dont want to be aunt or grandma. I would just prefer to be called by my first name Becky. What is the proper etiquett?

2007-06-06 14:23:43 · 2 answers · asked by happydawg 6

ok heres the deal, i got married to my bf of five years this march, things were not good beofre the marriage money wise but mentally good. he does a lot for me and always puts me first most of the time but beofre we got married he promised he would get his stuff together. he had a back injury three years agao and it has gotten progressively worse, anways he cant work now and i ams tuck paying for everything and it is just way too hard, i am literally sick with stress i get stomaches all the time and i think im depressed. i do love him a lot but it feels liek he isnt doing enough to get his back fixed, at the same time he is taking serious pain killers and i think he may need to go to rehab. im only 25 and i know im married and it was my decision and i have to work through it but sometimes i think life is too short and u gotta do what makes u happy i met this guy at work and hereminds me that i do deserve to be happy, he feels so bad for me.and said he would do anything for me.

2007-06-06 14:03:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is an old saying that "Money doesnt buy happiness" but think about it the best moments in life are when you buy a car,house,computer,big screen tv,go to a football game,go on a family trip,go to disneyworld.For most people those are their best moments in life and they all require alot of money.So to settle this thing once and for all,Ladies would you marry a poor guy who loves you or a guy with money who loves you???According to a survey 20% of U.S.A. marriages dont work because of Money issues:cant pay the bills,cant fix the car,cant give your daughther a b-day party things like that.So who would you choose.Having a husband that works 50 hrs a wk just to make it or a rich guy who doesnt work and has money up the a-s-s.?

2007-06-06 13:58:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok heres the deal... i recently got married to my bf of five years. things have been rough for us the last 3 yeasr, we both went through a addiction to painkillers and he hurt his back seriosuly 3 years ago and it recently has gotten worse bc he kep tm working. now he cant work at all and might need to have surgery. anyways when we got married he promised things would chnage, he would work harder to get his back fixed and i have not seen any progress. it is soo frustrating bc i do love him but i think im strating to become soo stressed out bc im paying for everything and there never is enough money and im only 25 and i did not envision life like this. i know life is not perfect and u have to work through problems but i feel like all there ever is is problems. i met this guy at work that reminds me of how it felt to feel happy and i am afraid of that bc my husband should be doing that. when i try to talk to my husband he gets defensiveand says i am nagging him, i cant take it !

2007-06-06 13:41:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been having depression lately, and this is something men aren't supposed to have. I think it's stress-induced: relationship problems, money problems, and I'm trying to get back in touch with my daughter, who I've not seen since shortly after her birth. I feel really weak because men aren't supposed to have things get them down. I know it's silly to ask total strangers, but I guess it's the anonymity that makes it easy for my self-disclosure. I was just wondering if any other man has gone through/is going through similar. I'm really feeling worthless now and I hate that I feel so weak.

2007-06-06 13:39:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is no children involved

2007-06-06 13:34:11 · 18 answers · asked by heather8lucus 1

ok i know this is going to sound bad but recently i got married to my bf of five years. we didn tell anyone but a few friends bc we knew our paretns wouldnt approve bc i know my parents do not like him bc they dont think he takes care of me. 3 yearas agao he messed up his back real bad and now he has damaged it so bad that he is taking 80 mg oxycontin and can no longer work and is in the profcess of having surgery. i thought when we got married he was going to have the surgery right away and start getting things accomplished, but nothing relaly has gotten accomplished he still isnt working and i hva eto pay for everything and i dont make that much money to begin with. anyways everytime i try to talk to him about getting back to work and surgery he gets all defensive like im saying somehitng wrong. he feel useless and he basically is bc he isnt really doing anything to help himself he says he is and peopel just dont call him back but i find it hard to believe. im so frustrated

2007-06-06 13:27:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they always say syretha no fighting you and noe need to work it out but the thing is that he never wants to talk and no matter what way its like i feel degraded because the way he treats me its like i do the same back because i get so mad. And then he threatens to hit me and i hit him and its all screwed up and last saturday i left him and got all my **** and he called and looked for me everywhere and said he was sorry and now today we got in another fight and i love him but i wish he would just come around and act like a normal husband and his family knows we fight bad but i dont know what to do. I want to know how i can make it look like he is the one that needs to grow up and act normal instead of me. How do i make it look like he is the bad guy and take all eyes off me and on him. And how do i make him want me and make him try to get my attention. how can i ignore him until he realizes im tired of his ****.

2007-06-06 13:14:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-06 12:50:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this is like the number 1 cardinal sin but it has happened to me, and I totally need advice. We work together and from day one I knew she was attracted to me but I never acted on it because I was new at the job. Now that I have been working @ the job for over a yr, she started leaving little notes on my desk saying hello and sending me emails to try to spark a conversation, well we hit it off like crazy its been 6 months that we have been talking and the whole time she has been tellin me she is in the process of getting a divorce and the whole nine yards when actually she hasnt done nothing. Now that the husband has caught on to her she doesnt know what to do because she fell in love with me and i feel so bad because she lied but i love her and im willing to forgive her, she claims she lied because she knew i wouldnt want to talk to her and shes married, well of course but now i dont want to stop with what we have. Shes been with her husband for 15 yrs and she has 2 kids.

2007-06-06 12:46:42 · 17 answers · asked by lancer_254 1

When they are living with or married to them and see them getting more and more obese ? What on earth size beds do these couple need to buy or have built even ? But...how do the men sweet talk their partners into feeling alright all the time when they are getting rapidly and horribly worse? Just keep telling them that they are "cuddly " or some odd crap like that ?

2007-06-06 12:26:26 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-06 12:21:52 · 17 answers · asked by loveitdet 1

every time i look up things about seperation anxiety in children,emotional problems with children,etc...it always comes up with pages and pages of stories and web help for single mothers. well what about the single dads? everyone is always clowning on deadbeat dads and how broken homes are always the mans fault.thats not true though.if a pole were to be conducted over the last couple of years i would bet that women are more apt to be the cause of broken homes more often today then in the past. so all that just to ask where are all the pages about deadbeat moms and all the pages to help fathers like myself deal with the plethera of emotional problems the child has dealing with it all?

2007-06-06 12:16:55 · 11 answers · asked by singledad 1

We have been together for a few years now (living together), and I sometimes wonder if he's in another world. For example, When I want to do something, he doesn't feel like it...but if his friends call, he suddenly has energy to do things. So then I say to him, "Hey, we should really do more together", he's all like, but we do a lot together (we really don't...an occasional dinner/movie). So, I'm not really sure what that's all about. Also, his eating habits really bother me. He just got results back from a physical, and he has really high colesterol...but he still eats lots of pizza and fast food (and he's gaining weight). I try to work out together, but he never feels like it and wants to play video games instead (I love video games myself, but he likes games that we can't really play together).
It seems like maybe he's getting bored. Anyone else been through this?

2007-06-06 12:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by vanessabfly 2

through out my marriage there has been alot of physical and verbal abuse,alcohol,and infiedilty from him! And now he has change completly but the love is not there.

2007-06-06 12:03:35 · 17 answers · asked by bunny 1

my parents dont like this friend an say that i cant hasng wit her an she is like u try to be such close friends with me but then u go an do this

2007-06-06 12:02:09 · 11 answers · asked by candygirl 1

She's never totally shaved before and it's been a fantacy to make love to her without the hair. Wouldn't she be more sensitive too?

2007-06-06 11:58:44 · 22 answers · asked by Julius4U 3

I came back from looking at a new apartment for my husband and I (he could not make it), as I was telling him about the place I asked him a question, he refused to answer me, but then asked me a question and demanded that i answer him. Then he stood up and slammed his fist down on the table right infront of my face. As he walked away i told him he is mean. He screamed at me from across the house and said "F*** You!" I said I cannot be with someone that's going to treat me this way (he has acted out like this in the past), and he said "Their is the F******* door then, you can just leave. I said you don't care? And he said "There is the door." My husband is in the Marine Corp, he tells me he loves me but i don't think he does.....can someone please give me some adivse about this situation? thank you so much....

2007-06-06 11:55:31 · 26 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

I finally did the "right" thing and told my married girlfriend I couldn't be involved with her anymore. At the time I met her she was separated and circumstances (kids and she lost her job) caused her to move back in with him. She promised it was only temporary and she wasn't sleeping with him but she strung me along LONG enough ....I know I did the right thing but I miss her. I really miss her and what we shared. Just looking for a little bit of support for my decision. Thanks for listening.

2007-06-06 11:29:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately there have been a ton of ads on the radio in my area about fathers rights being a joke as it pertains to custody of children and such. To me there should be given equal weight to the Mother and Father in a divorce situation with the court deciding based upon each case what happens. It seems as though it is automatically assumed that the Mother will retain the kids after a divorce, but why is that and what needs to happen in order to have that changed?

2007-06-06 11:27:48 · 14 answers · asked by Social Misfit 2

Is there a way for to check if someone is married. Like going to see if there is a public record? Would a divorce be on public record?

2007-06-06 11:23:32 · 12 answers · asked by bermuda0728 1

Does anyone have a separate account from their spouse as well as a joint account? I'd like to do that so I can spend money the way I want and so can he, plus at present time, there is no way for the other person to find out early...but my guy thinks it is a dumb idea and we should pool all money and never have separate accounts.
What do you do or think is best?

2007-06-06 11:17:07 · 19 answers · asked by Answers4u 4

No wonder there are so many divorced angry people?! lol

2007-06-06 11:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today my boyfriend decided to help me pay to register my car because I moved to NY to be with him. We have been together about 6 years. So last night he gave me 500 dollars, because we are not sure what it will cost. he told me to count it and I counted 500. So anyway today i came home and left the money and receipts for him. Heres the thing, I did lie to him and use 12 dollars for something so since they were all fifties I needed to replace the 12 and give him a fifty. As soon as he came home I asked him for my allowance but he had already counted the money and told me he slipped an extra 50 in to see if I would say anything. Now he says im a thief and I stole from him. I am really bad with money so thats why he is handeling my money and I get an allowance from him. So I told him thats why I asked for my allowance so I could go to the store and exchange that cash for another 50 and then tell him I found another 50 in my purse. I told him that I am guilty of lieing but steal?

2007-06-06 11:16:36 · 21 answers · asked by Carey C 1

Once the routine kicks in, marriage becomes so boring and monotnous. Any ideas on how to keep romance alive? Can you ever feel like you did when you were first begininng to date?

2007-06-06 11:10:04 · 28 answers · asked by luvbug7982 2