Marriage & Divorce - 16 August 2006

I have heard a lot of people say that they were happy having a lot sex and doing all these activities before they had kids, and now that they have had kids it seems like their life has stopped. Is it true that kids take away certain aspects in life? Is it true that kids ruin the sex life? Is it true that kids make things much more complex in relationship? If so, then why do so many people have kids?

2006-08-16 09:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Strawberry 3

I am 20 miles from home and I haven't seen my wife in four days.

2006-08-16 09:45:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

our bedroom into two areas since I snore like a dying hippo- her words. She even recorded it for me. I asked her how she even slept. I'm sad about it, but she says she's sadder. She wants to be in the same room though, some kind of sound barrier. Do you and yours have snoring issues?

2006-08-16 09:42:27 · 19 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

do you every put the seat up for your man

2006-08-16 09:39:29 · 39 answers · asked by har 3

2006-08-16 09:34:45 · 45 answers · asked by twinkle toes 2

I mean like back in the 50's when life was so simple. I dont mean live the simple life but just live the marriage life the way it was. based on todays high divorce rate, dont you agree something is wrong with the status quo?

2006-08-16 09:31:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is tired alot from work.

2006-08-16 09:28:08 · 14 answers · asked by marygold2012 2

do u really care about the love between yourselves , or if u r not satisfied from your sexual relation , then u gonna take apart ?

2006-08-16 09:25:45 · 2 answers · asked by Roozbeh 1

My sister's husband made a pass at me...and said he would love to know what it was like to have a pair of twins in bed with him....what do I do?

2006-08-16 09:25:20 · 14 answers · asked by Strawberry 3

2006-08-16 09:22:40 · 1 answers · asked by magic_guy 1

Okay..first of all let me say that I know this isn't a huge issue..not even close, but I am just curious to know if this seems overly sensitive, or if this would bother some of you? I ask my husband almost everyday how he is or how work was...( I am a homemaker..was stay at home mom for years). He answers me, but RARELY asks me how my day was or how I am doing. It makes me want to quit asking, but I just feel it is the nice and proper thing to do. So, tell me friends..am I being overly sensitive and would you continue to ask if he doesn't even ask you how you are? By the way, I have mentioned this to him before...I have said things, like..yeah I am fine too, thanks for asking, lol...but only on very rare occasions when it just really gets to me. I try not to rock the boat much around here...anyhow, my point is that it isn't like he doesn't know it bothers me...just forgets I guess. Thanks everyone for your input.

2006-08-16 09:21:47 · 27 answers · asked by ShineOn 4

Ive been married 10 years, have 3 kids, full time job, house & pretty normal life. Lately my wife & i cannot seem to get along at all, like most were completely different people. She has 2 sisters who are over 27 yrs old, both dont work & they both have live-in boyfriends who do not work either. Ive helped her sisters threw the years over & over with lending them money, giving them shelter, babysitting, etc. This year, things have gotten out of hand with 1 sister losing her car & other sister having car problems. My wife has been giving them rides & letting them borrow her car for there personal use. I objected immediately since i work & cant help they do not. My wife told me she will continue to help her sisters no matter what. Also, i had lent over $400 on my credit to 1 sister & she did not pay her balance. I have not spoken to her sisters in a few months & dont want them in my house. I love my wife, but im getting tired of this kind of behavior among other things. Help!!

2006-08-16 09:10:39 · 33 answers · asked by justaguy 1

have you thought about what it means?
how you would raise kids?
how you would interact with your spouse and
why men arnt that concerned ?
I think this love thing between women and marriage may just be socializaton. I hear alot about women being given up to other men to take care of them. as an independent female that sounds crappy to me. Seems old school.

2006-08-16 09:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 2 years I love him but we have had problems in past, we got in argument and husband left out
we have kids together. He still is intimate ever now and then and gives some money to kids but when I ask him if he is sure he wants to have a divorce he never gives me a straight answer he acts as though he is confused. But he does not want to come back home right now it has already been a month and a half and I love him I don't know what is his heart any more to many mixed signals. When I ask him when he is going to file for divorce he changes subject?

2006-08-16 09:06:08 · 11 answers · asked by crystallynbell82 1

A while back I wrote something about a sick husband and an overbearing mother in law. In that peice I wrote how my hubby was suffering from a severe form of cancer and how she wanted to take over our entire house leaving us all arguing and bickering day in and day out. My mother in law came from Tennesee and the out come of the whole thing was that she and my husband decided to move down to tennessee. Her reason, to get away from me, my husbands reason to get a second opinion from their oncology experts down there. I plead with my husband not to go but his mind was made up. His chicago doctor didn't think the trip was a good idea. My husband was not down there a week before he was hospitalized in critical condition. He was severely weak and on life support. I called my mother in law every day for 2 weeks before a child picked up the phone and informed me that my husband was in the hospital again. My mother in law did not plan to tell me and my kids anything. I was so furious.

2006-08-16 09:01:38 · 7 answers · asked by chrisandmell90 2

en to remove the bones. I broke the clever, sliced open my hand and got blood all over her. I laughed my butt off, she wasn't as amused. Would you laugh at this? Would the both of you? My wife is more serious than I am.

2006-08-16 08:59:54 · 25 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

i live in london ontario. filed my divorece with the courthouse JUNE 16 2006. i stillh avnet heard anything. is this normal? should i dd something? im planning on getting married SEPT 2007 and im starting to freak out htat my divorc eownt be done on time. it was a simple uncontested divorce, no kids no property, and clean cut...why havent i heard anythng?

2006-08-16 08:59:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My newlywed husband had a history of a gambling problem. We've been together for 6 years total. Hes been working at a casino for 6 years too. My electric went out and all the bills i found hidden (and yellow-past due) under the couch. hes been keeping them from me. I give him $1000 a month in bills. if he hasnt been paying all of our bills, hes been gambling. I confromted him about it and hes like,"There must have been some mistake." Obviously, hes lieing. He wont admit it. i cant get him to admit it no matter WHAT I say. He says hes gonna give me all his $ now so i can take over the bills. The bills were always a little past due, but never has been shut off. (electric,cable,phone..) I payed them all. Ive been tryong to get him to apply at other jobs, but he says he wont make the money he does now. What should i do? Should i leave knowing he'll always have this problem? We have no kids and no mortgage. This is my 2nd marriage to a loser and im only 25! Man, I cant believe this!!

2006-08-16 08:50:22 · 17 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

My boyfriend and I just got in a big fight that almost ended our relationship. We have been living together for two years and ever sense the summer began its been getting worst and worst.

Yesterday we made up and everything was alright and then his friend crossed the line and said things that should make him NOT be welcome in our home again. Yet, I know this wont happen. So anyways, after all this chaos and BS we started looking ahead. Sense we are both students we dont' have much money and sense we just moved into a new place our free rent is up and soon we will have NO and I mean NO excess money.

If he was to spend 15 bucks on beer or ANYTHING unplanned for it would screw up our budget REALLY BAD. He knows that we cant SPEND anything else. We only have 100 bucks for groceries until the 1st of Sept.

So I go onto his myspace and here I see a message where hes planning to go the bar. I had to put away money so we could do something for our ANNIVERSARY...

So WTF??

2006-08-16 08:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by Poestalker 4

my wife who i have been with for 10 years married for 2 has told me she thinks she may be gay. She has moved into out spare bedroom and needs time to think. we both agree not to move to fast and sell the house and go our seperate ways but i don't know what to do. I am not sure if this is just a phase she is going though or not. Has anyone ever come out like this before? what happened? what did you guys do?

2006-08-16 08:46:53 · 38 answers · asked by lost 1

also is it all porn these women have a problem with? is it just internet porn? is it just movies / pictures? do erotic stories count as porn?

2006-08-16 08:46:27 · 24 answers · asked by jude D 2

2006-08-16 08:45:24 · 5 answers · asked by Leah S 1

2006-08-16 08:40:12 · 5 answers · asked by trina 2

Your wife has decided that the dream of her being with another woman is something she wants to at least try once by herself. She has told you about this and you have been okay with it. She tells you that she wants to try alone and if she loves it maybe you can join if the other woman is in agreeance and there is going to be ground rules.
First of all...would you let your wife do this?
2nd - would you be okay with her doing it without you? 3rd - what would you make her do for you if she did do it?

2006-08-16 08:35:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-16 08:35:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you feel guilty?

2006-08-16 08:32:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you be mad if your husband works at the same place as you. and he works on your days off. and the other day he gave one of the females he works with a ride home. would you be mad or just think hes a nice guy he told me he did. i just need another womans point of view. thanks

2006-08-16 08:32:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left a really great guy named Mike for my ex Gary over 4 years ago. I knew I made the wrong choice back then, and I was prepared to tell Mike that I wanted to be with him and only him shortly after we broke off the relationship. But I found out I was pregnant by my ex Gary. After my daughter was born, I tried to find Mike to tell him how I felt about him, that I really still loved him, and that I hoped it wasn't too late. I located him, met with him, but found out that weekend that I was pregnant again by my ex Gary. So I had no choice to set my heart and feelings aside and stay with my ex Gary for the kids sake. But I can't handle it anymore. Mike is the only guy I want to be with. I need to tell him, but it's been 4 years. I found him yesterday on Myspace, he is single and was also searching for me. Should I just come out and tell him why I have been looking for him after 4 years, or should I start with a friendship again, and see if anything can develop?

2006-08-16 08:24:21 · 3 answers · asked by kirstie 1

i started a internet relationship 6 years ago. i waited 5 years to meet this person to make sure they were for real. we married 1 yr ago and she still lives in another state she is saying because of exhusband and child custody laws the moving process is stalled in court.

2006-08-16 08:20:53 · 13 answers · asked by lookingtospoilu 1

I'm sure most of us have all been there.. you split up with your other half through no fault of your own... maybe cos they met someone else. Then to rub salt into the wound, he / she shows this person off right in front of your face (accidently on purpose)... whilst you're still single and experiencing a sudden severe lack of confidence!

Wouldn't it be nice if you could hire a really good looking person for an hour or two (no sex involved!) to pretend to be your girlfriend or boyfriend) at a certain location. i.e all you'd do is select a person that would be appropriate for the occasion from say a website, maybe a brad pit, tom cruise, Kate moss, Kiera Knightly lookalike etc. Could you imagine the look on their face?

OK, maybe I'm just having a rough time, but I'm sure some of us who have had this done to them have at least thought about having this opportunity, rather than going out and trying to find a quick substitute to pretend it hasn't affected them!

2006-08-16 08:17:08 · 4 answers · asked by liquid_ice_71 2