My husband is online at this website myspaceafterdark.com but he wont let me read his messages like there to important or something ...what do i do...we have been married 1 1/2yr an it seems as if its headed down hill.
2007-06-06 02:00:23 · 7 answers · asked by blank man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on how you define cheating. Keeping secrets and excluding a spouse is plain disrepectful.
BUT...
A lot of people on the net pretend to be someone they are not. It is highly possible he is pretending to be somebody else.... and he doesn't want to lose your respect by catching him in a lie, or by you finding out he is a net troll.
So he may not be cheating on you.... he could be 'cheating' on his on-line friends by lying to them.
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2007-06-06 02:16:01 · answer #1 · answered by Ratsoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is a married man online at a site like that?
Most likely he has decided he is "bored" and looking for some "excitement".
Some guys are just too stupid to see what they have right in front of them and feel the need to "keep looking".
Plain and simple - he is laying the groundwork for mistrust on your part - I would seriously consider seeking marriage counseling...and separation. If you cannot trust the person you are married to and are constantly wondering if they are up to something...then there won't be a happy marriage - and the really sad thing is that the more you question him and mistrust him...the more he will do secretly like this - and blame you for causing it.
Either get help - or get out. You deserve to be the center of someone's world - but maybe not his...
2007-06-06 09:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is being sneaky about something he is afraid of being caught at..
maybe he has not "physically" cheated, but he could be emotionally up to no good..
You need to let him know that you are concerned and hurt..if you have to get rid of the Internet in your house to solve the problem, do it..
some people have strange Internet addictions..
2007-06-06 09:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Secrets in a marriage are unacceptable and never a good sign. You and your husband need to talk.
2007-06-06 09:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already have the gut feeling he's cheating. Gut feelings are usually correct. I'd have a serious talk with him about your marriage.
2007-06-06 09:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by just a mom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can't you somehow read his messages?Like maybe join up yourself and search his user name?I haven't seen the site,but I am pretty sure you could do it.Also there would probably be a profile-you could see what he is posting himself as?
2007-06-06 09:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as judge judy says
if it dont look right
its not right
good luck
2007-06-06 09:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋