How many times a week do married couples have sex?

Question

How many times do couples have sex during the week. we have 3 kids 7, 10 & 13 yrs old. I'm lucky if I get it twice a month. Am I a minority?

Answer 1

You are not alone. On average (depending on how old you and your wife are) I would say once a week. I insist on at least 2-3 times per week, with a break once a month if you know what I mean. I have tried everything too -- from toys to different emotions (i.e. being extra nice, etc.), and nothing seems to work, so don't feel bad or alone. Women are genetically wired to be picky (they only have one prescious egg) whereas men are genetically wired to be promiscous (we have trillions of sperm to spread).

With that being said, every person is still an individual, so I would recommend trying something different. If that doesn't work, get a chick on the side. In the end, you have to have a willing partner, and if your wife isn't willing, then she breached her part of the marriage contract, and you are free to do what you want.

Answer 2

It depends on the individuals some people have it every night but some people may only have it 2 times a week and some couples may go a few weeks without having sex

Answer 3

no you are not I have 3 kids as well 6 11 & 15 and we are about the same as yourself....sometimes more but not by much...its so hard to find the time or a place my husband can be paraniod about the kids waking up and catching us, (its happened) and because the house is not sound proof nor is our bedroom it can be a strain...we have had our parents at different times take our girls for a night so we can be alone and there are some times when we go to bed or before when we know they are all sound asleep...... we are now trying to plan a weekend away for the 2 of us...dont worry you are not the minority..... Take care

Answer 4

I think this is a normal amount, however once a week would be a good goal. Try to romance her a bit, I know it is difficult when there are children involved.
Women get aroused differently than men. Make the dinner or clean up, give her a back massage, pour her some champagne. It is the little things that women like.
I do not think twice a month is out of the ordinary!

Answer 5

OH NO, we have a 3, 5, & 7...and I feel the same way I am like dude come on....but its usually twice to three times a month...if i am lucky once a week...rarely does that happen

Answer 6

Be happy you get it that much because I don't. You have to make your wife feel like she is the hottest bombshell in the world and she will want to give you some also you have to pleasure her up real good even if it involes toys because they are a big help these days with the hustle and bustle. Then you can get whatever you want I'm sure. Unlike me most women are not very sexual but that is the opposite in this house but accept your mate for who they are. She may need to start doing more physcial exercise so that she wont be so tire God bless you also tell her the bible do not condone her keeping her body away from her husband.

Answer 7

my husband and i have been married for 20 years, we have 4 kids, 14, 13, 8, and 4...i am 39 and my husband is 41...we have a very active sexual life, we do it 2 times every day....in the morning before getting up for work and again at night before going to bed, sometimes when we get home from work...but that is not counting because its not like every day...

Answer 8

No it really depends on the situation.Kids usually does mean less sex for married couples but them unless your a sex fiend most couples who have been married awhile slow down to once a week or less.

Answer 9

3 but
5 if you are lucky

Answer 10

Things change with kids and age. My husband and I almost every night. But sometimes you need to make it a priority for you guys. have a date night, drop the kids off at grandma's house once a week or two. Then do it all night to make up for the missed time.