she told her ex to get tickets to a show. i asked her and she started a big fight said no he had to work but she went with some friends and saw him there
2006-08-18 04:29:10 · 17 answers · asked by common11@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he had to work, what was he doing there? It is typical of someone that is doing something wrong to start a fight to get the other person off their back. If I were you I would believe that she went with him. She is lying to you.
2006-08-18 04:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It don't look good at all for you. I bet there's more to this picture than what you've just seen. My wife became so defensive when I caught her cheating she fought me every step of the way lying about everything I confronted her on. I went thru all her email and found concrete proof of her infidelity. I printed several copies and hid a few of them, then handed her a copy of each email that proved it all. She ripped it out of my hand, ripped it to shreds and started a huge fight about her privacy. What a whore.
2006-08-18 11:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep a close eye how often she is going out with these friends and how much time she is one the phone or online. I had this happen, and found out that the last 2 weeks of the marriage he was seeing someone else. I know it may be difficult to take better to find out now then wait for the bomb to drop.
2006-08-18 11:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is typical for someone who has something to hide to start a big fight so as to shift the blame... the same thing happened to me though i`m not married... well u can easily see that she is lying, the best thing to do is to talk about it like 2 mature adults...if she still doesnt want to talk then i guess u might start thinking about what u expect of your relationship and whether or not u want to stay with her... i think you should leave her if she doesnt change her ways, what good is it to cling to such a relationship where there is no honesty and no trust?? think about yourself, it wont be fair for u to put yourself through all the doubt and hurt that you will feel... if u want u can separate for a while and then come back together to see how u feel about each other and whether u want to divorce each other or not...
well good luck
2006-08-18 11:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by vedz666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably cheating or about to be. people who ar elying always get way defensive and start a huge fight to turn it back on you and make you forgeet what you were mad at them over. She is lying! Discover the truth!
2006-08-18 11:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all koodos to you for snooping around and getting information that something might be going on. since you're getting suspicious and she already started a fight w/you i would wait till you get the proof you need before you consider dumping her a**. good luck man!
2006-08-18 11:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she started the fight because she was uncomfortable that you found out about it.
2006-08-18 12:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Adam G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she lied to you about it should be a concern. If your relationship is honest and open and nothing is really going on, why does she feel she needs to hide it? Get to the bottom of it and find out what's going on.
2006-08-18 11:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suggest counseling
2006-08-18 11:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Amy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely be concerned about this, especially if asking about it caused a fight..... From guilt, comes anger..... So be careful!
2006-08-18 11:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋