my husband of 9 monhs has left and moved to another state and says he's not coming back and he's never settling with his ex-wife - what to do
2006-08-18 14:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if it's not a problem why don't u move to that state w/him..
or u can let him know to stop being a coward because this problem will catch up him.. let him know that he is abandoning u, ur family and ur marriage.. let him know that he has to decide if ur marriage is important or if him not wanting to settle w/his ex-wife is more important and staying away from u..
if he doesn't give u an answer then u need to think about what ur gonna do if he doesn't answer u and if u don't want to move where he is..
2006-08-18 14:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. You are the new wife that he needs to be more concerned with. If this is any indication of years to come get out before the pain runs any deeper.
2006-08-18 14:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he will not going to be settling with 2 ex-wives. He is a Looser!
2006-08-18 14:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Count your losses and let go. Sounds like he's not marriage material for anyone until he can settle down...
Stability is the key word.
2006-08-18 14:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call that "battling" or f...k? Send his things way and tell him to stay there. If he runs like a dog treat him as a dog!
2006-08-18 14:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a baby. tell him to come back or have 2 ex's. in fact tell him to stay there and you will send him the papers
2006-08-18 14:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up!! How on earth did you convince yourself that this was a good choice for a life partner?
2006-08-18 14:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1, if hes not settling for his x.then why wont he come home.whats the problem?I'll tell you ,he dont want you ,he really wants her. just want you to stay avaliable in case she dont work out. so dont make your_self avaliable any longer
2006-08-18 14:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by LELA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't want him to come back anyway....and then move on. He is obviously not worth the effort.
2006-08-18 14:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by Swashmistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow do you and your marriage, ever mean a lot to your husband...why are you waiting for someone like him...divorce isn't always a bad thing....
2006-08-18 14:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋