if you want your relationship to get better with your partner..you need to do things which satisfy his pleasure and his needs?or else he would felt that we dont love him?what do you think ladies out there?
2007-06-06 03:50:21 · 20 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Men and women both need to nurture their spouses. It takes two to make a relationship work.
2007-06-06 03:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by QT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is a two way street. both partners should do things to satisfy each other... that is what a relationship is all about. Also you shouldn't be doing it out of obligation, you should be doing it because it makes you feel good as well. A selfless act will always make you feel better as a person especially when your partner shows their appreciation and maybe returns the favour.
2007-06-06 11:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea Shrimper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships should not be based upon physical actions alone. I mean, if you have been with your partner for a long time, and have done everything but had sex, isn't that kind of teasing? that relationship should end immediately. Especially if he is pressuring you and you do not feel comfortable. But there are other wayys of satisfying him. Make him his favorite meal, watch a football game, throw him a party...not everything is based on different kinds of sex. But also, make sure he is satisfying ur needs. Girls are very emotional. We like hugs and simple little kisses. Make sure that he is doing things like just talking with you. Don't go out of your way to satisfy his needs if he is not doing the same for you. Good luck!
2007-06-06 10:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the keys to a lasting relationship is communication. and by the way ...its both ways.. both should try to please each other, satisfy needs etc. unfortunately.. we could do all of the above and still fail... what does that say? Life is funny and sometimes a bit unfair. in this case.. maybe ask the question...does your partner want a better relationship with you? what about both needs?
and why would he jump to conclusions like....'you dont love him?' unless he has solid proof? e'g u cheated
remember there is someone always out there seeking to be better than you. so it takes more to keep a relationship platonic and make it better
2007-06-06 11:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by kc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like emotional blackmail to me: if you don´t do this to please me i won´t believe you love me. Ever tried thinking about all the things she does do to satisfy you and you probably take for granted? Like,if you were complaining you had no tie to match your new shirt, and a new tie materializes out of the blue for you? Or you get home tired and she offers you some coffee or just gives you time to relax by being there but not intrusively? Everybody has their own way of showing love. Maybe her way isn´t the best way for you, but you can´t give someone a list of things they need to do so you can feel confident of their love. If you know her at all, you can probably think up quite a few things she does go out of her way for just to please you. If you have some real issues on the subject, conversation is always best. Just keep it always in the "i feel" mode and not in the "you never" mode.
2007-06-06 11:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by counsel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very true that a great way to show love to your spouse is to ask him what he likes and try to do those things for him. But remember - you're not a doormat. It should be reciprocated at some point. You have needs just as much as he does. But taking the first step towards him in that way will certainly go a long way if he's a good hearted man!
2007-06-06 10:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the phrase "It takes Two to Tango" ring any bells??? In a relationship things have to go both ways. If not one party is left feeling used and unhappy. If a relationship is going to grow and last then both parties have to contribute equally to making it work.
2007-06-06 11:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One has to be constantly on watch out for the needs and pleasures of the other to maintain love.
2007-06-06 11:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because he does it for me and he keeps me happy and i keep him happy. I dont think satisfying eachother is the most important factor of a happy marriage but its a huge one, and lack of it can make a unhappy disgruntle partner who picks apart everything else
2007-06-06 10:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is not true, a relationship means TWO people that are involved w/ one another, NOT one person....both parties need to be satisfied in the same manner as the other....
2007-06-06 10:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by KAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋