Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2006

Okay me and my fiance have been together a year now since august of last year and we have lived together 11 months and 27 days of the year that we have been together...what is the common law marriage like what is the qualifications to go ahead n say im his wife?

2006-08-16 04:36:55 · 20 answers · asked by Mrs Medina 1

You can argue that humans being given the ability to reason and exercise will power that there should be no problem being monogomous. I am a married female, married 12 yrs with two kids, a good sex life with my spouse, happy household, the picture....two kids, dog, cat, etc.....I'm successful, have a post grad education..blah blah blah....
why is it then, that I am constantly eyeing up men as a potential partner in crime, I have never cheated before and it bothers me. Any married folk have similar experiences

2006-08-16 04:35:23 · 14 answers · asked by flipit 2

I have lived with my ex-husband for six years and we adopted a child together. Our adopted son died lst winter. So in our grief we became like one again. Ex has a lung disease. He has been bedridden even before our son died. I've cared for him for diligently since he became bedridden. If we marry people will think I'm marrying him for his pension as a widow. Is this immoral?

2006-08-16 04:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by ADMIRAL 0125 1

our relationship start two yrs ago and last only 4 mths..and he met a girl and i withdraw..2 mths ago he get intouch with me again..he is still with tat girl ..one ting i don't understand tat he claim tat he still love me and i m the only one he love..wat abt that girl..is it possible for a guy to love two women at the same time...today i hv change my hp no...i tink is weird to carry on with him...wat u guy say..i m miserable...

2006-08-16 04:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some don't even pay $, some pay $ and think that's all they are obligated to do. Do they not care how their child is going to turn out, who they are, their interests, their lives?? And why even have them in the first place if they are such a burden? LOSERS!!!

2006-08-16 04:23:35 · 26 answers · asked by COblonde 3

we were married in the States, and I am Canadian. We have been seperated for 5 years, but I have no idea where he is. There is no communal property, but we have a daughter who will be 6. A little help please?

2006-08-16 04:23:12 · 11 answers · asked by Jennifer R 1

My GF says she's delayed for two weeks already, we both agreed to consult a Doctor. Nevertheless, she didn't asked me yet to marry her and so do I. Is it fair for anyone of us to settle because we might have a baby? Is it fair either for the baby if we'll do that? What if in the long run we both discovered we really don't love each other that much and that we need more time and space for ourselves? Any opinion will be appreciated.

2006-08-16 04:23:03 · 25 answers · asked by Bully Charmer 2

2006-08-16 04:22:30 · 3 answers · asked by goto930mass 1

i drive a new bonniville and my boss drives an older cavalier, how can i let him down without hurting his feelings?

2006-08-16 04:22:29 · 8 answers · asked by deet deet 3

If i knew something that could really damage or get even with the other woman and my cheating husband would you tell or do it or just let it go and they will get what's coming to them? Karma?

2006-08-16 04:14:15 · 24 answers · asked by still hoping for love 1

We're all hurting from a recent separation from their father. My eldest is not doing his schoolwork and wants to hang around with his friends often. I pray he won't rebel and become a delinquent.

2006-08-16 04:11:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

"Israeli law grants authority over all matters of marriage of Jews in Israel to the Orthodox Rabbinate. The law does not provide for civil marriage and non-Orthodox Rabbis are not allowed to perform marriages. [...]
The current situation results in severe limitations on the right to marry and found a family. Citizens without a religion make up a large number of those affected. It is estimated that out of the 800,000 new immigrants from the Former Soviet Union that have come to Israel since 1989, approximately 30% are not Jewish by Orthodox standards (according to Chief Rabbinate and Interior Ministry sources). In addition, the Chief Rabbinate does not recognize as Jews those who converted abroad in non-Orthodox conversions and will not marry them. Interfaith couples also cannot marry in Israel, even if one partner has no religion."
http://www.irac.org/article_e.asp?artid=16 (you do not need to install Hebrew, though such question appear for this link)

2006-08-16 04:07:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would not, but some do, E.g.:
"Israel's freeze of familiy unification in the Occupied Territories splits tens of thousands of Palestinian families
Report, B'Tselem/HaMoked, 15 August 2006"
http://electronicintifada.net/v2/article5541.shtml

"6-5 Majority of Supreme Court Approves Most Racist Law in State of Israel", Report, Adalah, 14 May 2006
http://electronicintifada.net/v2/article4717.shtml

19/07/2004: Racist legislation: http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/pages/ShArt.jhtml?itemNo=453006

2006-08-16 04:05:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have 3 children. If SHE wanted to divorce ME, then why should I have to pay child support?

2006-08-16 04:03:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We got our marriage license. Fine. We got married about two weeks ago. The priest took our marriage license with him and the certificate he was supposed to complete and told us he would mail it back to us. He just emailed me telling me he sent the license into our county and we need to pick it up from them. WTF? I think he screwed this up badly. We are in DuPage Co, IL

2006-08-16 04:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by pixiebdg 2

I have been married to my husband for almost 7 years now.Throughout our whole relationship he has been messed.He has cheated on me a couple times.When i found out about it naturally i had my questions.He always replied with "i dont wanna talk about it".So i was pretty much forced to drop it.Well ever since all that happenedi have lost alot of trust in him.I thought i would be able to forget but its been 4 years and stuff for ME just isnt the same.I do ***** at him alot cause i really seriously cant trust anything he says.I have been like this for a year now.all of a sudden i cant trust him .This is a whole new attitude for me.I dont know whats going on with me.I do stuff to make sure he isnt doing anything to me and it bothers him so so much.It always gets us into fights.Everytime i look at him i just wanna be away from him.when he is at work i always wanna send him hateful messages and then right after i do i regret it i feel so bad.I dont know whats going on with me i thought i would

2006-08-16 03:58:11 · 13 answers · asked by daisygurl326 1

This girl and I who I have been seeing for a while have called it quits. We expressed our love for one another when we were together, but now she says she's not ready for anything serious. We're both newly divorced and we started seeing each other while we were married. I know, that was bad, but we were drawn to one another. I really feel that this girl is my soul mate in life. Should I just let it die or should I try to fight for it again. I don't want to come off as being needy or pathetic, but I just feel deep in my heart that she's it for me. I'm lost with out her.

2006-08-16 03:54:32 · 12 answers · asked by woodersondylan 2

If your husband of 5 years had been having an emotional and sexual affair with a woman at work for the past ten months, is there any chance you would take him back? Heres a few more details- The wife is 10 weeks pregnant and the other woman is 8 weeks pregnant, both with his baby. He had another cell phone for the other woman, and met with her about 2-3 times a week, talked to her on the phone everyday and text her everyday. Spent every vacation day from work with her. So as the wife, when you find all of this out, would you stay or go? what are the chances its doomed regardless? Keep in mind the wife is pregnant with her first child by him and the girlfriend is also pregnant with her first child by him. Do you see any way in the future that this marriage could work?

2006-08-16 03:53:27 · 25 answers · asked by foxxyy44u 3

He comes home with lipstick on his shirts and says it was a friend of his that gave him a hug. Also hes been really good friends with this girl that use to be my friend.

2006-08-16 03:50:17 · 16 answers · asked by glow4833 1

This broad is very pushy, & I tend to be too nice to women. She had found the file on the floor that we were looking for and I put the paperwork inside. Are you easily swayed by your significant others or by the opposite gender?

2006-08-16 03:33:03 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

OK ME AND HUBBY HAD BEEN GOING THROUGH ALOT ALEAYS FIGHTING HE GOT CAUGHT CHEATING I FORGAVE HIM AND DROPPED IT I QUIT FIGHTING AND I ACT LIKE NOTHING HAPPENED HES DOING REAL GOOD HE COMES HOME I CAN CHECK HIS PHONE ITS LIKE ME ABOUT TO LEAVE HIM SCARED HIM STRAIGHT I DONT FIGHT I DONT EVEN BRING IT UP THE PROBLEM IS HE THINKS IM CHEATING HE WAS ABOUT TO CRY LAST NIGHT OVER THIS ALSO HE DOESNT WANT TO GO ON HIS BUSSINESS TRIP BC HE SCARED OF WHAT IM GOING TO DO ANY ADVICE PLS HELP I LOVE HIM AND IM TRYING TO MOVE ON

2006-08-16 03:30:42 · 30 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2

We have been married 5 yrs now and have a toddler.He is very loving,caring and normal.Only problem is he likes porn,topless shows,topless beaches,always looks at other women.I cried a lot initially and told him it makes me insecure and upset and ever since he has been discreet about it.I began accepting it as something all men normally do.I thougth the baby would change him.Then last week, I came upon an email id of his that he uses to subscribe to some site where he can meet women and exchange pictures,email or chat and all.I dont think these women are innocently finding a date because one of his emails read " I am 32 year old married man".I couldn't see the kind of pictures they exchange since he walked in then. My question to the men "would you do this if you love your wife?Is this just some kind of entertainment you like?" My question to the women "would you tolerate this,forgive him and let him outgrow this phase? Would you make some serious decisions?"

2006-08-16 03:28:43 · 19 answers · asked by Monica 1

2006-08-16 03:25:26 · 9 answers · asked by Me 2

is the sensation different for you when your man is wearing a condom? We know it's different for us, but what's a womans perspective?

2006-08-16 03:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some extra money for a few days. Can I pawn my wife at the local pawn shop for a few days, if I return for her later?

2006-08-16 03:15:40 · 19 answers · asked by rookiewriter 5

I am 27 years old and in a relationship with a 42 year old women. This has been going on for 3 years, happily. She now wants to marry me.
Is this accetable. I am slightly concerned. I do love her, but I am thinking longterm, right now she looks really good, but what happens for example when she is 50 and I am 35, or when she is 60 and I am 45. I am a little paranoid that people will think I am her son outside.
I am also slightly concerned that maybe when I am 29, 30 etc I may suddenly want a family off my own (she has 2 kids from prvious marriage, both getting older now), she is unable to have more kids.

Does this relationship have a future, please any advice would be great.

2006-08-16 03:14:38 · 37 answers · asked by shaunybhoy 2

he tells me where i can take my children ,sends me abusive txts,he threatens me constantly. my kids live with their dad +r frightened 2 stand up 2 him like i was.i have done everythin by the book.got 10 court orders 4 contact which he just laughs at. ive reported him 2 the police regardin his threats+the children r not premitted 2 come 2 my house i have 2 stay where he tells me. can anyone help me.i've been seperated 4 3+half years now is he ever gonna stop?

2006-08-16 03:04:46 · 22 answers · asked by bren 1

2006-08-16 03:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by sarah s 1

My husband had several internet affairs a few years ago. I finally started trusting him again and told him I was falling in love with him again so he needed to be very careful what he did so he didn't hurt me again. Because I was scared to just let go and trust him, I started checking on him. I found out he lied to me about knowing some woman online and have suspisions he was planning on meeting her for a beer while he was out-of-town. Now what? We have been married for 11 years and have two children. He will not admit anything except he lied to me about knowing her. So, do I try to work on this marriage and take the chance he is going to hurt me yet again or do I call it quits?

2006-08-16 02:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by jo 1

My husband was the most caring loving person I've ever known. That is, before marriage and 5 kids. When we are alone, we are wonderful together, but as a family we are constantly at odds. He has devloped an anger management problem. We have been to counseling together and he has seen a doctor who has put him on meds, but he only takes the pills once in a while. I feed off of his anger and the kids feed off the negativity.

2006-08-16 02:58:26 · 5 answers · asked by Koozie 2