Will you remarry if your spouse pass on?

Question

OR you do believe that true love is reserved for someone unique and no one can ever replace him or her in your heart?

Answer 1

you know, i didn't sleep at all last night, I just lay in bed and thought about this exact question, so it's weird to see it posted up on here. My husbands in Iraq so there's a strong possibility he may die at any moment. I would probably go a good 5 years without even thinking of another man. But then I'm assuming I would start dating again, but I don't think I would ever remarry, and I'd always wear his ring, I would just wear it on my other hand.

Answer 2

That is a tough question. A lot of people say they wont remarry if their spouse dies. But from what I seen a lot of them do. I dont think its because they didnt love their spouse. Its because they are lonely and want the companionship. Now for example a lady I know her husband died when she was 27. She was left with 5 kids and decided not to remarry and take care of her children. Now her children are all grown up and married. Dont you think she should at least have companion.

Answer 3

Im not sure that I would remarry again, but then I look at my sister who lost her husband to cancer when she was only 45. They were high school sweethearts and together since she was 15. She seems so lonely and I can only hope she finds someone again...she is far too young to spend the rest of her life alone.

Answer 4

Think about what your husband/wife would want you to do? Would he/she want you to be lonely forever or try to get out and find that special bond once again? No one will ever replace him/her so don't look at it that way. You will always have a place for that person in your heart and make sure you talk freely about them and tell the new person how much you loved them and keep open communication. You can find true love again-it is just hard to open your heart and heal those wounds.

Answer 5

My mom hasnt gotten remarried after my dad passed away. She has tried but its hard to get someone that she trust. now i dont think it is wrong to get remarryed i dont think that person that loved you would want you to be single for the rest up your life. What if you were young when they died like my mom was 35 my dad was 40. She still has alot of life in her. My dad wouldnt wana see her not happy again.

Answer 6

Yes, its not that I would be replacing my husband but I cannot imagine being alone for God knows how long. And why is it that you could not love another, is the heart not big enough to love more than once in a lifetime, I think not.

Answer 7

For me i have thought about this .I have been married 23 yrs same man and only man... I will not remarry if something should divide us... I have lived and loved with this one man for a life time and i do hope we have our entire life to be together... It does not mean i would not have a BF .. I just would not want to be vested with another man in the name of marriage

Answer 8

My wife and I already had this dicussion. I probably wouldn't marry immediately but after a few years i'd probably consider it. I'd have to feel strongly that it's the right woman though. When you've been married for a while it's kinda hard to adjust to being alone. Sometimes my wife would go away for a week and the 1st two days i'd be happy to have alone time but then i'm bored outta my mind..lol. So I think eventually i'd have to find a woman to share my life with.

Answer 9

I never would remarry. But there is alot of people that do and there is nothing wrong with that!! I don't believe I could have the same connection and be as happy with someone else!!! My husband makes me complete!

Answer 10

it would depends on how old i am when he pass on...
if i am some old lady, then i would not consider remarrying of course.
if i am still young, still have a long road ahead of me and have met someone as nice or better than my husband, i would consider remarrying provided that guy accepts the fact that i am widowed...