Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2006

i just want to be fairly prepared for the divorce. she is a business savy, smart person who has generally prayed on my nice personality

2006-08-16 17:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by Mark H 1

2006-08-16 17:09:07 · 12 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

2006-08-16 17:07:47 · 20 answers · asked by hrmom02 2

Me and my husband got in a huge fight tonight. I asked for a cellphone. I drive his son to daycare and I will be responsible to get him to school soon. I feel a cell is important if there is an emergency. We just got married and I started immigration work (I am Canadian) He's resentful that I'm not working now, but I can't legally work in the US yet. Right now I hate it, I can't work and have my own money, I can't have a bank account or anything here.He can afford a cell phone for me, it's not the money. He is being so cruel to me. I am asking for something reasonable. I go back to Canada in two weeks to visit my family. Should I just stay and find a new job and start a new life?

2006-08-16 17:04:46 · 33 answers · asked by Fleur de Lis 7

Basically he feels since he makes more it's not fair, who cares if we are to be a family we need to learn to share, not only money but everything, money is not the only thing we can't share. Hopefully this is enough to get some advice on what to do.

2006-08-16 16:53:11 · 11 answers · asked by docsharp6 1

I have been married for 6 yrs. We had problems with arguing over dumb stuff. I also felt like he was emotionaly cheating on me(running to another woman for emotional support).He would avoid me and I felt that he was doing it because he didnt want me anymore.We seperated for a couple of months but got back together.He acts funny sometimes and that is the only thing I think of is him doing wrong.

2006-08-16 16:49:12 · 10 answers · asked by Ali 1

2006-08-16 16:47:02 · 5 answers · asked by Liza Sinclair 1

He gave me his Air Force dog tags to wear and I want to give him something to carry on him as a constant reminder of my love and concern for his safety as a police officer.

2006-08-16 16:45:29 · 10 answers · asked by Max M 1

2006-08-16 16:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i just recently lost my house my wife oved to michigan my kids got taken by social services and i dont have a job i am broke living in a friends house about to have to move out cause the house is rinted to someone else and my car is about to breakdown and i have no money for gas if i did get a job and no family to turn to. let me know what you think i should do.

2006-08-16 16:26:24 · 10 answers · asked by kevin31909 1

I was divorced in 2002. I have a 8yr daughter and 13yr son, which I have joint and equal placement. My son doesn't want to come over anymore, which started when his mother and I let him stay by her house more because of his friends. I see him only on holidays and vacations. Now my daughter is starting to do this, which I'm not allowing. I am remarried and have a baby on the way. My wife has an 7yr boy .Well, anyways when the kids are at mothers house they run the house. They get everything because she breaks down and buys it.There is no structure there. She calls me all the time because she can't handle it. Here they have structure. I feel the kids don't want to be by me because of this, and what mom said to them about the baby. I am going to forget about them and they are not important to me anymore. I have a feeling it's working on them. I talk to them and tell them they mean the world to me. I'm scared of losing them. Is there anything I can do to prevent this? Thank you.

2006-08-16 16:23:33 · 8 answers · asked by Wayno 1

advice please

2006-08-16 16:17:33 · 7 answers · asked by carrie 1

Eight months ago my husband told me he wanted a divorce; two months ago that he had a girlfriend and it was serious. I was devastated and I still am, but I can begin to see light at the end of the tunnel. We were married for 20 years and have two children, one grown up and one almost. What I'd like to know is: In your experience, how long does it take to get over a divorce? How do you know that you're over it? How do you know when you're ready for a new relationship? I hope you'll share your experiences with me.

2006-08-16 16:16:17 · 11 answers · asked by Lotte T 3

2006-08-16 16:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by avocadoadam 4

My newlywed husband had a history of a gambling problem. We've been together for 6 years total. Hes been working at a casino for 6 years too. My electric went out & all the bills i found hidden (and yellow-past due) under the couch. hes been keeping them from me. I give him $1000 a month in bills. if he hasnt been paying all of our bills, hes been gambling. I confronted him about it & hes like,"There must have been some mistake." Obviously, hes lieing. He wont admit it. i cant get him to admit it no matter WHAT I say. He says hes gonna give me all his $ now so i can take over the bills. The bills were always a little past due, but never has been shut off. (electric,cable,phone..) I payed them all. Ive been trying 2 get him 2 apply @ other jobs, but says he wont make the money he does now. What should i do?Should i leave knowing he'll always have this problem? We have no kids & no mortgage. This is my 2nd marriage to a loser (I was 18 & it was for 6 months) im only 25! Man, Im so mad!

2006-08-16 16:14:44 · 19 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

My husband knows that I had an affair, but he cannot get up to have sex with me. He loves to masturbate, but he will not go to the doctor to get any medicine for his situation. What should I do. Should I continue to be with my lover, or should I try to work this out. I am in love with this other person, because my husband and I do not make love or have any kind of sexual contact.

2006-08-16 16:12:05 · 8 answers · asked by magically45 1

How do I know I am following my life according to God's plan? I have prayed, but I am still confused. There is a man who I believe is my soulmate, but because of circumstances, I need to be paitent and wait for him. My intuition tells me, this is the man that I am going to marry and that I am going to spend the rest of my life with,. I know the bible says love is paitent, how do I know I am on the right track?

2006-08-16 16:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 16:08:10 · 15 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6

sometimes you met someone and you fall deeply in love with that person and than one day the phone ring or you find a number ect. than your life change forever because this person you love as cheated on you and you never througth that will happen never!!!!!!!!!! So now you are in my shoes what do you think do all woman cheat weather married or not?

2006-08-16 16:05:03 · 13 answers · asked by themaninsidethman 1

I was just married in november 2005 but my husband is from another country (jordan) please no bad comments. I came back to the united states because I had some family problems. We had one appointment at the american embassy in jordan, and they accepted my husband. But he has to go to one more appointment because this is the process there. He will get his visa in 8 more months, and we have waited long enough. I just want him here with me. It's kiling me really, and it seems theres nothing we can do. Our immigration lawyer in jordan said if wanted an earlier appointment we needed to find someone in the government to help. so i contacted the governor of ohio and they tried calling the embassy but the embassy told them there isn't anything they can do for us now. the lawyer said try someone else in the government. does anyone know what i can do to get a sooner appointment, i feel like no one cares about our situation, im so sad, i just want to be with my husband. Thanks

2006-08-16 15:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by thisisnicole20 2

I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 ½ years, and we have spent our whole lives together side-by-side…literally. We have been friends since we could talk, and best friends since we were 8. When we realized that our feelings went deeper then just friendship when we were 13, we decided to move forward …and have been dating ever since. We’ve always known that we were going to get married - and made sure that everyone around us knows. For the most part, people don’t have a problem with it…allot of people think we are older then we actually are - we both turned 18 a couple weeks ago. He gave me a diamond promise ring when I turned 16, and we exchanged gold bands last year as a sign of our commitment to each other. Now, we are ready to let the world know that we are serious about spending the rest of our lives together - we want to announce our engagement. On some level, our parents are expecting this (we‘ve talked about this openly for almost 2 years)…but at the same time, we know they want us to wait as long as possible. And as much as we respect that and understand where they are coming from, we want them to know that this is what we both want. We both have full time jobs, and are bringing in enough money to live comfortably with the chance to save. We are both involved with church, and we understand that marriage is going to be hard - one of the hardest things you can do in life. We want to know how to best approach our parents with our decisions. We know it might take some convincing, but we want to do so in the most respectful way possible, without undermining their authority - even though we are both adults. Please, any advice would be appreciated!!!!!

2006-08-16 15:48:43 · 18 answers · asked by Cherished_Bride 3

I would like to know what is the pros and cons of being a singal parent verses a family with one parent never paying any attention to the chiled or spouce.

2006-08-16 15:48:37 · 9 answers · asked by jon i 2

This is very difficult because, of course there are two sides to the token. However it seems that no matter how hard I try, nothing is right in my marriage. Everytime I do something my wife does not like (i.e. cook before she cleans up, watch TV, change the baby's diaper) she gets mad and upset. She calls her mother and repeatedly tells me how horrible I am as a man. I try my best. When I DO clean it is never clean the way she would have done it. The nice and romantic things I do for her go out of the window when she goes on these tantrums....what should I do? Does marriage counseling work? We have one child together and another on the way. I am taking as much as I can, but I am to the point where I am not happy, but will put up with it for my kids...

2006-08-16 15:43:39 · 27 answers · asked by TrueBuckeyeWarriorMan 1

We have been married for almost 4 years and we have a 2 yr old son, when we are out with our son or alone together- his entire body turns around when he sees someone he thinks is attractive. I have expressed to him that it upsets me because I know what he is thinking and he doesn't consider that my son and I are present. He use to watch porn videos and surf the net for women. It bothered me too, especially when I spend all my free time with our son. It is most upsetting when I find him looking at women who aren't even attractive, I wonder why he even looks. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me handle this?

2006-08-16 15:32:36 · 41 answers · asked by TX-Smiley 1

Unfortunately, she uses their son as a pawn to exert her control all the time.

2006-08-16 15:31:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 15:30:38 · 26 answers · asked by arock2008 1

My ex and I were discussing Halloween, which he knows is my favorite holiday. I asked him if he was walking around with me and the kids this year, he quickly informed me that he had them Halloween weekend, yes I was disappointed.... I usually buy them really nice outfits for the holiday, but knowing he would have them I told him that he would have to supply their outfits this year. He got angry, he feels child support should pay for it, I dont. I dont think I should have to pay for them because I wont be with them. I did tell him that the only way I would help is if I was able to walk around with them, but considering he has a girlfriend (who was the one he cheated on me with) and their new baby I will not be there with her around. Whos right???

2006-08-16 15:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by southernyankee 2

i like a man but he is shy i would like to give him my number and go out with him to know him better

2006-08-16 15:28:31 · 14 answers · asked by BERJEAFRIJUN 2

If a guy walks out on wife &kids after 18 years with clear signs of midlife crisis,he cheats during the proses,wife filed for divorce (wife & kids love him very much)he moves the other woman with him ,lie about it ,miss payments she gets pregnant all this during the crazy period 4 months and he totally hides the baby thing from his kids & finally, he totally forgot about his kids.No time for healing or personal finding after the breakup of a very long relationship.

2006-08-16 15:17:36 · 7 answers · asked by Alijoy 1

i only married my husband 3 months ago and since then his changed so much. i pick him up and drop him off at work. now when i pick him up he walks in the door and goes to bed saying his tired and only comes out if his friends a here or to eat, or gets out of bed once the kids a all tucked in for the night. he also is very protective of his phone(his been busted with another girl before by not deleteing messages in his phone) he wont help around the house any more or anything. im always exausted from getting up around 5 to take him to work and dont get to bed till midnight from finishing cleaning around the house etc, and then get up during the night to our baby son. ive tried talking to him but he shuts down. im at the point just looking at him puts me in a bad mood im starting to rezent him. i dont know what to do anymore.

2006-08-16 15:14:16 · 36 answers · asked by mrs nevz 3