Marriage & Divorce - 6 June 2007

How many times do couples have sex during the week. we have 3 kids 7, 10 & 13 yrs old. I'm lucky if I get it twice a month. Am I a minority?

2007-06-06 01:59:19 · 29 answers · asked by zeke3135 1

i'm married and have been talking to and have had lunch 3 times with a man who's married.last week he called me and asked me if i would like to have lunch , and yestarday i asked him and treated him to lunch. i feel we have a great connection verbally ,but my question is can it stay this way ?professional and platonic .we've never even attemted anything , he's never tried. i want to keep it that way. no hostile answers , just opinions.

2007-06-06 01:45:01 · 34 answers · asked by pitbullmom 3

We've been married two years. It's been great. I'm in love with her heart and values. I care for her very much and always want to be with her. I love everything about her, but her weight has always been something I've been willing to deal with because I love the person inside. Before marriage it wasn't that big a deal, but since her weight has gotten out of control. I'm obsessed with wanting a thinner wife. i play soccer two games a week, and work out at the gym twice a week. How do I get her to lose some pounds?

2007-06-06 01:40:40 · 24 answers · asked by Striker 2

I have 2 kids but i'm in contact with my old love and discovered i'm still very much in love with him than with my husband.

2007-06-06 01:39:58 · 20 answers · asked by cucumber 1

My girlfriend and I been together for 6 years.We lived together for 3 1/2 years and 2 1/2 years ago she moved away (about 5000 miles) to further educate herself.We've been seeing each other on the regular bases pretty much every 3-6 months frequently since.Our relationship has been very strong,even though it hasn't been easy.the original plan was for her to go ahead and do the career thing for about a year and then she was supposed to come back and live with me.well,that 1 year now has turned into 2 1/2 years and I am very frustrated.I love my GF very much and we always been very honest with each other.She has most of her family out there where she is right now and likes her job very much,but isn't sure about what she really wants and where she wants to be.She says she loves me and I do believe her a 110%,but she has a tough time to make a decision.We talked about ME moving and stuff,but my career is is keeping me where I am at.So here's the part I need help with.What should we do?

2007-06-06 01:28:55 · 16 answers · asked by Landshark 1

when an arrgument occures? I've been wrong plenty of times and will admitt it to her and never think about it again, but when I am wrong she will not let it go. However, when I am right I still do not think about it yet she gets mad. What is the big deal who is right and who is wrong just as long as the problem is solved?

2007-06-06 01:25:34 · 14 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

I left my daughter's father almost 5 years ago B/C he had a drug problem and still does, and his family hates me..why? I told his mother I left him cause I didn't want to tell her that I found her son dead in a hotel from getting high on drugs..but today when i show up every1 walks away from me. they moved when i sat down at lunch. they only thing i said was that i hate this one kid cause he grabs my but every day. do u think they hate me cause i told them that?

It is mostly younger women my age that are so hateful, most of my friends are women 50 + years old, my mom's age. They have no problem with me I am ok with myself. And I know that what others have to say about me shouldn't matter. I also have a lot of answers for why they hate me. But, I still don't get why they hate me, and why it hurts.
I am an ex wife myself, and I have no problems letting my daughters see their father, I encourage it whole heartdly..........just because it didnt work out with him

2007-06-06 01:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He said they were always talking about the kids when i confronted him months ago....i finally got him to admit she was 'helping him to understand and get through their divorce'? Is this normal and would that be a form of cheating? It supposedly was only phone calls and email.

2007-06-06 01:15:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend spends lots and lots of time on Answers and has lots and lots of contacts and I am wondering why he is contacting so many other women, Can this be addictive

2007-06-06 01:14:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday my husband said that he was going to buy a plain jane cell phone because he doesn't use txt messaging etc. Then he came home with a top of the line cell phone that connects to the internet. Also, I found on his email a email from verizon verifying that he does have email on his account. Also last night he left around 8 PM and said that he was going to a friends house and would return shortly. When asked how long..he became very defensive and then left. Also he took a shower and was in nice cloths. He called me at 9 PM stating that he was caught in traffic. Then I called him at 9:30 PM and he said that he was now at his friends. When I checked his cell phone while he slept, I found out that he called his friend at 9:36pm and again at 10:04PM. Also he took money out of the ATM of 300.00 and he does not have any in his wallet. He has recently lost about 30 lbs and he is dressing better than before. He keeps his hair trimmed up nice which is different than usually.

2007-06-06 01:11:36 · 27 answers · asked by CJ 1

my parents divorced when I was 5. and I remember needing my father to be with me very frequently. I have benn trying to keep this idea away from my mind......but things between me and my husband are not working out. I usually get frustrated and then I get moody and don't have any patience for my 15 months old. It really makes me feel very bad. But....should I sacrifice myself in order for my baby to grow with her father by her side. She adores him!!!! and calls him out constantly............................ ??????????????????????????????????????????????????? oh!! I also think I might be pregnant again

2007-06-06 01:04:01 · 26 answers · asked by scorpionbeat 2

Ok, so I'm separated from my husband for about 4 months now. It really doesn't look like we're gonna reconcile at this point. We split because he was no longer sure what he wanted. and he was unwilling to even work on our relationship. While we were packing our respective stuff, I came across his wedding band, and so now I have both.
I want to go sky-diving as part of my healing from this. I think it'll be cathartic - and part of me wants to sell our wedding bands to finance it. Is that too cold or hasty?

2007-06-06 00:59:18 · 13 answers · asked by Nimbot 2

2007-06-06 00:58:03 · 17 answers · asked by Striker 2

My STB Ex-Husband left me a little over a month ago for his "mistress" of one week. Since, he has chosen to go to NC with her three weekends instead of see his daughter. He has chosen on several occasions other than these weekends to see her instead of his daughter. He has been planning to move to NC to be with this girl for a few weeks now (keep in mind, they have only known each other for 6 weeks!!!). Well, I find out this morning, that he moved in the middle of the day yesterday without telling me, or WORSE, not saying goodbye to his daughter! Now he wont answer my calls or return my text messages. Why is he doing this to our little girl?!?! Why does he CONTINUOUSLY pick this mistress over his own flesh and blood?!?! He has spent $2,500+ on his mistress, but a meer $210 on his daughter over the past month! Does he just not love his daughter anymore? This girl has a daughter our daughter's age, and part of me feels like he's letting THAT little girl take the place of our own daughter

2007-06-06 00:50:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I were recently separated, we both agreed that it was better off this way.
We are both of Catholic religious beliefs, not practicing Catholics, but raised as such (ie. Baptisms, First Communions, Conformations for both of us). We both decided when we got married that we would not have it done in the Church for reasons not to be discussed here. The ceremony was done by a non-denominational minister outside of the church.
If the wedding was not held in a church, is it still recognized by the church? When I do plan on getting married again, it will be in a church, so do I need an annulment or can I simply get a divorce and be able to do this??

2007-06-06 00:32:04 · 5 answers · asked by ragu13ca 1

All his cloths and things are at his house but he can't go near. We know most of her alligations she made against him are not totally true and she has wanted him out of the house for a few years now. For finanacial reasons the house and other things are in her name and he is now staying with us, miles from home. How does he go about getting his things from the house and he is having to comute from Manchester to London several times a week due to commitments he has. Where does he stand in all this, what are his rights. ( the alligations were assault-she called the police and he lost it with them, he is going through a very bad court case over something else and we think maybe the stress has got to him, but i really don't know?)????

2007-06-06 00:00:29 · 10 answers · asked by BARBARA K 1