Woman's point of view?

Question

Would you be mad if your husband works at the same place as you. and he works on your days off. and the other day he gave one of the females he works with a ride home. would you be mad or just think hes a nice guy he told me he did. i just need another womans point of view. thanks

Answer 1

Get a job elsewhere, you both need different jobs and have space.

This is just normal, giving a ride is normal.

Get a job somewhere else when you both can have the same days off to spend together...

Good luck

Answer 2

During the time when my husband and I were in the insurance business, we did work in the same office, and he was the boss. I've worked on days when he's been off, he's worked on days when I was off, and we sometimes but rarely had days off together simply because the office would just....fall apart.

My husband does give ppl rides all the time....he's the Pastor...I'd find it rather strange if he didn't help someone who needed a ride be it male, female, child, or stranger.

However, he NEVER gives a female a ride without calling me first (including our mothers). Nor do I give a male a ride without calling him first, and normally he comes and takes the man/men where ever they need to go. Not because he doesn't trust me, but simply because I don't feel it's appropriate to ride a man in my van without my husband being there unless it's an emergency.

In my opinion because of the fact that he told you he did it- I don't really see a reason to be concerned about it. He didn't hide it from you, or deny giving her a ride.

Blessings To You & Yours

Answer 3

No I would not be mad. I completely trust my husband. If men are going to cheat, there is nothing you can do about it. dont worry yourself to death over it. You cant live your life always watching and wondering and scared he's gonna be with another woman. If he is really that kind of man, why do you want him anyway? If another woman can have him, why do you need him? Let him go, and forget you ever knew him. Chances are he is a nice guy, and there is nothing wrong with giving a co worker a ride home. Give him the benifit of the doubt and realize he loves you, or he wouldnt have married you. Be happy.

Answer 4

He told you he did it, I think it was an innocent nice guy ride home. I've given guys a ride home from work before. My husband (now my ex) got a little bent about it. It just offended me to be honest. It was a ride home and nothing more. Just out of spite I didn't tell him that the man I gave the ride to was old enough to be my grandfather. Give your husband the benefit of the doubt. If he was sneaking, he wouldn't have said anything to you.

Answer 5

OK ck this out,my guy and i worked at the same place for 3 years he was not happy with me for giving guys or girls a ride home, even if it only took a couple of min. it never bothered me that he gave people a ride, unless he had done something else. a ride is a ride, not an excuse to do something else.

Answer 6

I wouldn't be mad unless it becomes a habit.

There is no harm done in him offering a co worker a ride just like it shouldn't be a problem if a male co worker took you home.

Now, I understand your concerns and as long as he knows your watching him closely, this will place him on notice to not let this get out of hand where every time you hear, your spouse has this woman in his car.

It's okay to be nice and understanding but don't let that understanding be used against you as a weakness where he feels you will accept him regularly giving her a ride home.

Answer 7

From my point of view...........it's not right for a married man to give another woman a ride home, unless you are there, too. I'm a little jealous, too, so take my opinion for what it's worth. But, maybe you should just offer to give a man a ride home from work, just to see how it makes him feel.

Answer 8

actually no 2 people that sleep toghther can not work toghther. I have tried it, is is hell. and as far as him giving another female a ride home, How would he feel if you gave a male a ride home or if a male gave you a ride home. even though he told you that he did that it don't mean nothing, maybe he told you so that when you found out by your other coworker you would black out. but trust to believe he would not like it if it was the other wat around.

good luck..also look for a new job

Answer 9

I think it would be okay if he called you and let you know about it to make you feel secure...that's the only respectful thing to do...and I used to work with my husband, I would never do it again...it's stressful cause sometimes problems at home can come on a job...sometimes my piece of mind comes when I am at work and can think....

Answer 10

That was my story, I asked if anything was going on and he swore up and down, nothing was going on and he kept giving her rides (in my car no less!) and one day I found a note, ( they were writing back and forth to each other telling each other how they felt about each other and that was that. Trust your intuition. It never fails us!!!!