Its my hubbys birthday! We have a great sex life, and are always into trying new fun things to keep things interesting. It would be especially cool to have a new trick today to surprise him with. I was just wondering if you guys have any great pointers. Nothing like "light some candles, do something romantic together, blah blah blah" Duh, those things are obvious. Looking for new things to try, not mood setters, etc. So any advice is appreciated, thanks!
2006-08-18 20:01:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-18 20:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty of things to try ..
Cosmopolitan.com has a new sex move once a week ... http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/spow
Also things to try -
The Randy Dice Roll...
Here's an erotic exercise that will keep him entertained for hours:
Whip out a pair of dice and tell him to roll. Whatever number he gets, you'll spend that many minutes doing whatever he wants, be it a lap dance, a body rub or some down there caressing.
Tip:
You'll need a watch with a second hand to ensure a fair game *lol. Then, once he's had his request filled, declare "my turn."
If you haven't yet .. get the liberator set. I have a other suggestions on my 360 blog .. including postions.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-18 20:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should ask what eachother's fantasies are, i.e. costumes/roll play/toys. My favorite sexual experience, and actually one of my first, is when I tied my boyfriend up to the bed post with scarves. It was planned but we were going at it on the bed and I was on top of him and had scarves tied to the bedpost already so thought, this would be a good idea. I also blindfolded him and just kind of played around with his body, nothing too hot and heavy, just tickeling/kissing/licking different areas. I then started to pleasures myselves and when I started moaning he couldn't stand it, so I took off the blindfold to let him take and pick and continued to play with myself. (This was actually the only time I have done this with anyone and it was awesome. ) I know it is hard to do and a couple of glasses of wine can boost your confidence, just don't either of you get drunk of it won't be as good. I didn't do it for too long and I didn't make myself *** because that is his job once you untie. But you have to wait until he is begging you to untie you because once he can touch you he won't be able to stop. This idea might be explicit, you might have already done it. It's just something that was awesome because it's simple and I had never really used the tie/masterbate thing. Just keep it natural and than it won't feel weird. Dammit! I just got myself really turned on by describing this encounter! Good luck!
2006-08-18 20:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by caroline 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how about role playing? lets say you have brown hair and dress like a tramp regularly...try a blonde wig, or dye, and find some librarian clothes...it works in reverse too believe it or not. anything far from what is norm for you.
try pitching a tent in the back yard, or hell, the bedroom 4 that matter....
be waiting at the door when he gets home...be on your knees in something sexy...hell get the idea im sure
i knew a woman who left hints and clues for her man, like boxes with feathers, and hancuffs ect...with notes telling where he would find the next one, they led him to her in a cabin in another town. i thought it was a good idea, but cant manage it myself with 3 kids.
i hope these ideas will help you think of your own unique idea...im sure he will be satisfied with his birthday...
2006-08-18 20:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look it is his birthday. You both must have done something sexual that he loved. Even if it is something done before if he loved it then do it again. Why try something new that might hot meet something you already have done. I am sure you know what he loves the most.
Just wrap yourself up in a ribbon and bow this time.
2006-08-18 21:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a sitter for the kids and go out for the night, detour to the local Motel 6 and get it on like you just met . It feels so sneaky to be there with your husband.
2006-08-18 20:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try vibrators. That will get him all turned on especialy if you show him how to use it or let him feel the power it can have for a women.
2006-08-18 20:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ricoshay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Role playing firefighter and school girl but ask about fantasies you may be surprised
ps good luck
2006-08-22 12:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should bring in another woman. I think you both would enjoy that very much.
2006-08-18 20:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
one thing tha is great is a 10 ft metal pole throught the anal area. i love it!!
2006-08-18 20:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋