My mom likes this sleezy dude but i hate him and she might mary him. what do i do to stop it
2006-08-18 11:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by snowman12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have been in this situation you are in and it is a terrible feeling. Its like watching an accident happening and not being able to stop it. You can do nothing. Your mother is an adult and will do as she pleases. All you can do is be as supportive for your mom as possible, and there if the marriage crumbles later on. If she asks you how you feel about her future husband, tell her the truth. Otherwise, smile and bite your tongue. You putting up a fuss will only draw her to him more.
2006-08-18 11:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why do you hate him? How long has your mother been by herself? Maybe she just want company. Did you tells her how you feel? Did you try to give the man a chance? How long have they been going out? You might not be able to stop a wedding. Just remember one day you will be grown and leaving your mom then where will she be. Did he ever hurt her or you? Sometimes we just want to keep our moms to our self but maybe you need to share her. Think about your mom not yourself. I hope you can straighten your feeling out before you hurt your mothers.
2006-08-18 18:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by RENA k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had to deal with this personally, but I have friends that have had to. The only thing you can do is tell your mom what you think. Sometimes she will listen and sometimes she won't. You just have to be honest with your mom and see what happens. Ultimately if they do get married, it is her decision and not yours, but would you let her marry the guy without telling her how you feel?
2006-08-18 18:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Sarah Bear ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell her, and prepare what you want to say. Try to sound as adult-like and reasonable as possible. Be open to her feelings as well.
2006-08-18 18:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not your choice to make...sorry dude, but you shouldn't do anything
2006-08-18 18:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by johnnydean86 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do any thing that you can do to kill him. I have that same problem with my mother. Just don't really kill him.
2006-08-18 18:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Track Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER
WHT Y0U THiNK
2006-08-18 18:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by lil_shortiie15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋