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she's been talking with this guy for over two years,when ever i am not around her. she always calls him 30 to 40 times a day. and they talk for more than 280 minutes on the phone.and she was hiding it from me.and when i found out she told me his only a friend to talk to.

2006-08-18 14:03:30 · 20 answers · asked by DON M 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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i think you already know the answer, you just dont want to loose her , so your trying to turn a blind eye to the problem, but it does sound like she may be cheating, my wife did it to me also, she had a "friend", and then when i found out there was more to it, she ran off with him

2006-08-19 15:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by crazylarry88 4 · 0 0

Bottom line is she is confiding in another man. The minute that she started sneaking around calling another man, she made the conscience decision to cheat. She calls him 30 times a day? What in the world do you talk to a friend of the opposite sex for 30 times a day? Admit it, you've got a major problem in your marriage. Save your self-respect and tell her you will not tollerate this behavior anymore. Either move out or ask her to leave. Maybe just maybe after a little time apart you can begin to work through your problems together with a counselor. My forgiveness would not come easy, and neither should yours.

2006-08-18 21:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0 0

If she talks with another guy eitehr close to or more than you, you have a problem. It's as if she has almost equal to or more of a relationship with him than you. When she has a life problem, does she go to you, or does she spend her time talking to him about it? If so, you definilty have a problem.

In the week, my wife and I only have the evenings to see each other. So, from 8:00pm, to 11:00, we talk to each other. I'm not on the phone talking to someone else, and she isn't doing that either. If we did, it would be as if we where living together, but bonding with other people instead of each other.

If she is bonding more with him, and not with you, you fix that problem by disccusing with her why she spend more time with him than you. Find out why this is happening. Get to the bottom of this and fix your relationship. Was she always like this? If not, then you lost something in your relationship you need to get back. If she was always like this, then you married the wrong person for the wrong reasons because you had no communication to begin with.

2006-08-18 21:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The answer you're looking for is right there before your very eyes.
Once a day would be bad enough but 30-40x? Wow, some friend!
What makes it even worse is the fact she was hiding it from you. It's time you sit her down and demand some honest answers but save your evidence as proof (if you have any). There's much more to this than you think but since you're here asking the question, I think you already knew that.

2006-08-18 21:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0 0

You don't talk to just a friend 30 or 40 times a day, and if you do you have some sort of serious issue. Besides how many times a day does she talk to you? Common sense is all you need to figure out that this is a line of crap. Don't worry about what her story is, tell her that no matter what it is its unacceptable and to knock it off or get out.

2006-08-18 21:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1 0

Someday u stay at home n 4 c if the incident happened or not or try 2 find the guy phone no 2 asked him out n u can tell wat's going on

2006-08-18 21:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by amy 2 · 0 0

30 to 40 times a day and that guys isn't fed up yet? Think a normal guy would get tired of being bugged that much..

2006-08-18 21:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ibdreamin099 2 · 1 0

Man.....troubles in the air......this is totally BS.....You got a big problem and I feel sorry for you. Does she call and talk to you that much while your away from home? I've had two divorces and no more marriages.....take it from me......you don't have all the details yet.....but if I married again and accepted that anwser from my wife.....I'd consider myself sorta stupid. Get yourself a PI....I did and I BUSTED HER....hehe...

2006-08-18 21:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by SouthernLiberty 2 · 1 0

Face it your wife is cheating even if she is just having phone sex. If she found a way to talk then she found a way to see. Good luck with your divorce because your wife shouln't hide anything from you. Vice versa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-18 21:10:27 · answer #9 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 1 0

sounds like u need to hunt down this so call friend and handle your business and dump the lying b>>ch

2006-08-18 21:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by deelickouse 1 · 1 0

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