Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2006

2006-08-18 23:59:44 · 26 answers · asked by antony raja 2

If you are both married and cheating on your spouses why would you want to go to a hotel for the weekend. Is it true that if your cheating you are not in love? Not happy?

2006-08-18 23:53:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 23:28:06 · 28 answers · asked by tucker82 1

After plenty of sex together and plenty of children together, she's had enough childbearing. Can't say I blame her. She offers me only vasectomy or celibacy. I hate the first option, so I'm "shut down," the second option. She refuses to get her tubes tied. I can't stand condoms. How can we solve this hellish Mexican standoff? (Oops - don't mean to offend my brethren from south of the border!)

2006-08-18 23:22:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been dating this guy for about 8 months, and he got jealous about my fishing buddie and auto mech. that helped me when my truck when it broke down one day.He cheated on me with his ex-girl, now co-worker. He then asked me to get rid of fishing buddie, because he was jealous, he stated. But he still had friendships, with two ex-girlfreinds he didn't get rid of. He had to asked aweek and half later;after he asked me. What is really going on??

2006-08-18 23:20:45 · 14 answers · asked by gayle j 2

2006-08-18 23:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by Lothario 1

My partner and I have a 3year old and a 8 month old and after 4 years together all we have done is fight, pretty much 6months into the relationship.

I feel like I know nothing is ever going to change the best I can hope for is that I just accept that we may live together but pretty have sep. lives. He goes out with his friends on the weekends and I'm bound to my kids.

If I wasn't so materialistic I may have left by now. But I have my dream house, car and hired help. Not to mention I haven't worked a day in my life since I met him when I was 19! and he doesn't seem to care if I never work again as long as I shutup and let him do what he wants.

I feel that I have become to accustomed to my standard of living and if I ever had the guts to leave him I may regret it when my lifestyle changes and I don't know how I could deal with it.

I have everything money can buy but just know one share it with.

2006-08-18 22:04:35 · 10 answers · asked by lolitapearla 2

No candles, no soft music, something diff, cute, sexy, sweet, very naughty...

2006-08-18 21:56:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

and doesnt want to loose me and the children. He also says he ended it.How can I believe him.

2006-08-18 21:50:36 · 12 answers · asked by su2b4 2

2006-08-18 21:45:46 · 17 answers · asked by CrualKing 1

I have to ask for some advice. I am newly divorced, with a young child. And I have this male friend, mature, in his fifties, with a stable family and business. He said he just want to be close to me, is it ok to be nice to me.......

How do i smooth this out without putting both of us into a awkard position. The thing is sometimes something may worth of to be risky, but, there isn't any chemistry. And most important thing is I don't want to be "that" woman full stop.

Any ideas?

2006-08-18 21:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by dolce4all 1

I have been with the same person for 9 years and now it seems to me like there is just no hope-I don't know what to do. AND I have two kids. I can't divorce and counselling is in my opinion a waste of time ( you need to meet thid guy to understand ) I guess I'm f*cked.

2006-08-18 21:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

you know for example when mum dumps kids on dad's doorstep when he changes his contact arrangements.. or when mum tells kid that dad is dead or doesn't want to see kid..because mum doesn't want dad to see his daughter.. things like that where the kids don't know where they belong or who really wants them

2006-08-18 21:04:14 · 21 answers · asked by ellen s 1

We all have fun before marriage. Lot's of dating followed be sex with lots of guys. Why we should not do it after getting married? And if both the husband and wife agree on this, what's the harm?

Sex is basically having fun. As we can watch movies or have a coffee, we can have sex. The basic concept is same - To have good time. One may claim, 'it's not exactly same, as there are 'risks' in having sex'. Were there not any before marriage?

I feel that monogamy after marriage is quite hyppocratic, when all us are ok with it before. What is the basic reason for this concept of monogamy by the way? I mean I can have a family, very well look after it, and still have sex with other friends. and so can my husband.

So still is it wrong??

2006-08-18 20:50:29 · 13 answers · asked by Maddy4You 1

Why cant ppl be together just with an understanding? No bonds in the form of marriage. No commitments. You can break up whenever you want without much fuss. Isnt it exciting?

2006-08-18 20:45:07 · 11 answers · asked by Ramanathan RV 1

When i met this guy it was kind of love at first sight for me we were together for over 1yr and then broke-up. I tried to go on with my life by going out and dating wich at the time it seem to work but for some reason he always somehow would come back into my life. We never got back together but we would still see each other by this I mean dinner and of course sex. On and off we saw each other for over 4 years I always hanged on because I loved him but then I found out that he married his ex while he still saw me on the side I told his wife and of course to me his dead.
But now Im having serious issues with man I feel like they are all liars and just cannot get back into the dating thing again.I feel completely betrayed,discusted,depressed and lonely...

2006-08-18 20:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by prettygirl 1

2006-08-18 20:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by theodore van skiver 1

Maybe because the party lasted till the wee hours of the morning and both of you just didn't have any energy or too tired to even perform fellatio or cunnilingus to each other.

2006-08-18 20:29:29 · 10 answers · asked by louie m 2

2006-08-18 20:17:58 · 48 answers · asked by jenny 1

2006-08-18 20:12:57 · 7 answers · asked by cdplayer 2

My husband want to divoce because of the stress, so do i. Both of us are woking , we have 2 shops , we work in the shops , i also want to take care the children ,he don't take care the children,even talk to them seldrem ,and never teach them homework,i am not housewife,so i feel very tired, he go out some weeks often,,and he never give me any monney if he despear,if i don't open the shop my family will be hungry, so if he want to divoce, i think maybe it is good to me ,i think maybe i can get monney from him, i am very tired also ,but i know i can't leave the chindren alone just like him,sometime i think if i leave the family like him ,maybe he will stay at home,but i can't make my mind to do that, how can i do?anysuggestion?any lawer can help me?

2006-08-18 20:12:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 20:05:06 · 10 answers · asked by bossdiva_34 1

Its my hubbys birthday! We have a great sex life, and are always into trying new fun things to keep things interesting. It would be especially cool to have a new trick today to surprise him with. I was just wondering if you guys have any great pointers. Nothing like "light some candles, do something romantic together, blah blah blah" Duh, those things are obvious. Looking for new things to try, not mood setters, etc. So any advice is appreciated, thanks!

2006-08-18 20:01:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

even though hes not here and left i still feel he loves me.
ideas please! someone must have good answer for this.

2006-08-18 19:56:35 · 6 answers · asked by krisknows 1

We have been together for 8 years. I am divorced with 4 kids. I turned down alot of other men for him. I have caught him repeatedly looking at teen porn, both internet and mags. The last time I found a "barely legal" mag, I got mad and I went to a bar. A guy started hitting on me. I would not give him my number but told him my name and he looked it up and tried to call me. My boyfriend answered the phone and was pretty upset. He swore he that he would never look at porn again. I married him in March and now found 2 mags, "barely legal" & "finally legal" in his work truck under the seat and a condom missing. He says he used the condom on himself. I should add that although I think I must look okay for my age since I still get hit on in places like the grocery store and my kids get teased about having a MILF, I am a very insecure person, so I maybe it's me. I was very up front from the start about my baggage and not wanting a relationship, so why was he want to marry so bad?

2006-08-18 19:52:28 · 13 answers · asked by mt3437 3

2006-08-18 19:48:44 · 7 answers · asked by rishi 1

2006-08-18 19:34:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her friend comes from Sweden and is staying for 3 weeks at ours,
would I be nuts to refuse or should I risk ruining everything?........This was all my wife's idea !

2006-08-18 19:31:13 · 21 answers · asked by '47' 1

My wife was in a car accident a few days ago and she recieved some fractures and cuts and bruises so she will be in the hospital for a few weeks. Well, our very attractive female neighbor has always wanted to hook up and have sex with me. I figure while my wife is in the hospital it would be a good chance to do it without getting caught. My question is should we have sex at her house or my house? Thank you.

2006-08-18 19:30:45 · 21 answers · asked by Lothario 1

I haven't had sex for more than a year, but occassionally i DIY.

2006-08-18 19:24:07 · 16 answers · asked by ndyong 1