she tells me all about her sex life and asks about mine. i got the hints and ignored them. Finally she blunltly said " I want to have sex with you" Which I kinda played stupid to and ignored. Problem is I am married and she knows it. What is she thinking, and why?
2006-08-18 13:27:51 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She considers you a challenge because you are married and unavailable. She wants to see if she can charm you into cheating on your wife. It is common for women to chase after married men to satisfy their egos.... to see if they are "pretty" or "attractive" enough to get a man to cheat on his wife. My guess is that if you were single, or if you too eagerly accepted her proposal, she would lose all interest. Ignore this immature woman.
2006-08-18 13:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Regularguy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think to safeguard yourself - avoid being left alone with her as much as you can - just in case she tries to 'switch' on you and accuse you of something
make someone else you trust aware of what this person is doing
continue to ignore inappropriate remarks - all well and good
it sounds like this person likes the thrill of the chase and considers a married man to have extra 'bonus points' - she thinks little of possible consequences to ehr actions - a background of littered broken relationships in her wake that she shuns taking any responsibility in while she continues her dangerous games
I think to begin with make someone else aware then next time she starts up just give her a firm and polite NO WAY. Never discuss intimate details with a lady who acts that way as it can be mroe difficult to get them to step away from you later on just say that it isnt her business and that you dont want to hear about hers either as it is inappropriate (again that line is far better taken the first time someone tries to overstep the mark rather than the 38th time).
2006-08-18 20:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no respect for the institution of marriage, obviously. She must also be a very sexual person. You have to absolutely clear that you are not interested with her. Tell her straight up. If she persists, you need to tell your boss because it's sexual harrassment, technically, and it's against the law in the workplace. But don't resort to that unless she persists after you tell her in no uncertain terms that you are happily married and not interested. She could find plenty of other guys to have sex with besides a married man. Good for you for wanting to be faithful.
2006-08-18 20:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what she's thinking...don't be stupid. She's telling you what she wants. And if you have been talking to her about your sex life, you have already opened the door. If you are thinking about having an affair, don't try to put all the blame on her. And if you don't want to have an affair, then tell it to her straight. That you are happy where you are and will not cheat on your wife. If she makes in unbearable, then tell your wife the truth, and if you have to switch jobs, then do it.
2006-08-18 20:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes a prick teaser,just ignore her,hopefully she will get the hint,if however she dont you need to point out to her quite firmly that your married and your just not interested. sounds like she wants to have sex to stop what ever is going through her mind but that wont solve nowt.
2006-08-18 20:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by shaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obviously attracted to you but don't let your ego get in the way. What kind of a person IS she if she has such disregard for your marriage? Don't go there, unless you want to put your relationship with your wife in jeopardy. Re-watch Fatal Attraction.
2006-08-18 20:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a game to her.
Much like women are for some men. She wants to see if she can break you, set that faithfulness of yours to zero.
Either you will become the target of her obsession, or the table in the corner.
2006-08-18 20:39:18 · answer #7 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a young girl who finds you attractive and wants you, but since you told her you are married she is a home wrecking whore and its up to you to ignore her lewd innuendos. She will eventually have you fired for sexual harassment when its actually HER doing the harassment. Try to move to another department if possible or report her for what she is doing.
2006-08-18 20:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by amissybell 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come right out and tell her that you have a relationship with your wife and you are not interested in her. She must need someone in her life but tell her its not you.
2006-08-18 20:34:08 · answer #9 · answered by lady_bug418 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground
Some women like to lure married men into their bed!
2006-08-18 20:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋