Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2006

oooooooooo girls will u help me iam to sexy for my own good iam cheating on my husband shaq with usher and vanilla ice i get my mc hammer on all the time my question is i lost a chicken wing under my boobie wat should i do?

2006-08-18 17:17:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My kids had to go stay with their dad tonight. I get a call from my daughter who is crying. Telling me she wanted to come home, because her dad and her were fighting since she got in the car. He later got in her face, screaming at her. My daughter was afraid of him, and she wanted me to come and pick her up. But the court order state he gets visitation every other weekend. He took me to court for contempt a few months back, because she was refusing to go with him, the judge did not find me in contempt. My Daughter is 14. To make a long story short I called the local police and had them check in on her. They gave her the option to leave and she kept saying "I don't no" So she is still there. What would you have done and where do I go from here. My EX husband is a real controlling person, and has a temper. I am afraid for my daughter. The reason she did not leave is because she was afraid it would make him more mad, and she doesn't want me in trouble with him.

2006-08-18 17:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by Right Wing Extremist 7

2006-08-18 17:06:35 · 4 answers · asked by michelle m 1

Today's world is changing and everybody is different. Do women feel that they have a job to do in a marriage? Is this essential for making it work? I see on women shows that don't address this issue. How do you communicate in a marriage what someone's job responsibilities are so that you can be a better team?

2006-08-18 17:02:30 · 7 answers · asked by Torrey O 1

2006-08-18 17:00:21 · 13 answers · asked by mother of 4 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years...he is 20. do u think we're crazy for being engaged?

2006-08-18 16:55:51 · 50 answers · asked by buttheadhatesyou 1

I periodically crave discord and kaos in my life and my relationship, so I make up terrible stories and accusations about my husband and convinvce myself they are true. I have done this many times in the 6+ years we've been together. None of the stories or accusations have ever turned out to be true,but in my memory I see them as real. He has never done anything that gives me a reason not to trust him, yet I am once again making accusations that I will convince myself are true. I infere or accuse him and when he denies it I insist his denial is concrete proof of guilt when he is hurt or angered I tell him it is because he feels guilty. Should I continue to put him through this if only a couple times a year

2006-08-18 16:53:22 · 6 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

who do you deal with an angry person who suffers from depression?

2006-08-18 16:48:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 16:42:16 · 9 answers · asked by lester p 1

2006-08-18 16:37:39 · 21 answers · asked by ndck 1

wife has been working getting her own live the last 14 mnths. Don't want to do anything as family. She has made a girlfriend that is almost 10 yr her jr. She is 33 stay out at clubs with girl friend till 3am. Went on vacation with girlfriend to Califn. for 5 days only give me 1 day notice. She is spending as little time as possible @ home. Kidz: 4S, 6D. She has made it clear that as soon as she gets a fulltime job, she is moving out.
She said I did not tell/show her I loved her. I only wanted to have sex. She suffers from bi-polar. I did not support her in this.

2006-08-18 16:32:45 · 16 answers · asked by tonylz 1

My friend Maria wants me to go out with this guy named Jon & she asks me
how I know that he isn't my special someone I don't know but when I met him I didn't have any feeling for him & I didn't sense anything & I just doubt that he is the one.
He asked me for my address the 2nd time that I talked to him & I didn't give him it
because that's too early to give someone your address & I don't give my address out.
And he was like do u have a job? And I said no & he's like this one place is hiring.
He kind of made me mad about these 2 things & he souded kind of pushing when he asked for my address because he kept asking for it.
He kind of reminds me of my sister's boyfriend that is a jerk & an idoit & he kind of reminds me of my sister's stupid boyfriend's brother.
I don't really want to go out with him because I didn't really feel attached to him &
I didn't really feel happy when I met him.
Maria is making me feel kind of bad because I don't really want to go out with him.
My mom's best friend said that if he is the one that I will sometimes see him around if it's planned & if it's not planned. Is That True???
What All Do You Guy's Think???
Do You Guy's Think That He Is The One For Me???
What Should I Do???

2006-08-18 16:31:40 · 10 answers · asked by Jill 1

2006-08-18 16:29:07 · 24 answers · asked by michelle m 1

my wife is out of town and this gal pours it on strong and I refuse. Should I mention this situation to my wife? I did nothing wrong and conducted myself in a responsible mannor. We have been married over 10 years now and she is truly my best friend. I do not want her stressed out when she leaves town for work but at the same time I want to tell her the truth. The thing is I am positive she gets hit on and does not mention it. Should it just be kept quiet?

2006-08-18 16:15:36 · 28 answers · asked by subgenius 4

My husband had an affair with one of my friends when I was pregnant with our second child. It's been 3 years and I can't let it go. We've tried counseling (twice). My feelings have changed. He wants it to work and I do know he loves me, but I don't love him like I used to. I am only here because of the girls. I can't even remember the last time we were intimate. I have no desires. His family is great and I know it would devistate them and my family. But I am just not happy. (My family has no clue about the affair). His does, but act likes it never happened and I need to get over it. I need advice. Thanks.

2006-08-18 16:15:27 · 73 answers · asked by kmh17545 1

to the accusation?

2006-08-18 16:14:35 · 14 answers · asked by foxyraley 2

There is no mental or physical abuse, the wife just wants the kids to like her more then their Dad. This is very odd to me since my Mom or Dad never played a game like that with their kids emotions.
Her parents are divorced and her Mother did that to her. Her Dad was a drunk and woman chaser so maybe he deserved it.

We have 4 kids girl 18, boy 16, boy 13, girl 11. She has turned the girls against me and I have little interaction with them ( it's sad). The boys didn't take the bait and I have a good relationship with them.

So why would a woman do this,,,,,,,, she is really damaging the girls with her self-centered behavior.

2006-08-18 16:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by reed 1

2006-08-18 16:06:23 · 10 answers · asked by russia_i_heart 1

I moved in with my bd...he stated that it was for financial reasons and that he has no romantic feelings towards me and does not want to try to be in a relationship.... but.....i constantly get mixed signals. we have a great time 2gether, just being around each other. Constantly make each other laugh, we act like little kids together. He hates the thought of me having a boyfriend. And he held me the other day...wow it felt soooo good! And his peck on the cheek was saying something else....believe me. He mentioned wanted to be married b4 we made this move and that the other women he was dating did not do it for him. We never argue, never have and we don't ever want to. Well, I think I finally want to tell him.....that he is the man I want in me and our childs life. I admit, I want to M.... him. I couldn't imagin being the wife of anyone else. but i am so scared. wat do i do? i think he wants the same. why won't he ask? unless, it is my wishful thinking. wat should i do?

2006-08-18 15:50:59 · 9 answers · asked by lukin4answers 1

I have really tried, been to marriage counseling, changed many things about myself to accommodate my wife, etc. My wife has left me and taken our two kids (0.3 and 6 years) and said she will not return unless I do what she wants only.

Nothing I do helps. I change something about myself and then she wants me to change something else. There are many things about her I want changed, but I have no leverage except that I am still paying all the bills, and she is racking them up considerably. I haven't played the 'cutoff-the-finances' card yet, but I am growing weary of this extortion and really hating my wife for depriving me of my kids. I know with a divorce, I probably won't see them alot, but at least I will see them sometimes. What can I do? I am nearing the end of my patience. I want my family back, but not my wife. What can a man do?

2006-08-18 15:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 15:45:49 · 6 answers · asked by melissachillinout 1

he is too big for me and everytime we have sex I cant walk for a few days, I went to the doctor because, I thought it was something wrong but, it wasnt he is just a very large man, and I am a thick woman, I dont know what to do because, it is good but bad later, I love my husband, but this is really painful for me, what can I do? it almost makes me want to get in a poly relationship...at least I would have some time to heal.

2006-08-18 15:45:49 · 35 answers · asked by Let's be real 1

I am now out over $10,000.00 in legal fees, etc. If I sue the man she had the affair with my chances of winning are very remote since there is no alienation of affection law in my state. I could sue him for intentional infliction of emotional harm or invasion of privacy but, again, my chances of winning are remote.

However, if I don't win I want to advise him that if he doesn't reimburse me my legal fees I will mass mail a letter to his business associates, colleagues, neighbors, etc. outlining everything that happened. I understand that the "truth" is an absolute defense to libel or slander. However, my question is this: Could I be sued for extortion or blackmail? I don't want to do anything immoral or illegal. But, I should not be out the legal fees since I'm not the one who committed adultery, abandoned our home, kids, and marriage.

2006-08-18 15:38:59 · 30 answers · asked by TB23 1

movies such as uncle Buck and EdTv and telivison shows like grounded for life seem to have done that.
dont get me wrong unmarried women are portayed to in a negative way.the only difference is that the bachlors dont feel sorry for them selves.

2006-08-18 15:36:52 · 2 answers · asked by ccameronbeaty78 3

we have been married for 5 yrs. have 2 children. recently had a baby. I know that it could just be because im a bit emotional from having a baby but hes behavior has changed recently. he is more distant, wants to spend more time alone, i dont mean going out because he hasnt started going out more but just likes his own space. ive recently noticed that when he is using the computer he quickly hides things when im about. he gets text messages at strange hours on his work phone even a couple of times at 1 in the the morning and he texts back when he thinks i am asleep. this happens about one to three times a week. we dont have sex as much as we did but he seems to want more than he ever did. i dont know if its just me being paranoid. he travels around with work and im wondering if he could be cheating on me whilst at work? he is a good father and a good husband but these things are out of character. how do i find out if he is cheating as i dont feel like i can confront him.

2006-08-18 15:35:53 · 41 answers · asked by hugz 1

when i'm on top of my hubby trying hard to reach climax but it doesn't work. Should I think of something else when on top of him? I mean he's great in bed but in the end I end up lying syaing yeahhh I'm satisfied. What should I do?
I'm female age 26

2006-08-18 15:29:48 · 17 answers · asked by sml 1

2006-08-18 15:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 15:22:22 · 18 answers · asked by parisrulesok 1

I still love her but I can understand why she moved on. After 2 years, one of my best friends come back from travel and after a couple of months tell us about this girl he is dating. I found out it was my ex-wife, especially when he began avoiding me. He confessed all at his house one day. I was hurt. He told me he'd rather forget the girl that hurt our friendship. He broke off the relationship.

Now I feel bad because he seems depressed and he was so happy to date my ex-wife. I am sure he loved her. I feel as if the right thing to do is to tell him to go back with her, our relationship is over anyway, and besides he loves her. I couldnt pick a better person for her. Even though it would make me sick to my stomach, if he loves her I wouldn't want to stand in the way. I already hurt my ex-wife too much anyway.

What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or just leave it alone?

2006-08-18 15:20:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

With so many marriages ending in divorce, do you think that eventally people will stop getting married altogether in the future?

2006-08-18 15:20:21 · 5 answers · asked by Smiles 4