Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2006

my boyfriend doesn't want me saying any thing more than hi to any of my old male friends or any males at all. i don't think thats right if i am only talking as friends and nothing more than that. i kind of see where he's coming from but i wanted to know what you all think. let me give you anexample, tonight we were at the mall and i saw an old guy friend that i have not seen in a while becuse he was in the army and i gave him a little hug and my boyfriend got pissed. he said the next time i do that he was gonna leave me and i don't want that because we've been together for a year and i want him to be my husband but i don't know why i think its stupid and i can't stop when i know that he doesn't like it. please help i need advice as on what to do. thanks

2006-08-18 15:09:33 · 16 answers · asked by Mrs.Dennis 3

I can't help it , I blush and the southern belle in me is flattered, is it wrong since I am married?

2006-08-18 15:00:46 · 9 answers · asked by mrskj007 2

please advice

2006-08-18 15:00:34 · 2 answers · asked by carrie 1

I had been with my man for 7yrs & we have kids together, well he confessed that he cheated & may have a baby on the way. He wants us to work it out, but I say "H8ll No!" Should I take him back?

2006-08-18 14:46:09 · 20 answers · asked by justified 1

Hi. I've been married for 5 years. I have one child and pregnant with another. 5 years ago I knew my husband wasnt as good looking physically as other guys I've dated but he treated me great and we seemed to get along so well so I thought he was the one. Now his teeth are yellow, he's gained 20 pounds, his hairy chest (never liked it) is all gray, he has horrible table manners, is a slob when eating ,dresses even worse then when I married him even though I didnt think it wa spossible, is cheap, and I am so lost. Is it because I feel gross about myself? I tried talking to him and he is now not talking to me. I tried the sweet way of offering white strips, buying clothes, and giving him time for the gym but not working. Ugghh. I just want to be semi- attracted to him again even but he comes near me and I want to push him off me.

2006-08-18 14:39:26 · 16 answers · asked by flutter 1

2006-08-18 14:35:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy who just recently went through a divorce, so he's not ready to get too involved with anyone. He and I have been very close friends for about 7 yrs now. I'd like to get more involved with him but not too sure how to do it. He's rather old fashioned, which is a nice change of pace. There are a few things this man loves...Boating, fishing, and his dog. I've asked him to take me fishing, cause it is something I would really like to learn how to do. I've asked him to take me boating, I've even brought treats for his dog. Yet he still won't take me fishing or boating. I'm not asking him for a date, I'm asking him, as my friend, to do these things with me. Something tells me he's scared, really scared, and I'm not sure why. Any suggestions. And before any of you say I must be fat, ugly or bad in bed...I am none of those. :)

2006-08-18 14:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Fuzzy 2

my husband of 9 monhs has left and moved to another state and says he's not coming back and he's never settling with his ex-wife - what to do

2006-08-18 14:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a citizen of the US, my husband is a citizen of the UK, our baby was born in Britian while we were visting my mother in law. we live in San Francisco. What does this make our baby?

Also, should my husband apply for US citizenship?

2006-08-18 14:26:55 · 19 answers · asked by Rose 4

I really want to be dirty...how?

2006-08-18 14:23:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

we eventually split up an she`s been seein someone else, i made a really big mistake cheating on her an i still love her, she never spoke to me since but all of the sudden ive got a text of her tonight sayin `i really miss you, wish things could have been different` what do i do???

2006-08-18 14:19:48 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone know where to get a form to file a Response to a custody modification order for the state of Illinois?

2006-08-18 14:17:41 · 7 answers · asked by momto4 1

What do you regret?

2006-08-18 14:16:28 · 17 answers · asked by timjim 6

Ok here is how it is......I told my husband it was over two years ago. After a traumatic time I stuck to it and it was over. However last april we got back together. It seems we have not changed and the same things still annoy us. I am not with out fault I am sure but he lies all the time right down to when he will be back he has his own place so he can walk out at anytime when he has had enough of family life. his "Sanctuaty" according to him.(Lucky him) I feel angered by this, I envy his freedom. He can go out when he likes yet is I want to go out it is a big deal. I feel trapped again as i did before. He drinks everynight but has cut down to four cans a night which is a step in the right direction.
He barely helps out around the house and he does practically live here. I feel low and not very motivated when i am with him. he does nothing for my self esteem. I have spoken to deaf ears. Should I open my eyes and call it a day for the both of us? he has a good job and works away alot

2006-08-18 14:13:56 · 20 answers · asked by cheaky c 2

2006-08-18 14:13:17 · 20 answers · asked by breszille 2

she's been talking with this guy for over two years,when ever i am not around her. she always calls him 30 to 40 times a day. and they talk for more than 280 minutes on the phone.and she was hiding it from me.and when i found out she told me his only a friend to talk to.

2006-08-18 14:03:30 · 20 answers · asked by DON M 1

Been reading about that weirdo who claims to have killed Jonbenet Ramsay, he married a girl aged 14 in Alabama. My wife says in a lot of southern states it is legal to marry at that age - surely this can't be true in this day & age?

2006-08-18 13:55:28 · 12 answers · asked by Big E 3

Been divorced for 3 yrs. and now I want to start looking for some friends(male) No one night stands. Start slow and see where it goes. (Michigan)

2006-08-18 13:54:42 · 3 answers · asked by SAMMIE JO 1

2006-08-18 13:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by Karen S 1

He has lied to me about so much. I could have gotten an annulment instead of divorce because of his lies. This has really hurt me and I am afraid I won't recover from this easily.

2006-08-18 13:53:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 13:45:42 · 16 answers · asked by ntpsyc 1

2006-08-18 13:40:58 · 40 answers · asked by Vee 3

2006-08-18 13:37:04 · 5 answers · asked by ashu g 1

i still felt very lousy can't forget him. woke up first thing i check my hp is there any sms or miss call frm him biut none.i told myself last nite that i have to change and continue with my real life.spend time with hubby n kids but now i'm still lying on the bed n hoping he will call me.i knew his wife is around that's y he can't call.where is all his promises can't live without me,can't stop thinking of me,love me too much?but now i'm suffering because i kept thinking of him and miss him very much.i don't know how and what to do now.i'm getting mad if this will drag coz i really love him too much.pls help!!

2006-08-18 13:33:07 · 12 answers · asked by hai s 1

31 year old male, married almost 2 years masturbates on a regular basis.
My question is why?
Do you think his wife doesn't satisfy him?
Could it be because someone else turns him on that he can't have?
Don't men prefer the real thing to their hand?
Help me understand this. Thanks

2006-08-18 13:31:20 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

she tells me all about her sex life and asks about mine. i got the hints and ignored them. Finally she blunltly said " I want to have sex with you" Which I kinda played stupid to and ignored. Problem is I am married and she knows it. What is she thinking, and why?

2006-08-18 13:27:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I chatted with a guy from Egypt and he was very nice but asked if I would pay his way to me and after that he would finance me and my kids. I said that he should try to find someone where he lives.

2006-08-18 13:21:52 · 11 answers · asked by vincent_tomcat_purple 1

My aunt is getting married for the second time. She is in her forties, him in his fifties. they both have grown children and are quite well-off, so really don't need any of the traditional wedding gifts.

So my question is, what do I get them for a gift? I am quite a bit younger than them, so giving a monetary gift would be inappropriate. Any ideas???

2006-08-18 13:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 6 years. We have been together for nearly 10 years. We have a 3 year old son. He is an excellent father, and a very hard worker, both around our home and at the job. I am still hot and turned on by him and he is still hot for me.

Here's the problem. He won't quit smoking pot. It affects his emotional state of mind. If he is without it for a day he screams at me over little things in front of our son. The last big argument he demanded I get out of the car and pulled over. I got out and then my son began screaming for me to get in as he took off. He did come back a few minutes later because our son was hyperventalating. We cannot have business discussions about our future goals, the checkbook, etc without him flying off the handle emotionally. He has been diagnosed with obsesive compulsive behavior and does not want to live on medication.
I used to smoke pot with him in the past. It is just this last year I have decided to be quit and be all I can be.

2006-08-18 13:07:36 · 24 answers · asked by tonya h 1

First off, I hate the word cheat & I would rather hear someone say that they were in a marriage and tied down to a family without being in love with their husband (or wife ). To me there is little difference between having children with someone you aren't married to and sleeping with another man (That seems to be okay) Vs. Sharing a house with someone you have children with and sleeping with another man (which makes you a whore).
Remember when we were single and trying to hook up with every good looking man we saw?
Then there is the sad fact of life that your husband (or wife) was the one who stood in front of God (as you put it, not every marriage happens in a church) and made promises that they couldn't keep. So you're saying that we just suck it up and be happy being $hit on day after day.

Remember there's kids and BOTH are the parents.

Sorry but I'm a bit fed up with some of the holier than thou questions and answers, most from people who will change in time? Comments?

2006-08-18 13:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous