Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2006

My ex fiancee moved out about two weeks ago. We have a beautiful son together. She gained 60 lbs post pregnancy and became depressed. She had lost interest in everything that we used to do including sex. Like a year and a half. During the pregnancy, which was a stressful time for both of us, we began to argue. Over the past year she stopped talking to me about our relationship and finances. I know that she has been depressed and I have tried to help her. All this has made me depressed in the process and now I feel like a failure. I tried to to talk to her over again about the relationship, but she would always change the subject. She also became very secretive with her computer, finances and cell phone. Now she blames me for the relationship going sour. I have asked her if there was someone else but she says there isn't. I have been supportive about the move, but she tells me she wants to try and work it out, but still doesn't know what she wants.

2006-08-18 12:58:09 · 10 answers · asked by el_donkeyman 1

Yes intirely naked!
When you are home doing anything..

Cleaning the shower, cooking dinner, eating, watching television? How comfortable are you to be naked?

Do you sleep in the nude? And yes I am cramming lots of questions in one!

2006-08-18 12:57:21 · 31 answers · asked by Nurse Betty 1

I'm talkin' the meet, get married and stay married 50 + years kinda love. Personally, I don't think it does. You tell me. How many couples getting married today will still be together 50 years from now? Maybe 1 in 5,000, and that could be conservative. Things just aren't he way they used to be, are they?

2006-08-18 12:40:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

nov. 4th is my 1st ann. and i want to get my husband something special, but neither of us has alot of money in fact we don't really have anything we are in debt bad and after ann. is his b-day then xmas so i can't spend too much. give me some ideas please!!!!!!

2006-08-18 12:40:16 · 8 answers · asked by mommy_dearest 2

i have seen that ex-married people sometimes get along better as friends as me and my ex. i sure laugh when i see her boyfriends mad and going crazy,, i tell them welcome to the club in coming to your senses

2006-08-18 12:38:54 · 26 answers · asked by quitelovableman 4

I'm trying to understand how people can rationalize cheating on the person they swore before God to be faithful to. If they don't love them anymore or are that unhappy why not get out? I just don't understand that kind of thinking and lack of morals. Any thoughts on this?

2006-08-18 12:36:21 · 11 answers · asked by blustang04 2

2006-08-18 12:28:14 · 25 answers · asked by drea318 2

2006-08-18 12:26:40 · 19 answers · asked by mukuljack 2

did you feel that your "honeymoon" was over and you started to settle for your current life?

2006-08-18 12:24:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a married woman who is spending a lot of time with a handsome, married man. We go to work together (bus, his car) and go home together. We have occasional lunches. He invited me for drinks once (I turned it down). Once I even playfully took his pictures inside his car. My husband does not know anything about this.

2006-08-18 12:21:56 · 62 answers · asked by Maria J 2

Been married 15 yrs now. 4 kids. Wife has never come looking for sex. She has great orgasms when we do have sex, but never comes looking for it. I know she doesn't cheat so don't go there please. Just sex is unimportant to her. but to me. damn if I dont jerk it, or have sex i would lose my mind. Frustrating for me. Getting tired of asking. yet she wonders why porn is now a turn on for me... any help from the ladies would be awesome

2006-08-18 12:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by lonely northern alberta guy 2

2006-08-18 11:58:19 · 20 answers · asked by zeeek344 1

2006-08-18 11:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by zeeek344 1

im 17, soon to be 18 in five months. my boyfriend is in the navy, (hes 19) and is leaving for deployment in september. is it possible for us to get married now?

2006-08-18 11:36:21 · 18 answers · asked by AdioSurfChick 2

my husband wants to go with me to a swinger club just for "curiosity" (just to look) but I don't feel good about it. For one hand I feel I should just go in order to please him, but on the other hand, I don't like it and I feel not going because I don't feel it right. Who should please the other one? up to where can one please the other one?

2006-08-18 11:34:54 · 13 answers · asked by sexy mummy 1

I am a newly engaged woman who wants to know from other married folks (or divorced), what the benefits are to being married, and what are the risks? I am just curious as to what makes people take the plunge, or get the hell out of the pool.

2006-08-18 11:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by ceesvamp 2

i am haveing an affair with a married man, and I am married also. We really car about each other and not very happy in our marrages. The thing is that he has been in his about 30 years and me in mine about 22 years. More than that, he does not want to leave his and neither do I. So is it so wrong that we enjoy each other for a few hour every couple of months?

2006-08-18 11:19:43 · 24 answers · asked by wldflw2003 1

My husband works 12 hour shifts and I am at home all the time with our 17 month old son. I go to college online as well so I never have any time for my self. My husband after he gets off of work goes and hangs out with his work buddies a lot of the time. He sleeps when he is not at work basically so I take care of our son 24 hours a day the majority of the time. He doesn't understand that I need time to myself sometimes I guess. I don't know what the deal is. He says that he wants to go out with his friends and that we spend more time together than a lot out couples. His sister watched him one day in the past week and every time I say that I don't have any time hes like well she babysits him and that alot more than most couples have. He says that he feels like he has to sneak off to see his friends. I am a stay at home mom so I don't really have any friends other than his sister. I don't really feel the need to go out because I'm always at home. Why does he act this way?Whats going on

2006-08-18 11:18:36 · 20 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2

My husband works 12 hour shifts and I am at home all the time with our 17 month old son. I go to college online as well so I never have any time for my self. My husband after he gets off of work goes and hangs out with his work buddies a lot of the time. He sleeps when he is not at work basically so I take care of our son 24 hours a day the majority of the time. He doesn't understand that I need time to myself sometimes I guess. I don't know what the deal is. He says that he wants to go out with his friends and that we spend more time together than a lot out couples. His sister watched him one day in the past week and every time I say that I don't have any time hes like well she babysits him and that alot more than most couples have. He says that he feels like he has to sneak off to see his friends. I am a stay at home mom so I don't really have any friends other than his sister. I don't really feel the need to go out because I'm always at home. Why does he act this way?Whats going on

2006-08-18 11:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2

My mom likes this sleezy dude but i hate him and she might mary him. what do i do to stop it

2006-08-18 11:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by snowman12 1

I have been riding the bus with this handsome man. On some occasions, I ride in his car to and from work. Now he is asking me if I want to go out for drinks with him? We are both married with kids.

What do you think of this guy? Is he a decent person? Is this a harmless gesture?

2006-08-18 11:04:07 · 34 answers · asked by Maria J 2

my sister thinks its only fair to treat your husband like one of those stepford wives treat their husbands..do you think thats true?

2006-08-18 10:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We play a lot of bridge as couples and her best friend and I have some great signals to cheat. My wife caught us, but she cheats too.

2006-08-18 10:58:49 · 29 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

is marriage glorified prostitution really?

2006-08-18 10:57:59 · 42 answers · asked by ellen s 1

anniversary.he wished me though.i got him a beautifull shirt and a tie but he have not.this really makes me go angry on him.should i just got to bed ignoring him or should i be normal as ussual?

2006-08-18 10:57:52 · 11 answers · asked by nazy 2

my husband has not been paying the mortage and we are served with a claim for possession shall i start on the absinthe

2006-08-18 10:54:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently nursing so I can't take birth control pills. Can you recommend a good method that is safe for nursing moms other than condoms? We currently use those and both of us would rather use something else.

2006-08-18 10:40:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do all couples do it? How do you know when enough is enough and you are simply never going to work it out?

2006-08-18 10:40:06 · 26 answers · asked by Brendon B 2

What was the issue? How did it happen? Did you come to regret any of your decisions?

I'm not talking about cheating, just one person saying I've had enough of this and leaving.

2006-08-18 10:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So here's the deal, my best friend Mela cheated on her husband eric with a mutual friend about 6 months ago. Mela and her husband have decided stay together. But Mela has talked with the "cheatee" since then 5-6 times. Her husband acts like he don't care. He says he is "numb" to the pain. WHAT?? After all that, I would be more upset. He walks around crabby and depressed all day. He totally lost interest in everything except makeing his wife miserable. He is even talking about filing bankrupcy on his house cause "he don't care anymore"!! What advice can I give him? Eric and I share a great friendship too, I feel like I could talk with him but I don't know what to say...any adivce would be really helpful! Is his behavor normal in this sitsuation? What do you think? Thanks so much!

2006-08-18 10:35:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous