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My husband want to divoce because of the stress, so do i. Both of us are woking , we have 2 shops , we work in the shops , i also want to take care the children ,he don't take care the children,even talk to them seldrem ,and never teach them homework,i am not housewife,so i feel very tired, he go out some weeks often,,and he never give me any monney if he despear,if i don't open the shop my family will be hungry, so if he want to divoce, i think maybe it is good to me ,i think maybe i can get monney from him, i am very tired also ,but i know i can't leave the chindren alone just like him,sometime i think if i leave the family like him ,maybe he will stay at home,but i can't make my mind to do that, how can i do?anysuggestion?any lawer can help me?

thank you for all of your suggestions, but now the ploblem is my husband go out for about 2weeks,not give me anymonney,sometime i think it is too funny to do that, now i want to support the family, oh my god ,i hope i have never met this man,i am so tired. Now i hope i can divoce fast ,at least if he don't give me monney , i can ask the lawer to settle it .For me i don't want any money,but now i want to support 3 childlen , his mother , and one maid, it is very difficult for me to stare that.

Answer 1

getting a divorce might be a good thing, but ur children need u. if u leave them they will have no father or mother then what would they do. after the divorce if u have one of the shops u could sell it and use the money from that to take care of ur children. just stay strong and remember, if u leave ur children it could cause severe emotional damage and they need u. best of luck.

Answer 2

It's kinda strange that replies from the ladies seem to suggest straight divorce. But plse give a thought for the ones who will suffer most........your kids. Have you ever had a heart to heart talk to perhaps hear out each other ? Give it a try and who knows. We tend to always look at our view of things but maybe the other party has his point of view which we are not aware of. Hope you can work things out. All the best.

Answer 3

You already know the answers to your questions...but here goes.
Divorce him! Why have him around when all he does is take up space?! Hire a lawyer and sue for child support! By the time the court is done with him...he'll be crying cause they're going to
take most of his money and give it you for the kids! And if he doesn't pay the child support he's ordered to...they'll lock him up. I bet he regrets not being more than a father then, huh? lmaooooooooo

Answer 4

do the love still exists? and the commitment is too stressful? indecisive whetch to divorce?

dont be too drastic as to divorce. stay together but separated in body and mind so as to free free froam each another but still living under one roof caring and sharing bet each another?

think it the "marriage" and commit,ent that comes with it causing all the stress.

give it a try, dont lose all but "put it on hold"

Answer 5

Hi Diana. Am gonna propose to you something very interesting!!! It can prove to be more in your advantage than in mine!! Am Samy 34 yrs, from Mauritius!! Am on the way to divorce also!! So if you want to hear my suggestion email me on [e-mail]
my mob num is (230)7155649 . From which country you are ???

Answer 6

NO.. DONT DIVORCE...

TRY TO TALK IT OUT TO SEE if you can come to a compromise in taking responsibility on each part...

please think of your children.. without a father or a mother... YOUR CHILDREN NEEDS BOTH OF YOU...

DONT DIVORCE for your stupid reason..

Answer 7

sounds like you need a baby sitter and a vacation. take one day off with your husband and work it out.

Answer 8

You need to talk to someone in the legal profession.

Answer 9

Take it straight to the courts...