Help me with either a group contact details or get in touch at bijotn@yahoo.com. I'm looking (only laides please) someone like me who will have answers to my question on managing and choosing between different options on divorce. Child has been growing with me; though his father has not been fair to me I do not think I want to deny him the right to meet his son if he wants...but the guy is too immature and inconsistent...I need to manage this well so that the situation works in everybodys favour but without causing me any loss.
2006-08-16 21:39:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is the child missing its father? Or is your husband against the divorce? If its mutual consent between two of you then there is no problem,but only if you are willing and he is not,then there will be arguements in the case and also depends the age of the child,its gender and what religon you follow and whether its christian marriage act etc.But think till the child becomes major the mother has the right to bring up the child.If you think your husband is immature and inconsistent then why divorce after having a child?You could have done that in your early days of marriage. You are also not mentioned clearly about your husband's role ie not been fair enough etc.In any case think of the future of the child.Have you given fair chance for your husband to rectify his mistakes for the future of the family?Your question is very vague.
But divorce through mutual consent is the best thing for you as the judge will ask you both whether you are divorcing through mutual consent and will fix a day for both to sign.Then once its through you are legally divorced.But you will have to convince your husband.Why cat you give him a last chance?May be he needs a life line.But just think the women divorcee had to go through after being divorced in India and especially the society.How secured are you from preying men?How will you look after the education and needs of the child?Are you finacially well off?Its just not the question of divorce but also the future of the child.
2006-08-17 01:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by rajan kumar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think a male can not help as well as a female?
I went through a divorce alone and am a male and if you get advice from the other side it may help
2006-08-17 04:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't understand the question clearly, but you should never keep a child from their parent, no matter how bad or who they are, or you think they are.
but if your not sure of this person, by all means be there for the visit.....like a park, or public place.
if you keep a child from their parent, they will hold it against you.
consult a lawyer....not strangers on the web!!!
2006-08-17 04:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
give second thought
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2006-08-17 04:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you made up your mind??
2006-08-21 04:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋