im 17, soon to be 18 in five months. my boyfriend is in the navy, (hes 19) and is leaving for deployment in september. is it possible for us to get married now?
2006-08-18 11:36:21 · 18 answers · asked by AdioSurfChick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let say yes you get married now and he deployment in sept and then later you found out he was killed on line of duty.. how can you handle that? what if he come back and acting nuts after he came home from deployment... what if he did something wrong killing someone over ther ewhat if..
so you want to get married? wait until he get back and find out if he same person when he gets home... once at war some men have changes their life... like my real dad he went to Veitnam war and came home totally different person.. so I think you need to wait until he gets back.
2006-08-18 12:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once your 18, yes you can get married
but thereal question is WHY?
you end up divorce like the majority of young adults ( 85% in your age group )
trust me when i say you have NO IDEA what marriage is about at that age.
you need to get a life, and marriage is not oneof them at 18.. you need to get an education..
he might be a navy guy but he too needs to develop a carrer
because i can see your future
you a single mother on welfare stuggling to survive
he a druken sailor realizing the mistake of getting a GF pregnant os early in life
2006-08-18 11:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? I mean I guess you can. But...save this. because in 2 to 5 years you'll wish you hadn't been so hasty. Of course...why listen to me?
Go ahead. Just remember....you've be warned. It may look great at 18 but after three kids and being shuffled all over hell and creation and living away from home it ain't all peaches and cream.
2006-08-18 11:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be the worst thing you'll ever do...Yes you can marry now..But You will always remember me for this...Don't get married right now...Do it when he comes back from Deployment..Trust me...Been there done that
2006-08-18 11:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking a bunch of strangers on Yahoo??? Be smart, sweetie.........you are much too young. You are probably in school so stay there and see what happens in a year. Afterall, he just your boyfriend.....at least for the moment!
2006-08-18 11:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter was in the same situation years ago. and when the relationship ended up I divorce i told here that i knew that's what would happen. When she asked me why I didn't tell her, my reply was "would you have listened"
Get out and enjoy yourself, there's more to do in life than getting married, its highly over rated.
2006-08-18 14:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Bob Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, with parents consent.
2006-08-18 11:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a parents consent only. why rush though?? he's going to change being in the service and is just finding himself, the same can be said of yourself....don't rush into a commitment, please!
2006-08-18 12:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if your parents agree and sign something saying its ok.
2006-08-18 11:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes with parents consent
2006-08-18 11:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by Looking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋