Just got married in mid March.Me in India n hubby is in Australia.I'l b moving there as soon i get my visa..BUT BUT BUT my husband is behaving very strangely.Sometimes he sems to be so lovey dovey n sometimes hez just impossible to understand.At times i feel that i have done a big mistake by marrying a wrong guy.He didn't behave husbandly at all since d day v hv got married but he xpects me to be a proper wife.Thesdays hes making an issue out of nothing.Hez been living all alonce since 10 yrs in Aus n probably he thinks that his freedom is gone now.Hez just making xcuses n issues n trying to pressurise me so much through calls n sms's so that i get scared and don't go to Aus.I am so stressed n depressed.My family n his family is completely supporting me.They say that just wait till ur visa n just go there.Don't get tensed by what he says.But its impossible not to get depressed in such a situation.He says he needs his space.Hell..M SO STRESSED..PLZZZZZZZZZZZZ HELP.
2007-06-06 03:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you married an idiot!
If he was worried about his space why would he have married you? that makes no sense.......Married couples cannot live seperately, that is not how marriage works and you need to get to the bottom of things..When you get your visa then get your booty down there..Do not let your husband have his cake and eat it to!
2007-06-06 03:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well looking from the outside it is typical Indian situation. Arranged marriage.How long did you know this man you call husband.Did you spend few months with him before getting married.You will be alone with him and he has friends and work mates . He as been there already ten year. .I hope this was not an arranged marriage for your dowry only.Look on the bright side you will get a visa to Australia. When you are there and if it does not work out you can start your own life.All marriages is a gamble .He too may be nervous with this new situation that is why he sound the way he sounds.
2007-06-06 03:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by thumba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut your loses with this guy! It hasn't been very long and there are way too many issues! In the end it's your choice but I think you should stay where you are and work on getting a divorce before you make the mistake of going there and having kids with him then you will really be in a pickle. Only you can decide, you have to be his wife! Think long and hard choose wisely! Best of luck to you in whatever you do!
2007-06-06 04:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by ~Kim~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much more space does he need....you're in India, he's in Australia!! Doesn't sound like you knew him very well before you married and I'm not sure what he was thinking. The two of you need to spend some time talking about your marriage and goals. If you aren't on the same page or even close, I would re-evaluate moving.
2007-06-06 03:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Australians are weird anyway. But marriage does strange things to people. A friend of mine got a divorce and I asked her when she new it was a mistake. She said by the time they got to the airport for their honeymoon. He had turned weird by then.
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