If i knew something that could really damage or get even with the other woman and my cheating husband would you tell or do it or just let it go and they will get what's coming to them? Karma?
2006-08-16 04:14:15 · 24 answers · asked by still hoping for love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shes also married (seperated) and much older than he and i . shes 8 years older.
2006-08-16 04:58:17 · update #1
Don't waste your energy on revenge. Focus your attention on getting your own life back together. As for them, Karma does excellent work. ;)
2006-08-16 04:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What Goes Around. . . Comes Around....
My ex (my first boyfriend) and I went out for 5 years. I never gave it up because I was waiting for marriage. Two years into the relationship he got secretly married and had a son. Neither me nor his wife knew what he had done.
One day, I went by his parent's house to surprise them with my new ride and guess what I saw. Him in the front yard, a woman sitting on his lap and a little 3 year old boy screaming from his tricyle "Daddy look at me".
I got off the vehicle, calmly walked up to him, asked him if this was a joke. His wife had no idea. I punched him in the face, told him not to look for me anymore and to leave my family alone. Karma does work.........
Two years after that, his wife was my student at this Computer School. She did not remember me but I did remember her. When she realized who I was she told me how she found out that he had cheated on ME. She apologized because she had no idea and guess what, they are now divorced, he is in jail for growing pot in his parent's backyard and he has lost all custody of his son. We became friends.
Karma does happen, to some sooner than others.
With this I'm trying to tell you, just let it go because it is not worth your time. He is a looser and you already know that. Divorce him because if he had done it once, believe me he will do it again. Once a man is unfaithful and knows he can be forgiven, he will do it again and be more careful the next time around so not to get caught.
2006-08-16 11:32:47 · answer #2 · answered by lovely butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a great person and husband will get karma really bad for what he did. and You are so smart and beautiful and you know wha tyou doing and do what right and why get him back? will make it worst...... just do what ever you dream of doing that you wanted to do and do it and make it happen and he will be so damn shocked that you even better than that woman and he will beg like a damn hound dog hehehe. lol..so smiling.
I remember Left my wife not becasue she cheating or anything she didn't love me and she treat me crap.. what I do I walked out and my ex wife said if you leave you nothing.. without me.. well, guess what Karma did got her bad.. me I divorce plain and simple no pay back or anything.... but remarried and Have 2 kids and 3rd or 4th might be twin due in march 2007... I made my self better person.. guess what smiling ex wife gain alot of weight, have child but ex husband left her, she depend on mom and dad, she even live with them since I left her.
I so glad I did right thing, and didn't do anything bad. So it seem that she without me she nothing...... so you are smart and if he try to really giving you hard time you can just let lawyer know and judge will see you wow you not trying to act stupid but your soon ex husband to be will look really stupid and you will win all the way no matter what. It true and Look at me now! smiling.
2006-08-16 12:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have a cheating husband (I assume you know for sure they have been in the sack together) I have been where you are. However it involved multiple women and I never could find out what was going on besides courting. May I suggest you keep your damaging secret to yourself, it could come back to bit you in the butt. Just be happy knowing they are living in a black zone. By the way I stayed with my husband. Positive side.. financially my life in fantastic, my kids have two parents. Negative side..I will never trust him again. I have learned to not look too deep in his affairs for fear of what I will find. (He has always denied everything.. except for the one girl that I actually called up and talked to) If you don't have kids I would advise you to divorce. If you have kids, you will have to decide. Don't think that a divorce will be the end of your problems (unless you don't have kids) You will just have a new set of problems ,his girlfriends are not just going to vanish, you will be poorer, have custody issues and huge attorney fees.
2006-08-16 11:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on on how much u want to be married. i do believe in karma but in ur case it might work against u. think it through b4 u do anything. and the fact that u know he is cheating should be enough to cause damage u dont need any thing else
2006-08-16 11:21:59 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. I definately would like to get back at my ex husband for the things he has put me through. They do say eventually they will get theirs and 10 times worse. I guess I am still holding out on Karma to give him what he deserves. They do say Karma is a Biatch.
2006-08-16 11:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let it go because they will get whats coming to them. He will more than likely cheat on her and then you get the last laugh. She is already getting hers for being with a married man. I'm sure no one has much respect for her and her friends don't trust her with their husbands. Life can't be easy for her and its probably not worth it.
2006-08-16 11:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Karma is great. But you might want to find a lawyer and go for the house and 75% of all assets. That would get him.
2006-08-16 11:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They will reap what the sow.He was wrong and she was to if she know he was married.Some woman don't care if they break up people family but, you try to go on with your life and things will change for you.Focus on you and do things that make you happy,believe me they will pay for it big time.And be ready when he comes crawling back but by that time you will be able to think straight and make the right decision for you Good luck
2006-08-16 11:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why let their wrong doing change You. If You are sure something is going on get rid of him. You going through mental anguish will not accomplish anything. Get the houses, valuables and a chunk of his earnings and find someone you can trust.
2006-08-16 11:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋