If you forgave your wife for kissing her Ex while you were together what would she have to do???

Question

I know most you people will come on here saying once a cheater always a cheater but whatever.My husband was in another state not working or doing anything.I was 8 months prego and working.We were arguing all the time about how he never called or wrote or emailed unless I asked him to.We were arguing all the time about such little things.He then for the 1st time said it was over and he wanted a divorce.The next week my ex comes over talks about how it would've been different if I was w/ him & all this sweet talk.How beautiful I was and how he still loved me.Then we kissed but thats all.I was 8 months prego.My husband forgave me but I feel like he hasnt truly forgiven me so what should I do?? Is it just time that heals all wounds or is there more to it?? He says he still loves me all the time but he has brought it up in arguements that have nothing to do with it.We can argue about something but he can still manage to bring it up.He then says sorry and he wont bring it up but then he does

Answer 1

These things are hard to forgive, you were pregnant with his child and kissing another man. He too made a mistake, not maintaining communication like he should especially knowing you are pregnant, while pregnant women need emotional support-extra, so you both made a mistake, forgive each other and move on.

Answer 2

Personally, I could forgive this, but actions have consequences, so I'd dump you and move on. Sorry, but there it is. If a woman is interested in a man and respects him, and she has integrity, she doesn't do such things. It's plain and simple. I'm far too experienced and have too much self-respect to tollerate this kind of thing.

Answer 3

The truth is it was something you did do.
You need to accept responsibility for your action and if that is taking a cheap shot from your husband every now and again then let it be.
If you don't like your past being thrown in your face you should of lived a better life. Your actions were all your choice and you have to live with them.

Answer 4

If he forgives you then he needs to do it wholeheartedly and stop throwing it your face, you can't change it. He needs to be asking for your forgivness. He was being a bum and a jerk while you were 8 months pregnant. I think his offense was much bgger then yours. you kissed a dude after you two broke up. He was unsupportive and useless. Point that out to him next time he wants to throw something in your face.

Answer 5

It is not easy to trust somebody in any circumstances but to trust somebody after they have already abused your trust once is more difficult.
He needs to understand that it was a small mistake and you need to be aware that even small mistakes hurt others.

Answer 6

well its jus somethin tht he cant get out of his mind !! idont think u can do much other dan tell me it was a mistake n it jus happend !!

Answer 7

Nothing of consequence.

Answer 8

talk to them