2006-08-18 04:12:01 · 9 answers · asked by soulman2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This question interests me. I know that when I was a married man that the answer was yes - but I have to admit there certainly times I was tempted from what would be the forbidden fruit. I had a saying I had learned from a female supervisor that became sort of my mantra at the time and have told people this since. It went like this I am not dead so of course when I am out it is normal to look at the menu - however, I knew that I was only to eat at home. During the ten years involvement with my ex-wife I never cheated on her and I have no regrets about that. I believe that you can find good men out there who know not to get involved with their female friends and understand boundries. I think they can be trusted to choose friends that they don't step over that line with them. But if you are that afraid that your husband is - then you need to be having this conversation with your husband and discuss it - don't give ultimatiums - but take with him about your feelings on the matter at the beginning and as things arise. If you don't or don't believe you can - what does that say about your marriage in the first place?
Best of luck to you!!!
2006-08-18 04:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Befriending single women always spells trouble. It doesn;t matter how inoceent it is, some feathers are going to be ruffled the wrong way.
If it's too close for comfort, then it is.
Good luck
2006-08-18 11:21:11 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the single female friend you should be worried about.
2006-08-18 11:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, some women are vicious and love to break up marriages and then they run after they broke you up.
2006-08-18 11:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You people are all crazy, let the poor bastard have a friend!!
2006-08-18 12:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say NO and that's BIG NOOOOOOONOOOOO
2006-08-18 11:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Karrie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no.
2006-08-18 11:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he is asking for trouble !
2006-08-18 13:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 11:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋