He comes home with lipstick on his shirts and says it was a friend of his that gave him a hug. Also hes been really good friends with this girl that use to be my friend.
2006-08-16 03:50:17 · 16 answers · asked by glow4833 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That line has been around for years. You don't really believe it do you? He is going to be feeding you all kinds of lies to try to keep himself from being caught. Be smart and get out of there!
Good luck!
2006-08-16 03:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make-up on the shirt collar truly can come from a hug, but how often does this happen? It should not be a daily occurrence. How is he a really good friend with this girl? If it seems to be too close you need to step in and say "enough!" Don't let anything get started or you will be sorry.
2006-08-16 11:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, both of those don't mean anything concrete so don't jump to conclusions. My husband and I are unusual to people.. his best friend is a girl and I usually hang out with my guy friends. But none of us are cheating on the other. We actually have a great marriage that have lasted longer than any of our friend's marriages because we have a lot of trust between each other and there is no jealousy. I don't care if he hugs or gives a friendly kiss to other girls and vice versa as long as everything stays "kosher", so to speak!
Just keep an eye out for strange behavior.. people tend to get nervous when they're cheating so just keep an eye out. But don't assume anything just yet.
2006-08-16 11:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. He come home with lipstick on his shirt
2. He keeps his cell phone with him ALL the time.. Even in the bathroom...
3. He makes alot of trips here and there like(Hun I'm going to the store ) (Hun I'm going to wash the car) So on and so on
4.He spends WAY to much of his time with "THE BOYS"
5 He works alot of o:over time" but never has money..
6. When hes on line and you walk in the room he closes the web page or get real nerves...
7. He accuses you of cheating
8. He phone rings Way to many time a day and tells you it's his "Friends" or it's a wrong number...
9. He really doesn't to to go out in public...
10. Spending to much time on the phone or out with a female friend...
11. Him and his Car small like a girls perfume...
I hope i helped you out a bit
Hey go ahead and e-mail me...For some reason it's not letting me e-mail you back...But I'm go ahead I'm listening
2006-08-16 11:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the risk of putting my male friends I'll tell you this...
Clue 1. Odd stains on his clothing check his pants and underwear close.
Clue 2 if you live together, odd charges on his credit card. (Dinner for when he was hanging out with his friends who all have there own money.)
Clue 3. He's working late at the office but when you call they tell you he's gone for the day.
Clue 4. He not affectionate after working late and insist on not coming anywhere near you until after he's had a shower.
Clue 5. He won't let you near his "Gym bag" and insist on washing those clothes himself.
Clue 6. He does something with you that he's never done before without asking or talking to you about it to you first.
Clue 7. You get VD but you haven't been with anyone but him.
Clue 8. He calls you another woman's name while you're engaged in a sex act.
Clue 9. He stays out all night without call but nothing is wrong with his cell phone.
Clue 10. One of your best friends is uncomfortable around him or is always trying to get you to leave him but no one else is bothered by him.
2006-08-16 11:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by sierrajames1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why is he hugging other woman? Beware of the touchy-feely types...is he hugging you everyday?...is he giving you a kiss when he gets home? You need to confront the situation, before it gets out of hand. You need to tell him you are feeling very uncomfortable. This really good "girl" friend of his could become an issue, if he is sharing things with her, and not having meaningful conversations with you...
2006-08-16 11:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it in your gut, it is probaly happining. Buying new stuff to make himself look better, staying out longer then usual, smells like a girl, new numbers in his phone, ect. I have been there more than once and trust me there is nothing like an old friend and your boyfriend making out and having a big laugh at your expense.
2006-08-16 11:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by kutos666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back up and read sierra's and Whiskey's comments. They are pretty good representations, and for any other men who read this, they work with women too. A cheater just makes too many mistakes and always gets caught up.
2006-08-16 11:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by savvyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid to tell that he's probably cheating. Also are you not friends with the girl anymore? Are they still friends? Something sounds fishy there.
2006-08-16 11:00:56 · answer #9 · answered by kelley7744 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whew, the ole lipstick and it was a friend that did it line. You could believe it if you are seventeen and didn't know no better.
2006-08-16 10:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋