Marriage & Divorce - 6 June 2007

My wife left me 8 months ago and I was/am devistated. Is it normal to feel like I will never have someone like that again? Is it normal to feel like I'll be alone for the rest of my life? Anybody who can share their experience? Thanks!

2007-06-06 04:35:13 · 19 answers · asked by fedup 1

I know most you people will come on here saying once a cheater always a cheater but whatever.My husband was in another state not working or doing anything.I was 8 months prego and working.We were arguing all the time about how he never called or wrote or emailed unless I asked him to.We were arguing all the time about such little things.He then for the 1st time said it was over and he wanted a divorce.The next week my ex comes over talks about how it would've been different if I was w/ him & all this sweet talk.How beautiful I was and how he still loved me.Then we kissed but thats all.I was 8 months prego.My husband forgave me but I feel like he hasnt truly forgiven me so what should I do?? Is it just time that heals all wounds or is there more to it?? He says he still loves me all the time but he has brought it up in arguements that have nothing to do with it.We can argue about something but he can still manage to bring it up.He then says sorry and he wont bring it up but then he does

2007-06-06 04:34:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He cheated on me, verbally abused and emotionally abused me, has nothing to do with our children, but even with all of that I am having a hell of a time moving on. He begged me to take him back last summer but I couldnt be sure he really had changed, then 3 days later he moved in with his current gf, so how badly could he have really wanted to move in, right? I guess it is just hard not knowing if he really changed or if he is just scamming like usual and his time ran out with her where he had to marry her or she would kick him out. Plus, she thinks he doesnt see his kids because I wont let him, so he is off the hook for that. I am just so angry with myself for still hurting over him. We have been divorced for 3 years, seperated for 4, yet knowing he will be marrying someone else is killing me. I was the only on out of everyone he dated that he married,that was supposed to be my thing, to have his name,not someone elses who has been around for less that a year and has no idea about him

2007-06-06 04:32:41 · 14 answers · asked by hopefloats16 1

We have come back together after 9 months of seperation and she has told me that she cheated the night we seperated. I want her in my life but feel betrayed and can not get past it.

2007-06-06 04:32:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you work harder at the new relationship? Why? or Why not? Do you end up putting up with stuff you never would have simply because you do not want to admit you made a mistake?

2007-06-06 04:22:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is the poster child for passive aggressive. Promises to change then never does, makes all sorts of promises and never keeps them, lies and lies and lies, never vents anger, acts like he is the NICEST person in the world only to let me down time and again. Please, if you have this is your relationship tell me how you get thru it. I'm only 19 and am afraid that this has ruined our marriage. We will have been married for 3 years this October. I really want to make this work.

2007-06-06 04:21:18 · 38 answers · asked by Stand 2

I understand we all are different people with differnt values and experience. But I am not exactly considered very young and inexperienced anymore. He and I are both almost thirty. I am at a point in my life where I need to know where things are going. I don't want to waste my time. Life is too short... I have already discussed this with him, and he accuses me of "threatening" him. I understand it takes some planning to get married at the right time; but he won't even engage with me.
We have been together for a couple of years now. What should I do???

2007-06-06 04:20:55 · 27 answers · asked by genie333 1

wet? After twelve years of marriage, mine still does! Does this mean we have found IT? Real love, true love? What are your thoughts?

2007-06-06 04:15:13 · 32 answers · asked by lee911 3

I am “mature” is how I put it, I am single and disabled and I have a crush on my neighbour, she is roughly the same age & I know she is into me too. We secretly admire each other and flirt when we meet, we go to the park and we hold hands, we don’t kiss often as we have not got any teeth.

However out love was a secret until her nephews found out, they threatened me with knifes as I am of a different ethnic than their grandmother, the grandmother knows about this. She has suggested we run away far and never come back, but her nephews never leave the house, shall I tool up and go full commando, burst into her house and fly her away, but if I get caught her nephews will beat me dead. Btw I am a bit of a **** bag :o(.

What do you suggest?

2007-06-06 04:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you want your relationship to get better with your partner..you need to do things which satisfy his pleasure and his needs?or else he would felt that we dont love him?what do you think ladies out there?

2007-06-06 03:50:21 · 20 answers · asked by truth set free 1

I just dont want to have sex with him. A while back I met a man that I fell head over heals for. He is so much like me I feel like we are almost ment to be together. I am right now with my ex husband. I thought it might work if we tried it again but its not, and now I think I met the one I was ment to be with. And I dont want any thing to do with my husband now. Even the thought of doing anything with him like makes me sick . Soo what should I do ?????????? Please help me

2007-06-06 03:30:47 · 40 answers · asked by littlecowgrl26 1

why do people that claim to be my husbands friends always hit on me and feel the need to tell me they want to be with me?

2007-06-06 03:22:41 · 19 answers · asked by sunkiss 2

I am trying to find my x-husband, we have 2 kids together & have had no contact for several years (his choice) It was court ordered that he pay medical expenses and has not in 5 years (total of almost $20,000) the Attorney Generals Office said that i needed to send him a "certified" letter asking for payment & send the proof to them. I cant find him, they do have the info but cant give it to me, i was told i would have to hire a private investigator. I am a single parent & cant afford that. I have checked several online sites & still cant find him & dont have the money to pay anyone else. I do have his S.S. DOB, is there anyone who can do a free SS lookup? Please help, my oldest has severe medical problems & really need help with the bills.
Thank u & god bless

2007-06-06 03:21:39 · 10 answers · asked by Jennifer T 1

My husband had been ignoring me for some time, just not as attentive as before. I had tried talking to him and trying to get him to be more affectionate. I would get very upset because I thought I did something wrong. I catered to him more just to be closer to him. Well last night I decided I was through focusing on him so much, and decided to focus on myself and so I got all dressed up, and told him I would be back in an hour I had to run some errands. I came back all happy and in a great mood, and he said why are you acting like this, what did I do now, why are you so happy, etc. jokingly. That seemed to get his attention that I was not focused on him anymore, I talked about things other than our marriage. I had tried everything else to get his attention and when I diverted my attention, he was all over me. Now men, tell me why this worked?

2007-06-06 03:16:07 · 15 answers · asked by casey308 2

Just got married in mid March.Me in India n hubby is in Australia.I'l b moving there as soon i get my visa..BUT BUT BUT my husband is behaving very strangely.Sometimes he sems to be so lovey dovey n sometimes hez just impossible to understand.At times i feel that i have done a big mistake by marrying a wrong guy.He didn't behave husbandly at all since d day v hv got married but he xpects me to be a proper wife.Thesdays hes making an issue out of nothing.Hez been living all alonce since 10 yrs in Aus n probably he thinks that his freedom is gone now.Hez just making xcuses n issues n trying to pressurise me so much through calls n sms's so that i get scared and don't go to Aus.I am so stressed n depressed.My family n his family is completely supporting me.They say that just wait till ur visa n just go there.Don't get tensed by what he says.But its impossible not to get depressed in such a situation.He says he needs his space.Hell..M SO STRESSED..PLZZZZZZZZZZZZ HELP.

2007-06-06 03:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cannot understand why I go on here. He thinks that I shouldn't be interested in "chatting" with anyone. I explain to him that it is not chatting, it is just a place to ask and answer questions. It's fun! He thinks I think he is boring! Not so, I just enjoy yahoo sometimes. We have 4 kids and both work, it is just an outlet.

2007-06-06 03:13:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in the state of Georgia and I want to divorce my husband. We have been married for 1 year, but have been together for 4 years. We have two children - ages 3 and 1 years of age. I want to know the steps that I have to take to file for a divorce. I am a stay at home mom with a ( soon ) degree in Medical Transcription. I don't have a job and no money ( since my husband packed up his stuff and left) to pay for a lawyer to help with consoltation. What are the steps that I need to take? Are there lawyers out there that can help me with my situation? If there is anybody out there would be so kind to help me and answer some of my questions it would be greatly apperciated!!

2007-06-06 03:08:11 · 8 answers · asked by angels_killed_me 2

2007-06-06 03:06:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got married august 2005 after finding out about his affair with another woman i threw him out i ve not heard from nor seen him since i dont know where he is and after 2 months 3 weeks and 5 days of marriage i want a divorce

2007-06-06 03:03:13 · 17 answers · asked by wiggyfairy 1

OR you do believe that true love is reserved for someone unique and no one can ever replace him or her in your heart?

2007-06-06 03:00:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like we never see each other anymore. We both go off to work but when we come home he just goes right to the computer to chat online. He spends up to eight hours a day on the computer just chatting online. I have to beg him to spend time with me. I have told him how I feel on numerous occasions. Then he says he won't go online as much and that he's sorry, but then after a day or so he falls right back into the routine, which makes me feel that he isn't very sorry. I would just like some advice because I have only been married for six months and I don't know what to do.

2007-06-06 02:47:46 · 15 answers · asked by Brittany 3

I have told her my needs over and over and she doesn't do anything about it or even wants to talk about it. She bailed out and we see each other at her convenience. She wants her cake and eat it too. I am getting nothing out of this relationship, but I still love her.
I told her I'm ending it; and all the reasons why I'm ending it. It's hard to do; but I can't keep going on like this. I think 7 months is long enough for her to decide what she wants.

Am I wrong for doing this?

2007-06-06 02:31:37 · 19 answers · asked by Keeper 4

2007-06-06 02:27:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-06 02:25:31 · 12 answers · asked by Lefty 1

Why is that when your man lets you out of the bedroom or the kitchen... you think it's acceptable to cheat? 99% of all women really cheat. Instead of cheating, why not respect your man, and pick up the broom or at least start dinner?

2007-06-06 02:24:30 · 22 answers · asked by andrew a 1

2007-06-06 02:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I still love my wife dearly, but sha as made it plain that she do's not want to have sex. I have tried talking to her but she is adament she is no longer inerested in a sexual relationship. She is 7 years older than me and I still need a physical relationship, she claims she still loves me. What should I do, I don't want to upset her but I have sexual needs.

2007-06-06 02:14:43 · 32 answers · asked by LordSmurf 2

Q5 Is it wrong to hate your wife?

Now, i have this wife, shes smart, beautiful, but the problem here is; she studied Psychology. And, we all know what happens when a woman is old enough to be your mother, and most probably studied Psychology as well as some other BS, is that she is going to use what she has against you. As well, as witholding her love e.g. kisses.

Now, this girl whatever she is, has known me for a long time, but i've been what you could consider jail bait, im a good looking guy (some would consider a heart throb - what she loves to call the younger Johnny Depp). Now, even though i posses the smarts on the rare odd occasion, lets face it im NO genius. Even though i like to sympathise with Malcolm in "Malcolm In the Middle".

The question here is folks (and maybe my old lady too, not that one!); should i dislike my wife from loving and devoted to down one notch to "like" because i found out that her mental abuse she had put me through was all for her own pleasure

2007-06-06 02:08:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

And, women, do you think men define "successful marriage" differently from women? I'm a male and I do.

2007-06-06 02:02:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is online at this website myspaceafterdark.com but he wont let me read his messages like there to important or something ...what do i do...we have been married 1 1/2yr an it seems as if its headed down hill.

2007-06-06 02:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by blank man 1