My boyfriend and I just got in a big fight that almost ended our relationship. We have been living together for two years and ever sense the summer began its been getting worst and worst.
Yesterday we made up and everything was alright and then his friend crossed the line and said things that should make him NOT be welcome in our home again. Yet, I know this wont happen. So anyways, after all this chaos and BS we started looking ahead. Sense we are both students we dont' have much money and sense we just moved into a new place our free rent is up and soon we will have NO and I mean NO excess money.
If he was to spend 15 bucks on beer or ANYTHING unplanned for it would screw up our budget REALLY BAD. He knows that we cant SPEND anything else. We only have 100 bucks for groceries until the 1st of Sept.
So I go onto his myspace and here I see a message where hes planning to go the bar. I had to put away money so we could do something for our ANNIVERSARY...
So WTF??
2006-08-16 08:49:31 · 9 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think he is being insensitive, I think he is being asinine. I think he just doesn't care or have his priorities all messed up. Maybe he needs a reality check. Perhaps, hmmm, perhaps he rather drink beer than eat food or he might think beer is more important than your anniversary or pay the light bill or whatever. It sounds like he is just really immature and how do I put this in a nicer way, he is being stupid?!!! He needs an attitude adjustment.
2006-08-16 09:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not at all mature, and he expects you to pick up the slack, would be my guess. Don't spend your extra money on him--save it so you can pay the rent and buy food, and then tell him that if he doesn't have his share of money for the bills you are going to find another person to share the place with.
2006-08-16 16:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite obvious that he is not ready for anything serious. Time for you to move out on your own. He is only staying there because you are taking care of the things that he does not want to. If it was ment to be then after you move out he will grow up and come back to you. You do not want to be married to someone who is irresponsible like that because for the rest of your life you are going to have to take care of him. You need to find someone who wants to take care of you!
2006-08-16 16:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is still a child! Needs to grow up. Take off before he spends everything and you have nothing.
2006-08-16 15:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "man" you speak of is still a boy!!! He needs to have a swift kick in the pants (front or back...it is your choice), and then told to grow up and fly right!!!
I hope this helps,
Lonnie
2006-08-16 15:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by lonnie_m_d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him about that
and if he gives you B.S about it then go live somewhere else.
he does sound somewhat childish, or maybe you are demanding to much of him right now.
2006-08-16 16:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loser boyfriend! get out now while you can. get your stuff and go. boys dont change. trust me. oh and they always stick together. they will pick there friends over you all the time. been there done that!! two marriages!!!
2006-08-16 15:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by mml619 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insenitive cuz he can be,u havw aLLowed him to disrespect you,,dont expect this to change either,,accept him or get out,really its all your choice..but there is a ocean full of fish
2006-08-16 16:24:07 · answer #8 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on.
2006-08-16 16:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋