Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2006

I have only been married for 9 months and we have a 6 month old son. We get on really well and everything is fine, except that my sex drive is 0. My wife has a great body and is a real looker. I am attracted to her but just don't have the drive for any sex at the moment. She says it worries her and it is a problem. I am 31 and she is 23. She doesn't really make any advances towards me much either, but we love each other very much. It's just the sex that has come to a grinding halt. Is this normal? Does ones sex life slow down after marriage? Anybody else experiencing the same dilemma?

2006-08-16 23:58:30 · 19 answers · asked by George 2

Once upon a time marrige was sacred & for life. Nowadays it seems we get marred just because we feel/are physicaly attracted to another person. Note, another person - male or female or same sex. Not thinking about if we really can live together forever. Also, we often live with our partners rather than marry them. Why do you think we've ended up like this in many case.

2006-08-16 23:50:32 · 48 answers · asked by John "007"!!! 3

2006-08-16 23:28:33 · 22 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6

my date of birth is 11:06:1975 and his 26:12:1972 what will happen to our marriage and our life in the future?Will we be happy or unhappy? I have a baby boy will he grow up in a heathly way or no? I want a house of my own and full support of my husband will I get that?

2006-08-16 23:28:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

tex nlng kita kpag gicng n ank mo(9.52.33)

Thursday n sa ino buks bka akla mo wednesday plang ha. Bka malimutn mo nman magpdla. alam mo king napa aga klang ng tawag knina...10.23.29 AM

(baby) alam mo nhi2rapan ako s bgo kong schedule. Mbuti nkktwag ako khit sandli. 10.42.am(usa)

Mas mbuti p tlga n hindi tayo mag usap.kc kpag kinkausp kita mas lalo ko nrrmdaman ang panga2ilangn ng isang bbe. Alam ko nman n hindi mo kaya ibigay sakin iyon. Una, masyado kng busy. Pnglwa hindi k nssbik sakin. Pangtlo, alam ko nman n may iba k ng ginglaw. Kya nagmmdali k kpag ako ang kausap mo. Palagi akong nali2bugn. Gus2 kita ayain pero alam ko n magmu2kha lng akong tanga kpag inaya kita. Kaya kayo nlng ng anak mo ang mag usap. Huwag mona ako hnapin p skanya. 11.5252

Alam ko nman n nha2ti ang oras mo s work, s girl at s mga kaibign mo. Bsta maglaan k lang khit ilang minuto pra s ank mo. Ok n sakin iyon. Bsta huwag mo nlng ako kauspin. Pra rim matulungan ko srili ko n hindi kita ma miss. Ako nlng bhala spanga2ilngn ko. Pero khit hindi tayo naguusp, hindi ako galit sayo. Alam ko paglbas mo s work. Mkksama mo nnman ang girl mo. Don’t worry hindi ako ttwag s cel o s bhay mo. Cguro magli2bang nlng muna ako. ingat k s pag uwi mo. 12.01.14 PM

ako nlng ang bhala s mtanbok at bsang bsa kong puki. Mrmi tlga nagssbi n mtbaako ngyon. kya gus2ng gus 2 ko laging nka tong n panty. Kc lagi ko hinihimas ang puki. Sarap n sarap ako kpag pasok n pasok s pwet ko yung tongs. Ewan ko hbang 2mtgal talo akong ngi2ng mlibog. Cguro maniac n nga ako. Pero alamko nman n hindi kn nli2bugn sakin. kc skanya kn nli2bugn. Bsta huwag nlng tayo mag usap pra hindi ako mag demand sayo hindi tayo mag away. OK! take care bye. 12.08.18

2006-08-16 23:20:11 · 0 answers · asked by Sexy C 1

It seems women always want men to buy them dinner, jewels, flowers etc etc. And in exchange the men get get sex. So then that would classify most women as whores/prostitutes who only care about material posessions correct?

2006-08-16 23:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by Lothario 1

Me and my wife have been married for 3 years and have a 2 year old son.Now i'm living in India(i'm an Indian)with my son and my wife(she's a canadian)lives in Canada.We both agreed to get a divorce as things arent working out between us and she has agreed to let me keep our son.Now my question is,how do i get a divorce from her?Do i have to go to Canada as we were married there or i can do all the necessary stuff for the divorce from being here and my wife being in Canada?Please help me out here as i've literally no idea about how the divorce procedure works.

2006-08-16 23:06:05 · 5 answers · asked by Man@work 2

He didn't forget...he just didn't do anything for me, and we have only been married for 2 years. It really hurt.

2006-08-16 23:00:59 · 49 answers · asked by bburgandy 3

I hate to see them everywhere. Young girl age can be their daughter. If you are the father of that girl how would you feel.

2006-08-16 22:55:18 · 7 answers · asked by fail 1

Can your hubby heart love 2 woman, one the wife the other a third party. Love and care at the same time. i find it rather ridiculous.
Please advise.

2006-08-16 22:48:54 · 36 answers · asked by sun 1

My spouce and I have very different ideas about where our marriage and family should be going. We have differences about where we should live and what we should be doing. How can we bring resolution to this issue (10+years) without harming or hurting our children??

2006-08-16 22:42:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently asked for ideas on this forum with regard to the problems of being a step-parent. Since then the arguing and fighting have become too much and we have split. I am so broken- hearted and wonder why we (I?) couldn`t handle it. She is now seeking a divorce and I cannot see how to resolve this. Lost .

2006-08-16 22:39:45 · 27 answers · asked by richard p 1

I have a friend who's wife is an illigal immigrent. they got married just to keep her in the states and now she will not give him a divorce its been much longer then the min time to get your US citizenship and hes given her everything she asked for in the divorce. is there a way to make her sign the papers? can he have her deported and then file some sort of motion? how do you deport someone? any real ideas would be great i am really worried about my friend she is a horrible wicked person.

2006-08-16 22:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is too loved me. too..
I like that.. I know..and I understood..but he's not expression for me.
It's pretty harded to me. I wonder he is gonna be having brave and show me his heart..
Now.. we break up. but I wating him. wonder he come back to me..
Is he will do? If , he's not.. whole thing's lie between us..
I'm truly serious,, please give me some hope..

2006-08-16 22:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My rules are: 1) Don't bring anything home. No women, no babies and no diseases. 2)Do not get involved in another relationship. Keep it to one night stands. Do not give out personal information such as phone numbers, addresses or screen names, so as not to lead another woman into thinking you want to see her again.

My husband broke rule 2 and lied to me about it. We were overseas at the time he started that relationship, but he continues to chat with her and even tell her he loves her. There's not much of a chance he'll ever see her again, but he still lied to me. Lies are the ultimate sin to me.

Do I put the past behind me and give him another chance? This woman does comment that I am number 1 in my husband's heart. Or do I confront him with the evidence, then hand him his walking papers? He broke the rules and lied to me once, he may do it again.

2006-08-16 22:05:21 · 16 answers · asked by Lady Wraith 1

met my boyfriend last year, he was seperated from his wife and the attraction was overwhelming, like we'd always known eachother. he told me he'd never felt this way and eventually i left my marriage, job and friends and moved country to be with him. until 2 weeks ago things were great, he had the date we met tattooed on his forearm, bought me an eternity ring and we were happily planning our future. then he went to england to visit his kids and has come back a different man. he says he wants to try again with his ex-wife for the sake of the kids, says he'd rather be miserable for the rest of his life than see his kids suffer. he has asked me to leave our flat and has moved one of his mates in.has been indifferent and mean to me and now has pics of his wife in the flat, though he couldn't stand her 3 weeks ago. don't get it, how can he change so much so quickly and if he was playing from the start, why the tattoo, etc? he promised me the world and i feel such a fool...

2006-08-16 22:05:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is un happily married right now

2006-08-16 21:42:59 · 25 answers · asked by gettoolow 2

The fact remains it is a cop out for anyone to get a divorce from their lifetime ordained spouse who God picked out for that person to have for their whole lifetime. It is NOT a very brave thing to do at all . But people will say it is a very brave thing to do ..... well than call killing oneself a very brave thing to do too ............ but both of them are so wrong to do !!!!

2006-08-16 21:42:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Help me with either a group contact details or get in touch at bijotn@yahoo.com. I'm looking (only laides please) someone like me who will have answers to my question on managing and choosing between different options on divorce. Child has been growing with me; though his father has not been fair to me I do not think I want to deny him the right to meet his son if he wants...but the guy is too immature and inconsistent...I need to manage this well so that the situation works in everybodys favour but without causing me any loss.

2006-08-16 21:39:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to get this guy off my mind and just get on with my life, please give me hints

2006-08-16 21:27:48 · 36 answers · asked by kid 1

not even the 5 days a month .
and he has 11 child .

2006-08-16 21:16:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your partner curse you for bad to happen to you is just because he's angry at you.

2006-08-16 21:01:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 20:54:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How did you meet your other half?
How did you know they were the one for you?
What are your future plans together?

I love a good romance story, so heart warming!

2006-08-16 20:50:59 · 16 answers · asked by sparkleythings_4you 7

He gropes me every chance he gets, or makes sexually charged comments. I hate it and want him to stop. The more he pressures me for sex the more I don't want to. I've talked to him til I'm blue in the face and he just doesn't get it

2006-08-16 20:45:31 · 19 answers · asked by jaymesthreebabies 1

my brother is always annoyed by his wife,while he enjoys doing so.

2006-08-16 20:36:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLease see pt 1&2 to understand.Today my husband told me that his parents are moving to a different part of the city.So he told me he probably wasn't going to go back to school once he moves back home(the state where I am now for)(we're going back to college).Anyway I told him I would look for apts. in another city where he had talked about going back to school. Now he drops,i'll work with my dad. N he said "honey you need to stay at the school you are at i don't want to go away to school any more"so i said okay ill look for apts. in the city where i live now and go to school.Thats when he says he dosen't want to live in the city.So i said where do u want to live?and he said the place where his parents are moving,so he can live with them(big suprise). I told him he was selfish,then he said"im not,im willing to give u up so u can get a better education"It dosen't make sense to me.I followed him out of state for his job, and now he's not even comitted enough to live with his WIFE. HELP!!

2006-08-16 20:22:17 · 7 answers · asked by Cutelilthing831 1

From what I have observed dumb@ss women whine and cry because they can't find a nice guy but then they go with the "bad boy" that treats them like shlt. Seeing as how all my friends who are "nice guys" lose their women to bad boys. So, what are the shittiest ways to treat women since that is what they seem to like.

2006-08-16 20:03:54 · 16 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-16 19:30:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

we've been together for 10 years, have 2 children 6 and 9. and i feel that i am done, i can't do it anymore. he has always given me what i want, except the things that matter..respect for 1, honesty, trust. he doesn't think i'm ready to give it all up. i do not want to be with him and we have been seperated for a few days now. i have been done for a month now. i don't know how to let him know for real that it has to end, any suggestions?? is there any way to forgive him if i feel these hateful and resentful feelings now? i cannot see myself with him any longer, but i'm so used to him and a little apprehensive about being alone now. 10 years is a very long time. i need space, but for how long? when the hate subsides, what's next? i know someone has gone through something like this before?

2006-08-16 19:15:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous