Marriage & Divorce - 18 August 2006

2006-08-18 04:49:36 · 31 answers · asked by mutt 6

We are newly-weds. He spends the whole day (6 days wkly) working. We're looking for a new house and fixing up our old one to sell so I can understand why he's so busy, but I am lonly and I miss him so much. It's effecting our love makeing. I find myself overeating because of his absence. I have many hobbies but none of them can take the place of my husband; what should I do?

2006-08-18 04:48:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been together for a total of 15 yrs now. We have 2 kids, age 7 & 9 yrs. I don't love him anymore. I've told him a yr ago that I wasn't happy and wanted to leave. He promised to go out with his family more, if I stayed. He only has a little. But even when he does finally go with us, he doesn't have any fun. We have no spark between us. We live more like brother and sister. I hate that. I don't want to live another 15 yrs without knowing what 'love' really feels like. I have been looking for another man, and he knows that. I would move out first, then find a new man, but I have no money saved and large bills. I am hoping a new man will help make the separation a little easier. I am just very lonely and cry when I see other couples holding hands, kissing, hugging, and look like they are in love. ~something I have yet to experience ~very sad, huh. What would you do?

2006-08-18 04:46:12 · 17 answers · asked by dtammyus♥ 3

She has a massive gag reflex, and gags on bananas. I really would like some oral lovin, but she is just not interested. Serious answers only please. Any advice on how to make thw whole process easier on her. I think it is seated deeply in her mind that this is nasty and gross as well, but she will let me perform on her anytime, and loves it!

2006-08-18 04:45:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am Hispanic and my man disagrees with me wanting to hyphenate my name if we get married. I told him it is very important to me to keep my roots. And I feel like I am compromising by adding his name to my own to begin with. What do you all think????

2006-08-18 04:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4

I've been with my boyfriend for 4years. I love him more than anything, we have a wonderful relationship. We do live together and I go to college too. I want to get married, but when he talks to his buddies he makes marriage sound terrible. How long do I wait before I give up?

2006-08-18 04:39:34 · 40 answers · asked by Rae 2

2006-08-18 04:35:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm damn a stupid women that thought he really love me. where are all your promises to me that no matter what happened you will luv me and nobody can separate us. you told me that you love me more than your wife.i felt cheated and guilty towards my hubby and kids.my hubby do not know that i'm having an affair for 3 months with a married man with kids also.but i'm too deeply in luv with him and can't forget him. even on the way home from work i'd cried inside the bus. do he still luv me? i knew if his wife is at home he can't call me at all because afraid that his wife knew it.inside me saying that i have to carry on with my life but on the other hand i can't i really luv him and don't know how i can face the coming days.i miss his kisses because my hubby won't kiss me that's why it's hard for me to forget him.i'm lost and don't know what to do.i think it's best for me to ask him whether he still treasure this relationship or not? please help m!!!!

2006-08-18 04:32:15 · 11 answers · asked by hai s 1

i think i'm not so bad

2006-08-18 04:30:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

she told her ex to get tickets to a show. i asked her and she started a big fight said no he had to work but she went with some friends and saw him there

2006-08-18 04:29:10 · 17 answers · asked by common11@verizon.net 1

2006-08-18 04:27:02 · 4 answers · asked by on2try 2

I will not go into the details of what I did but it wasn't good or healthy to me or my relationship. I have been told I was forgiven the minute my transgression was discovered... I am still loved and I know that. Do I pursue forgiveness? I am trying not to push him.

2006-08-18 04:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by fullofsugaw 5

emotional connection to at all". What to do? There is external stress in our life, but she says this has been going on for some time. I'm more than willing to work on this issue - as relational stuff certainly is involved - but why the "googling"?

2006-08-18 04:23:57 · 7 answers · asked by Whattodo? 1

discuss just what u do with your time all day?

2006-08-18 04:21:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-18 04:18:59 · 7 answers · asked by Me 2

My husband and I have been seperated for a year. I want to resolve our problems, but I'm unsure if he does. He said that he did at one point. But after finding out that I had been dating others, he doesn't know if he can get past it. I dated to get my mind off of him and to meet other people, but I STILL am in love w/ him. I met some potential "candidates;" however, I can't move on until I've tried EVERYTHING to keep my family intact. FYI...he doesn't trust me and swears that I had sex with some or even all of these men--BUT I DIDN'T!!! I just couldn't go there...because my heart still belongs to him.

HELP!!!!!

2006-08-18 04:17:02 · 17 answers · asked by camilla 2

I just wanted to know. I know it's something sacred. But can you take your ring off to put lotion on your hands or clean something that you don't want on the ring?

2006-08-18 04:12:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are both 26 with no kids. She is a HS teacher and I sell insurance. I would like tp know how what girls like in bed the very most. We kind of do the same thing everytime we have sex. (kiss-4play-sex (me or her on top)-done!) What would she like? positions, tricks, ANYTHING will help?

2006-08-18 04:12:09 · 9 answers · asked by sell insurance 2 1

2006-08-18 04:12:01 · 9 answers · asked by soulman2007 1

My wife has been playing a game online called second life. Her avatar is able to have sex and other mature things. Shes been playing heavily with one particular guy. I fouynd out last night that when I was out of town for three days with my daughter, THAT he flew from peurto Rico and stayed in my house and had sex with my wife. I'm completely torn apart. I feel that I still want to repair my marraige. I'm forgiving. I asked my wife for for a few things, A sincere apology, to stop talking to this guy, and to stop playing the game. It's partially my fault. I haven't been very romantic most of my life, and she wants that and needs that in her marraige. I think I can change and be the person she wants me too. QUESTION: Would you forgive her, and how would you change yourself to be a beter person. I only have 150 pts, If possible, I'd give away every point for the best answer.

2006-08-18 04:11:48 · 52 answers · asked by jack j 2

My husband left me for another woman and I am scared I will meet another man who will do the same thing. Do you just take chances and hope for the best?

2006-08-18 04:10:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the military i was wondering if that would apply to us getting married in japan.

2006-08-18 04:06:58 · 33 answers · asked by yobin 1

Does it just depend on whether or not their wife is okay with it? If they are married and are happy with their wife, why would they want or need to see other women naked? These are things that have always bothered me and I wanted to get other people's opinions, men and women.

2006-08-18 04:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by me 6

We had our son 15 months ago. I have lost all my weight and look sexy enough to catch other mens eyes. I am 23 my husband 35. When we do begin sex its like he is not erect and he has to hold it to keep erect. And i always am the one to instigate sex. He never initiates sex. And the last two times he did not finish.

2006-08-18 03:57:33 · 26 answers · asked by marygold2012 2

She is 20 years younger than me, and good looking, but it was an accident, and she is the neighbors girlfriend....neither of us are married. I ahve thought about it in the past, but it was a mutual love thing....not just because she wants my c*ck......what should I do?

2006-08-18 03:56:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i would never get married cause it leads to divorce i don't know nobody that got married and stayed togeather

2006-08-18 03:50:43 · 33 answers · asked by vanillaswisslatte 1

be in relationship where you split everything like working, chores, child care equally? don't say both, you can't eat your cake and have it too.

2006-08-18 03:46:29 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going anyway, with court order in hand but I'm told I can't force him to come here. (he hates us because his dad & grandparents are lying & manipulative) I was beaten for several years & have the scars to prove it. But the idiot judge said a 15 yr old boy should be w/dad. Since his dad will be at work, & he'll be at his grandparents' they can't keep him from me. Can they?

2006-08-18 03:41:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just was wondering what are different things people love about their husband. I am making something for my husband for his birthday and I want to put some pictures with each thing that I say that I love about him. For example one of my things is that I am giong to put is "I love your goofiness....it is what keeps me going". So under that on that page I was going to put pictures of him being goofy. Does that make sense?? Just wondering if anyone has any ideas or suggestions. Thanks

2006-08-18 03:37:55 · 71 answers · asked by Happy Mother and Wife 4

durning his morning routine he leaves them on for at least 45 minutes because he is to lazy to flip the switch to off when he goes upstairs. I pay the bills, not him, so I know it saves money... and besides I make MORE then him yet we split spending money equally. when I ask him to shut them off he gives me serious attidude.

2006-08-18 03:36:38 · 11 answers · asked by Crazy dog lady 3