He is tired alot from work.
2006-08-16 09:28:08 · 14 answers · asked by marygold2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Before jumping to conclusions about infidelity, try to spice things up. Maybe with some provocative attire, or video. Perhaps some kissing. Married people just don't make out like they did when the relationship was new. Maybe going away for the weekend. You could also try a new hair cut (down there).
If that doesn't work, then perhaps there is something going on, that you should know about, it may not necessarily mean infidelity, but as a married couple, perhaps communicating or seeking counseling may help.
2006-08-16 09:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either cheating or needs to make changes to get his sex drive back. He should see a doctor and rule out any physical ailments. A loss of interest in sex and/or reduced sex drive is not good. Is he on any meds that may affect sex drive? IF so, time to talk to the doctor. Does he get excercise? If not, time to start with the doctors OK? Excercise will increase his energy levels, releases natural mood enhancing chemicals into the body, and improves mental and physical well being.
2006-08-16 17:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating on you could be a possibility. But like the other answers even if that is the case and he is cheating on you it might be cause he wants variety in his life a bit different. Kama Sutra can be found on the internet nad gives you different ideas of things to do to him. Might shock him, he might not be into that really and he really might be just tired from working all the time. Hang in there and investigate as soon as things seem weird enough and you start finding things and put enough together to prove he is cheating on you confront him with the proof.
2006-08-16 16:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sad that someone suggests YOU making a bath, performing oral, etc.
He should be more than willing to do all those things for YOU. HE asked you to marry HIM. Sure, maybe he is tired from work -- but everyone has sexual needs no matter how tired.
Talk to him about it. but don't talk in a negative way. otherwise he won't react the way you want him to.
2006-08-16 16:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is that you say he not interested in sex anymore becasue he is tired alot from work.. are you blaming on your husband for your sex life? why don't you tell me what you do?? do you work or do you do work do you have plm with sex or what?? what about you??? you just plain and simple pointed at your husband and not yourself???
2006-08-16 16:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, when it comes to that because I am in a similiar situation. It is wrong for men to treat us like that because what happens is you will begin to look for love elsewhere. Hopefully he is really tired, he might be cheating on you.
2006-08-16 16:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw him a bath, candlelit dinner, massage, in your nighties. That should get him going a little. Also, throw a little oral in there. I'm not trying to be pervertic, but foreplay can be a nice addition to an intimate evening.
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2006-08-16 16:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband has always said that when he stops wanting sex with me, he's getting it somewhere else. This may/may not be the case for you, but you might want to try marriage counselling.
2006-08-16 16:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have tried changing the way you approach or getting away together to be totally alone. I am of course assuming you have children. My he needs some down time so he can recharge his batteries
2006-08-16 16:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by ccrock007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Viagra baby
2006-08-16 17:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋