Your wife has decided that the dream of her being with another woman is something she wants to at least try once by herself. She has told you about this and you have been okay with it. She tells you that she wants to try alone and if she loves it maybe you can join if the other woman is in agreeance and there is going to be ground rules.
First of all...would you let your wife do this?
2nd - would you be okay with her doing it without you? 3rd - what would you make her do for you if she did do it?
2006-08-16 08:35:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st Yes
2nd Yes, I would not consider her being with a woman to be cheating, especially if I know about it.
3rd My mind is full of so many ideas it would scare you.
Have fun with your bi encounter.
2006-08-16 08:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sausage Fingers™ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why are you asking other men what they feel about it? Don't you know what YOU feel? That's what should matter, you know? Are you confortable with it? You're probably not that confortable if you have to ask this question on the internet to a bunch of strangers. Dude, people are people and they'll have different opinions and feeling towards things. Don't let other people tell you what you should feel, if it's wrong or right or whatever. Think about it and find out what you feel and let your wife know it. Doesn't hurt if you talk to her about it. If you know what she's doing and she has your consent you can't call it cheating. This is a matter of you giving her your consent or not. Tell her to put herself in your situation and ask her what she'd feel like. Would she be OK with you wanting to have a sexual experience or whatever you want to call it with someone else other than her? If that doesn't get you a conclusion, ask her if she wouldn't mind if both of you had that experience together for the first time. At least that way you'd both be involved and if there was any remorse/regret, you could share it instead of blaming the other and possibly ruin your relationship. This is something you have to think through for yourself, it's not a decision you should take light-heartedly and it's not a simple happy-go-lucky gambling situation nor something that you can ask for a refund!
2006-08-16 08:54:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ricardo P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this would be fine, we already are a part of this lifestyle, the only hangup that I see is your second question, why make her do anything for you. Let her try it with the grund rules that you both agree upon. you can see what will happen from there. Being honest and open is the key to any relationship as long as you are both communicating honestly. Just do not let jealousy raise its ugly head.
2006-08-16 09:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not that my wife has any lesbian tendencies, but if she did, it would be very difficult for me to deal with. I don't have anything against people who are lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, etc... but when your already married, especially to someone of the opposite sex, it is no longer appropriate. You need to do your experimenting before you get married. Otherwise, your just going to hurt your partner, and more then likely ruin your marriage.
2006-08-16 08:50:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is cheating. If my wife is with someone else she isn't going to be with me anymore. I'd boot her out of the house for something like that.
2006-08-16 08:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes and Yes. I'd make her commit to having me participate in a FFM threesome w.her and a friend of her choice.
2006-08-16 08:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess I would have to go along with it butI would want to be sure that it was not a habit and that it was an experiment..I would require nothing in return...
2006-08-16 08:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by ggroess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while this is every mans fantasy i dont think i personnaly would not be comfortable seeing my wife naked with anyone male or female but if she insisted on doing it i would want to be present
2006-08-16 08:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by lookingtospoilu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋