My sister's husband made a pass at me?

Question

My sister's husband made a pass at me...and said he would love to know what it was like to have a pair of twins in bed with him....what do I do?

My sister and I are twins

I also, don't want to ruin her marriage...she has been married for 3 years now...I just don't know what to do...

Answer 1

i agree with otis. keep quiet the first time because for all you know he might have just been acting silly. do your utmost best to avoid him. he is just your brother-in-law after all so you don't need to see him constantly. keep away from him. if he does it a second time WARN him to stop it or you will go to your sister about it. if it happens the 3rd time? strike his azz out and tell your sister. the guys's obviously a jerk so...3 strikes means he's friggin' OUT.

Answer 2

Tell your sister immediately. The same thing happened to me and I didn't speak of it right away. My sister and I already didn't have a good relationship because of differences of opinion. So I didnt tell her until after they were divorced.
She was hurt I didnt tell her then because she had thought he had been cheating and had I told her when it happened, she would have left him then. I just didnt want her to be put in the position of taking my word over his.
But, yes, tell her no matter what. She needs a heads up on what she's married to. And even if she doesn't believe you now, she will because he is who he is and will do something to show his colors to her eventually.
She will appreciate your honesty in the long run.
Best wishes.

Answer 3

Hint to your sister about three way and have a great time. Dont tell her he made a pass because there will be more problems than you can imagine. Besides all girls want to do it one time, it may as well be with your sister and her husband.

Answer 4

who cares that loser should be respect you no matter what he is married to your sister. wow, he have balls to ask you that. I can't ever imaged if I was in his shoes. and For being in your shoes tell your sister and tell her stright up or just soon he come talk to you and use tape to recored what he said and then finished and go home and if it clear and understand and then hit it and tell him i already recored it and now you have a choice to leave me alone or have my sister hear this. that would blow him away and leave you alone big time. or have someone deaf like me can read his lips what he said and then person can tell your sister smiling. I can read lips.

But the point is that you should tell her because later on something happen between them. she will coem to you said you knew this about this and never saying anything about this?? so really tell him to leave you alone if not then get your sister and have her watch what he said and then that will be the proof. smiling. really if that my brother in law i would kick his A$$ big time smiling.

Answer 5

Tell your sister. Tell your parents, and tell your husband. Yup, it will cause problems. But, even if the jerk was kidding, being that stupid should interest his wife. Now, IF sis says so what? End ALL relations with her. No matter how it works out, NEVER go to any event or family gathering that includes your brother-in-law.

Answer 6

whilst my spouse back from being out of city a neighbor instructed her I had made passes at lots of the only females on the city and 0.5 the married women on the city. One woman became the biggest b*tch ever and had left city 3 years previously. None of it became authentic. you are able to no longer have self belief each and every thing you hear, yet then you definately pronounced hubby did it as quickly as till now, yet then you definately did no longer outline betray that would mean something.

Answer 7

You need to let him know that you don't want him and that you really don't want to hurt your sister. If it gets to a point where you can't control the situation you need to tell your sister even though she may not believe you. that happens alot

Answer 8

get away of your sister's husband and avoid being with him alone. If he continues talk to your sister.

Answer 9

What would you want your sister to do if the situation was reversed?

Answer 10

let your sister know right away that way it puts an end to it real quick